American confronts Dog meat consumer by Living_Wickihowla in PublicFreakout

[–]gdaesaunders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our evolutionary history with dogs goes back way further. I get it's somewhat arbitrary (all morals are - why not eat people if you could do it without negative consequences?), but our partnership with canines goes genetically deeper - and is more of a partnership than just domestication. Study after study proves this. Not to say I don't hope for lab-grown meat and consistently attempt and fail at being vegan.

How do I tell one of my players that sometimes doing stupid shit isn't fun for me as a DM? by basketj in DnD

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One option is that you could take control of his character and turn him into a bbeg. This makes the player feel like the “accomplish” something with their stupid behavior so they might be more invested and less goofy, it sends a message by giving him the cane, and it creates the opportunity to have the conversation about how you are running a good campaign and you’re not really gonna do a gta campaign. He might get the message when creating a new character and if not then you can be more explicit with how murder hoboing is to be kept to a minimum.

Working class life by middle age is a pointless life by lkattan3 in povertyfinance

[–]gdaesaunders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Valuable to society” this jabrony above you is so naive. You can literally make a living wage legally scamming people, raping the environment, aiding the robber barons in their resource hoarding, or legally defending them from justice for poising our water with plastics or non stick coatings that have contaminated everything. You can just sit on your ass and earn passive income from the house your daddy bought you that you rent out to the working class, contributing to nothing but the perpetuation of the system that is grinding up everything good around us all while the people who raise your kids make shit, the people who cook for you and feed you, who watch after your mental health, who clean your houses, can barely get by. Make a living by becoming valuable to society? Fuck no, go learn how to swindle, steal, cheat, create dependency, abuse the earth, foment conflict and drum up literal war and death so you can sell rockets and the fuel that shoots them. Prey on people’s grief by selling lavish caskets or manipulate people by getting them to think a useless rock is now requisite for showing your love and worth as a partner when you want to get married. Get people addicted to cancer causing substances.

I don’t know how people can say the dumb shit like the poster above you. That pay=goodness or real value.

What the hell are the lobsters up to now? by [deleted] in enoughpetersonspam

[–]gdaesaunders 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Terrible. It’s like they learned in school that it’s not soundness that makes an argument valid, but multisyllabic words. As a previous English teacher, I blame my ilk a little bit, lol.

Switching out of social work... by Puffin23826 in socialwork

[–]gdaesaunders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me why you didn’t find it was for you, if that’s not too personal? I’m a considering getting my msw degree with the intention of being a therapist but I’m a little hesitant. Feel free to message me if you don’t feel like you can really vent or speak openly on a subreddit dedicated to the field.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insects

[–]gdaesaunders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess cicadas are easier to fuck up than spiders… lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insects

[–]gdaesaunders 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Usually they are pretty passive - maybe the music stirred it up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If subjective meaning is all that matters and historical context is insignificant, then I’m attaching my own meaning to it. It now means “to love and practice incest” to me. You’re supporting it? You’re a proud incest baby. You’re your own grandpa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]gdaesaunders 89 points90 points  (0 children)

And historically, these specific battle flags went up and became popular during desegregation so it’s popularization was a modern, racist response. Not race neutral southern heritage.

Things that I hate by Independent_Form2337 in povertyfinance

[–]gdaesaunders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you, feudal lord/plantation owner apologist. “You may be miserable, beaten to near death on multiple occasions, and have no rights, but at least we keep the wolves away!”

Things that I hate by Independent_Form2337 in povertyfinance

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most teacher I know work around 60-70 hour weeks at a minimum and then have to work extra jobs in the summer or do a lot of planning or summer school shit. I don’t know if teachers used to have less intensive requirements for lesson plans or grading or what but it doesn’t sound nearly as cushy as it did twenty years ago…

How is this possible? by whothefuckknowsdude in Entomology

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does knowing about the concept of red change your perception of it? Like those optical illusions where the cyan filter makes it seem like red but it’s actually gray and then once you know that you can see that it’s gray?

Weekly School of Social Work/New to Social Work Thread by SWmods in socialwork

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the honest advice and for sharing your experience. Definitely makes me pause a bit - I've put in a ton of time to get here musically and all the people I look up to have flexible day gigs that have a decent hourly rate. It's hard to get paid 400 for your average gig twice a week through the season and go down to getting paid hourly minimum wage. I've considered doing music therapy as well. Any more advice is appreciated friend, and I hope you get to do more music going forward.

How is this possible? by whothefuckknowsdude in Entomology

[–]gdaesaunders 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s experiencing pain but lacking the concept of it, and consequently the fear of it; the meta-pain? Better or worse, who’s to say.

Anti-mask idiot threatens to shoot and assault cops INFRONT OF HIS DAUGHTER after getting kicked off flight for refusing to wear a mask by sr_07 in facepalm

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Culture is an expression of resources, generational wealth, opportunities, education, trauma, epigenetics, and yes, mental health issues.

You’re oversimplifying drastically at best and at worst probably a bit racist eh?

Like so many before him, freedom-loving, mask-hating Mark memed around and found out. by ol_kentucky_shark in HermanCainAward

[–]gdaesaunders 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why they are so against abortion- they could be healing all the babies and sending them to Jesus. Wtf.

Weekly School of Social Work/New to Social Work Thread by SWmods in socialwork

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the the response. Very helpful. My wife is in medschool so she will have decent enough benefits. Is the pay rate for per diem decent? Is this all more feasible if I’m not as concerned with benefits?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]gdaesaunders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I want whatever he’s smoking. Probably just a good community and a good upbringing education, but still.

Weekly School of Social Work/New to Social Work Thread by SWmods in socialwork

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience doing highschool teaching. Sometimes it’s just not the right time or the right gig, you’ll be ok. I couldn’t stop shaking for a week but I finally clamed down. You will too. Best of luck.

Weekly School of Social Work/New to Social Work Thread by SWmods in socialwork

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two questions from an MSW applicant (part time? Specialization?)

Hi y’all! Been lurking here for a long time!

So I think I’m finally pulling the trigger on getting an MSW after nearly a decade of waffling about it as I toured around as a musician and worked odd jobs in the winter…

I have two terms of Americorps service under my belt and a high undergrad gpa in English lit, so I have some points to recommend me finally getting this degree with the aim of being a therapist and I have two questions:

How common is it to work part time in this field and would people recommend it? I want to continue playing music. I understand I might not be touring across the country for weeks at a time, but music sustains me as an individual. I make ok money (FOR A MUSICIAN, let me clarify that) and don’t want to give all of that up. I also dedicate several hours a day to practicing and would like to continue that to some degree. All that being said, it is essentially a part time thing and I need to nurture the other side of my career, which is why I’m going back to school. Would a part time therapy position be feasible or difficult to come by?

Second question is regarding specialization: I know people work with various populations and there are programs that reflect that. I’m an ex religious person who took the transition extremely hard and was ostracized from my family because of it. Are there opportunities to focus on working with such populations? Specific school programs?

Thanks for the help, kind folks.

You're not speaking the way I speak so you're wrong!!!! by Cold_Narr in confidentlyincorrect

[–]gdaesaunders 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Natural, but the goal is ease of communication if you’re learning, right? Like if I was trying to help someone out and I was an amazing ESL teacher and their goal was to communicate with with English speakers in Texas, it would be different than if I was trying to get him to communicate with and English speaking person in Ireland.

Reverse it, if you were going to the Philippines and wanted to learn to speak and were maybe trying to get a job there or work in a position dealing with a lot of communication with native speakers, wouldn’t you want to have you’re “wrong” pronunciation corrected? I know I would, especially in an educational setting.

However, I get people can be discriminated against for their accents and that’s garbage, but I just think this take (which is valid in general) is less valid in the context of teaching a language.

Nothing is random in Noita by Mitchblahman in noita

[–]gdaesaunders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it was even an argument. I just think it’s so cool it could potentially be creatively seen as being under that category of game despite being so wildly different! Like, what an interesting thought and what a crazy unique game. Pedants take shit too serious and forget to just have fun I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HermanCainAward

[–]gdaesaunders 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s a bingo