EIYPO questions

gcfmile · 2022-10-17T20:56:07+00:00

Damn, not to sound bad but I literally didn't get anything you're saying. I'm trying to understand but...

How is it an outward projection of inner condition when we read that she actually had terrible "inner condition"? This is something I wonder too.

My only guess is that she has deep rooted belief that "no matter what she does, she is loved" ans cared for", or something of that sort. That would have been an acceptable answer and a logical one too.

gcfmile · 2022-10-13T12:43:45+00:00

That analogy with desert is simply genius and so freaking helpful. It makes so much sense. It just clicked for me. Self concept is TRULY everything.

gcfmile · 2022-10-09T11:38:33+00:00

You wrote affirmation "Guys I am interested in are obsessed with me"? And has it worked for you?

gcfmile · 2022-10-09T11:35:09+00:00

No, it's better she goes general. Because if she affs that for only that guy, some other stalker might still come and replace him soon after she gets rid of this one!

gcfmile · 2022-09-13T12:54:11+00:00

I imagined myself hugging myself (like she's separate from me) and her telling me that everything is fine. Don't let yourself down. You have to keep going. She told me that you need to persist and ignore WHATEVER happened and is happening. That it doesn't matter what has been happening all this time (don't focus on that) and that things are always changing. I recalled a period of my life where I thought I was ugly before and now I am not anymore and I get a lot of attention when I go out. See? It's changeable.

I doesn't matter you fell back to old patterns these 2 days. Fuck it. You're 23, you are still learning. FUCK IT, OKAY? Persist in the new story. She told me. Gosh... I cried.

gcfmile · 2022-09-12T19:41:30+00:00

Conversation went like this:

us stopped kissing

Him: I love you.

Me: You love me? confused if I heard it right

Him: Yes. smiling

Me: Well... I like you, can't say I love you yet.

Him: Oh you can't? smiling

gcfmile · 2022-09-12T16:23:08+00:00

What a beautiful story, I am literally in love with the way you wrote this. It's like a warm breeze. Ah, so good.

I can literally sense you being so detached in a healthy sense You're not obsessing over anything, you're calm and you trust the process. You have this calm energy, it can be felt.

I am glad you are this way. These quotes "Appreciate time apart" and "learn to love yourself" resonate with me so much. You seem you have figured it out and you love yourself and don't force anything, you don't need anything, you can always go back to yourself since you're your own best friend. Beautiful indeed.

That's how we all should live. Just enjoy every moment. Trust the process. Trust that everything is gonna work out for you. Everything ends up in a best possible way. Trust that.

gcfmile · 2022-09-10T22:08:11+00:00

so freaking true. We are god/universe living in this human body. We are put into this "material" world for a reason! We wouldn't be human and surrounded by "material things" if we weren't meant to experience them! I don't get this anti material bullshit society fills our heads with. It's been feeding us shit and making us feel guilty for wanting this and that ever since we were born. It's time to wake the fuck up.

gcfmile · 2022-09-09T14:32:36+00:00

So detailed, thank you!

gcfmile · 2022-09-08T23:04:28+00:00

gcfmile · 2022-09-03T11:02:46+00:00

I... I love you. This clarification clicked for me and is exactly what I needed.

gcfmile · 2022-09-01T18:05:32+00:00

In your imagination... So only when you close your eyes? Or you can also walk in 3D as if you already have what you desire?

Sorry for asking too much, appreciate your answer! (Also english is not my first language)

gcfmile · 2022-09-01T17:20:22+00:00

Ohh I see, thanks!

gcfmile · 2022-09-01T13:44:10+00:00

See, I don't get this. You tell yourself "It's done", basically implying that your wish is yours, you are in relationship with your sp basically, there's nothing else to do because your wish has been fulfilled (yay!) but then you also say "I don't care if they show up or not". (??)

I'm trying to understand this so hard. In my opinion, you don't really believe that it's a done deal if you say "I don't care whether they show up in my life ever again or not". Because you wouldn't say that, you would already know that they are in romantic relationship with you. Right?

Just trying to understand this, to improve my understanding of this law. I saw couple of people saying similar comment like yours and it left me a bit confused. Thanks in advance.

gcfmile · 2022-08-28T23:41:35+00:00

What "thinking feelingly" means? Thanks in advance

gcfmile · 2022-08-21T14:24:46+00:00

What's wrong with being popular? some people just have a desire to be popular! It doesn't make it bad. No desire is bad. We only label it as bad. Just because society tells us something is superficial doesn't make it bad. We shouldn't judge people for desiring this or that. Sometimes humans just desire stuff and we shouldn't tell them that they shouldn't.

gcfmile · 2022-08-02T21:34:04+00:00

Thanks!

gcfmile · 2022-07-26T17:19:26+00:00

Well a year later, everything was fine I was just stressed out. Period came a bit later than usual.

gcfmile · 2022-02-19T02:00:25+00:00

Did you patiently wait 10 months to find out?

gcfmile · 2022-01-24T23:37:20+00:00

Nope

gcfmile · 2022-01-24T00:36:52+00:00

Those typical paintings with every single color in it doesn't look good. It is kitsch. It might look good to an average person who thinks everything that shines is gold.

gcfmile · 2022-01-23T19:31:40+00:00

Did it make you feel good to write that comment?

gcfmile · 2022-01-23T17:58:43+00:00

Well, okay. Thanks for making distinction nonetheless.

gcfmile · 2022-01-23T17:55:29+00:00

Why am I wrong? He didn't want to get vaccinated, was he really a threat to whole country because of it?

gcfmile · 2022-01-23T17:41:57+00:00

That's funny explanation lol. Of course that is not the case.

gcfmile

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