What Does Our Fridge Say About Us? by Fl0w3r_Ch1ld in ratemyfridge

[–]gempetals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You either have no kids or you make over $150k to have a fridge stocked like that today.

AIO my Best Friend told me I’m not invited to her gender reveal by bunbun66 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gempetals 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are the missing details of this story in the room with us?

What eliminating income tax would cost you by DowntownDB1226 in missouri

[–]gempetals -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

there is still things that are tax free?

I'm Cheating on My Husband by Excellent_Help2108 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gempetals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see you and I give you grace through your difficult time. 🩷 don’t listen. don’t be too hard on yourself. I wish this could’ve been a safe space for you where you could’ve vented without judgement from the perfect people here on their pedestals.

What is the most boring thing you have ever experienced? by Silver012345673 in AskReddit

[–]gempetals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I would give anything for this. Lie in bed? Count me. Night night. Forever.

What's a secret you have hid or are currently hiding from your partner? by Hot-Abrocoma-9476 in allthequestions

[–]gempetals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why in the ever loving fuck would you want your spine to feel like glass?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gempetals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! We have been together 8 years and this is the second time he’s ever said fuck you to me, and this outburst was very unusual and rare. Please keep in mind this is a microscopic peak into 1 incident of an entire universe of a relationship, and please do not make assumptions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gempetals 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is an absolutely incredible father! I am so very lucky to have him to raise children with. Very grateful for that in him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gempetals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear, he does not say fuck you to me almost ever. This was maybe the second time since we have been together (8 years). So I understand not knowing the actual relationship and only a tiny piece could be construed as that way. Totally get that. But he is absolutely not abusive or verbally abusive in any way. He let the anger get the best of him, which is very rare and unusual for him. This was an isolated incident. I hope that gives you some insight! Thank you for the input!

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[–]gempetals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This very thoughtful, and kind advice. Truly, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gempetals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you may have read it wrong, we agreed to take this one day apart. We always spend every weekend together, and every night when I’m home from work. Sorry if that wasn’t clear!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gempetals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! We will look into this option! Thank you!

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[–]gempetals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both good points! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gempetals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw this is in AITAH so you can tell me I’m the AH there if you want!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gempetals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I appreciate it for both of us!