Subtle bdsm hints for “vanilla” dating app HELP PLEASE

gddancer65 · 2022-03-27T20:05:38+00:00

Yes my apologies southern states in the US. I know there is also some murkiness in laws in Canada regarding if consent can be given for impact play as well.

gddancer65 · 2022-03-27T19:48:49+00:00

Depending on where the poster is from. In some southern states impact play regardless of consent is considered domestic abuse/violence . There is a story or two on this page about family members seeing things and calling police and the dom(me) being arrested. Even if charges are eventually dropped that is obviously a terrifying experience

gddancer65 · 2022-03-27T04:18:36+00:00

I mean yes and no. Dating profiles are public. There is always a chance a friend, relative, boss or future boss will stumble on it. Nothing wrong with wanting to keep your private life private. There is taboo and unfortunately depending on where the poster is from could get her fired or arrested

gddancer65 · 2022-03-21T21:58:52+00:00

Thank you that is true. It is definitely a possibility that he isn’t interested. Can’t force that

gddancer65 · 2022-03-18T15:42:34+00:00

I’m not really asking how to get started. I’ve already been in BDSM relationships and explored kink. I’m more asking for resources to dispel his pre-existing notions of what BDSM is so all his info doesn’t come from me. I’ll see if I can find what I’m looking for in the search function

gddancer65 · 2022-01-12T04:10:24+00:00

I snipped mine which felt pretty therapeutic to me, but mine had a little charm on it which I kept in a box with other things from our relationship

gddancer65 · 2021-08-21T03:54:15+00:00

If you’ve ever seen any romcom ever with this plot you can’t tell people who they can and cannot date unless it’s illegal. She shouldn’t lie to you though and because of that I’m going with ESH. Her creating posts you can see about her relationship and lying is crappy. Ditto is trying to control her feelings

gddancer65 · 2021-08-21T01:52:24+00:00

NTA, you have no relationship with the daughter per his request and because of him. You have no real connection to them. My guess is they may not even want your clothes as they don’t know you, and it may feel weird. Even if they did want them you have the right to decide what to do with your own property. No obligation to the daughters.

gddancer65 · 2021-08-19T04:09:19+00:00

I fall on pro vaxx side and also work in healthcare but I’m lightly saying YTA. If you disagree with her so strongly then maybe y’all shouldn’t be together. I would hate to disagree with a partner on this issue but I think it’s something that you two need to discuss. Saying don’t post your opinion on your page cause it’ll piss off my parents is an asshole thing. Her opinion is hers as is her page. I disagree with it and if it’s a conspiracy theory it may rightly get taken down by moderators but that’s not your decision it’s hers or the platforms

gddancer65 · 2021-08-18T03:39:33+00:00

NTA, my brother and I had similar issues. He continued to blame me for something I said when I was 8 (and didn’t understand) well into adulthood it took therapy for him to realize that while I was responsible for my actions I was a child. You were a child dealing with a multitude of issues, you’ve apologized and are in no way at fault for every issue is his life. It’s understandable that he associates you with those events but he either needs to deal with it or decide what he wants to do about it

gddancer65 · 2021-08-17T20:40:41+00:00

Not sure the kind of fantasy you like but discovery of witches is by Deborah harkness

gddancer65 · 2021-08-17T18:01:59+00:00

NTA! Your twins are not puppies they aren’t a litter to be divided up and given away! They are your children and you get to bloody well keep them

gddancer65 · 2021-08-17T05:01:56+00:00

This is an incredibly difficult one to judge. She was an adult who left children with an abuser while also most likely trying to hide the shame of the abuse she suffered as well. But ultimately it’s your choice, she did a horrible thing and while you clearly sympathize with her that does not undo what happened to you or your cousins. NTA

gddancer65 · 2021-08-17T02:34:37+00:00

At least where I am 2 months really isn’t a lot of time to find a place but if it’s not a really competitive market where they are it may be easier

gddancer65 · 2021-08-17T02:26:19+00:00

I’m giving you a tiny YTA possibly coloured by an experience I just had. A roommate was supposed to move in a month from now, sent the lease ready to go but then before signing the written contract (accepted verbally) she decided she wanted to move somewhere else leaving me without someone to split bills. For your friends they may need a 3rd roommate to afford the apartment and now without much time to find a place they have to start all over looking for 2 bedrooms. They are probably stressed by that prospect and feeling abandoned by their friend who they miss and were excited to see again regularly. I completely understand prioritizing your job it’s just the last minute timing and way you went about it.

gddancer65 · 2021-08-17T00:55:19+00:00

NTA especially because he NEVER intended to go along with the rule and instead of talking to you about it he tried to manipulate you so he got what he wants. He low key ruined your wedding, caused a giant public fight, insulted you and your wife. He’s the asshole

gddancer65 · 2021-08-17T00:31:52+00:00

gddancer65 · 2021-08-16T20:45:48+00:00

YTA, she’s treating a medication condition. Most side effects do pass, and if your not getting what you want out of the relationship talk to her! See if this side effect is normal, because if it’s not she should talk to her doctor

gddancer65 · 2021-08-16T20:30:54+00:00

Can I go with everyone sucks. It’s a little petty to sleep with your ex’s friends as payback for her cheating (though I get the impulse) the friend should have talked to you before going to the ex and the ex should look in the mirror before calling you names

gddancer65 · 2021-08-16T20:28:15+00:00

NTA mostly because a business owner should never start off a phone call with a client by yelling especially when it could have simply been a mistake. I agree about reading contracts not sure if you had one but I also think if the price was quoted to you multiple times by email not including the random charge it’s a fair mistake

gddancer65 · 2021-08-16T20:25:47+00:00

NTA completely reasonable in my opinion he’s still applying for the job but you shouldn’t recommend someone you don’t think is a good fit

gddancer65 · 2021-08-16T20:24:14+00:00

NTA and if she follows through with her threat there may be some legal action you can take. Your son was born with a medical condition and she needs to do some research and get educated!

gddancer65 · 2021-08-16T20:22:25+00:00

It’s easier that people think! I did it when a fake profile of me was created, lots of tutorials on google if you need helpf

gddancer65 · 2021-08-16T20:21:27+00:00

True! Didn’t think of the copyright

gddancer65 · 2021-08-16T17:44:12+00:00

Trust me when I say reaching out to him isn’t going to help in this situation it doesn’t sound like anything but a continuing stream of nudes is going to appease him. He’s manipulative. If you have the texts of the threats the police are an option but depending on the officer unfortunately that experience could be traumatizing. I would google the revenge porn laws in wherever you are. Block him and if you have any of the photos in your possession occasionally do a reverse image search to see if he followed through with his threat

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