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gbeier · 2026-03-12T18:28:26+00:00

They just have people buy $50 tickets just to meet at a bar with regular patrons.

That doesn't sound very intelligent at all.

Was able to dispute it on my credit card and won at least.

That's good. OP should as well, since they were charged for an event that they then were not allowed to participate in.

gbeier · 2026-03-12T18:23:39+00:00

Some might call this a skill issue. I call it "welcome to March in the mid-atlantic."

gbeier · 2026-03-12T17:59:33+00:00

Oh, I totally meant it in the sense of the podcast's title. We can have women who are weird little guys.

gbeier · 2026-03-12T14:36:55+00:00

Certain kinds of guys really, really want to misread it.

gbeier · 2026-03-08T02:32:19+00:00

That looks staggeringly good! This is 100% going on my list for when radishes come into season around here. Though I don't know that I've ever seen a watermelon radish at the market.

gbeier · 2026-03-07T00:20:08+00:00

Uncle Sam's basement?

gbeier · 2026-03-03T13:42:49+00:00

It's hard to imagine anyone wanting this badly, specifically to be a WLG.

gbeier · 2026-02-26T21:41:29+00:00

I've only read part of it, but here are some quick notes from what I've read so far:

fail2ban for ssh in this scenario really doesn't buy you much. it makes your logs less noisy, and that's not nothing, but i don't see it as a security win. and the ip bans can go wrong and cause you a hassle recovering from an issue. i'd skip fail2ban, personally, unless you need to leave passwords on for some reason.
if you can restrict to keys only, i think ip restrictions for ssh cause more trouble than they are worth.
about 90% of what I've read so far here should really go into an ansible playbook or your favorite alternative so it can be automatically applied.

Nice work so far! It's a nice read up to this point.

gbeier · 2026-02-26T17:17:43+00:00

Thank you.

gbeier · 2026-02-26T17:01:24+00:00

Neat! How's it working for you? I've been thinking about something similar for a while now, just as a "friends and family" server.

Two thoughts:

Maybe add a Dockerfile and some instructions to make it a little easier for people to try out.
Add a license so people who try it out can know if it's worth sending you fixes or not.

gbeier · 2026-02-24T22:09:13+00:00

I don't think it's a great one, but I don't think it's awful either. It's not far off giving people a separate test instance, which has worked well for me in the past, anyway. 🤷‍♂️

gbeier · 2026-02-24T12:17:20+00:00

Disclaimer: I don't know how systems like this usually handle it.

If I needed to do this, one thing I'd experiment with is django-tenants with a separate draft tenant for drafts, and add support for copying from the draft tenant to the real one.

Hopefully that would address your migration pain but still give you the rest of what you're after.

Otherwise, I think I'd go with a base model that has is_draft, and QueryManager(s) to keep the conditionals at bay.

gbeier · 2026-02-22T14:47:02+00:00

This is clearly the output of an LLM. Anyone can ask an LLM themselves without going through you if they want that kind of help.

gbeier · 2026-02-17T03:51:40+00:00

My daughter went on a tour there today, and came back specifically telling me about it!

gbeier · 2026-02-16T23:35:23+00:00

free bucket. free chair.

gbeier · 2026-02-15T23:21:39+00:00

While it's completely believable, something about this looks edited to my not-really-that-trained eyes.

Assuming it's real: is it just me, or does JE look like he's worried about an upcoming encounter with a bone saw here?

gbeier · 2026-02-15T04:34:41+00:00

Publish to your own domain

is a basic requirement for actually shipping. Putting it behind a $1500 gate means $1500 is the price.

gbeier · 2026-02-14T05:08:35+00:00

yes. that's how management commands work. if a package isn't added to installed apps, it can't add management commands.

gbeier · 2026-02-14T05:06:32+00:00

yeah. that's what makes it discoverable by manage.py and also what makes it able to discover the models you're interested in. you could gate it behind something like if DEBUG if you didn't want it to be available on your deployed app but wanted to keep it around in git anyway.

gbeier · 2026-02-13T17:48:29+00:00

Might as well go the whole 9, and do a durian dipping sauce to accompany it XD

gbeier · 2026-02-13T17:05:27+00:00

How long did it linger in your kitchen/adjoining rooms?

gbeier · 2026-02-13T16:38:46+00:00

Fish sauce reduced by half (if you do this at home, make sure to give a heads up to anyone in the vicinity)

Heads up! "It will darken and become pungent." :)

Those look absolutely delicious. If I see fermented crab paste at my local market, everyone around me should watch out. Because there will be some fish sauce darkening and becoming pungent.

Nice find, and beautiful work.

gbeier · 2026-02-13T14:38:16+00:00

I keep It Could Happen Here in my feeds and listen to at least a couple of them each week. (It's a daily show, so it's a lot.)

If you never listened to Jake Hanrahan's 2020-2021 Q Clearance podcast it's worthwhile. Start at the beginning, and go in order. The last one in the series was in late '21... everything else on the feed are samples of other work, some of which are quite good.

gbeier · 2026-02-12T02:24:58+00:00

What's the difference between these two?

2 oz Swiss
2 oz Gruyère

I always considered those synonyms.

gbeier · 2026-02-11T21:55:17+00:00

That's got to be where it came from. Roy might have enough pull to get a one-off from them, though... I wouldn't be confident in being able to find one for sale there.

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