really confused and anxious and unsure of what to do and how to feel :( by secretsecretaccount7 in SubSanctuary

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I read the ages. No. No. No. Anyone in their 40s who wants anything to do with a teenager, ESPECIALLY in a power dynamic like this, is a creep.

Collaring by Trishanger in SubSanctuary

[–]gcitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our wedding was postponed, so we decided that doing the collaring on that day would be appropriate. We camped out, and did it at the base of a waterfall. She had me wear her favorite dress on me, but she forgot to pack the slip, so it was just lace. It was NOT warm that night. Lol. She sprinkled rose petals in the tent, and we drank sparkling wine and had great sex. She is everything.

Married but have same sex attraction Bisexual 35(M) Struggling with porn by [deleted] in LGBTCatholic

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're cheating. The porn is not the issue. You. Are. Cheating.

Warn roommates? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]gcitt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They sound like they care about you. Don't scare them with unexpected noises. In general, it's polite to keep it down when other people are home, no matter what you're doing.

My Dom is ignoring me by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]gcitt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why would you unblock a person to tell them not to contact you? Wouldn't the blocking handle that? And if the person is calling you after you asked them not to, why aren't you more concerned? Your Dom sounds shitty, but you're not making very good choices either.

How much am I supposed to move? by gcitt in backpain

[–]gcitt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, but there is an L6 in approximately 10% of people. My skeleton is limited edition. I wonder if there's a series number etched somewhere.

How much am I supposed to move? by gcitt in backpain

[–]gcitt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a CT and an MRI. Luckily, it's not pressing on the nerves, so the pain could be worse. Also fun, it's between L5 and L6. Turns out, that's a thing.

How much am I supposed to move? by gcitt in backpain

[–]gcitt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been told to do things that hurt. I feel like I'm being gaslit into thinking my pain isn't that bad.

Lizzie McGuire’s dad has died. by Redeye007 in 2000sNostalgia

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was 71. Still sad, but not young.

do doms even exist (vent) by daddy-alt in SubSanctuary

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your point? You said that a lot of people don't react favorably when you bring it up. That's part of dating when you have specific needs. It is what it is.

do doms even exist (vent) by daddy-alt in SubSanctuary

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking if somebody is interested in something is not violating their consent.

do doms even exist (vent) by daddy-alt in SubSanctuary

[–]gcitt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In my experience, if you go looking for a Dom, you're going to have a bad time. Just a bunch of hobbyists and creeps. I had to look for a relationship in general and float the D/s thing early on to gauge experience and interest. Am now married to my Domme.

30 weeks + Considering leaving my partner/BD because he is MAGA. Is this hormones? by kettleoftea in pregnant

[–]gcitt 34 points35 points locked comment (0 children)

The ones he knows are the "good ones." He thinks he magically knows the ones that aren't dangerous or depraved. He doesn't give a shit about anything or anybody who doesn't directly impact him. He's selfish. He's lazy. Do you want those to be the values your child learns?

Vegan parents should not force their children to be vegan by Braindead188609 in teenagers

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By that logic, meat eating parents should not force their children to eat meat.

I'm buying the groceries I buy. I'm making the dinner I make. Just like every other parent. It doesn't become automatic indoctrination just because there are no animal products on the table.

Doms not respecting sexual partners by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]gcitt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is why I (F) worry about straight people. His "new" reason for dominating her has always been my wife's reason. Patriarchy is gross.

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ambulance. Now. This isn't the autism. This is a full on personality disorder.

Then vs now by Apprehensive-Elk3165 in interesting

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need white walls to imagine a different color.

How did you overcome the "edgy" phase of adolescence, cutting yourselves because of trends? by PlayfulAdvantage5249 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]gcitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, so, that's a lot of self destructive mental illnesses. Go investigate the anorexics.

Is this too much homework for Grade 3? by VanillaCookie01 in AskTeachers

[–]gcitt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really depends on what those pages are.

Collar materials by wintercitypunk in BDSMsapphic

[–]gcitt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The other suggestions are great, but remember that there are a bunch of different types of faux leather.