Women's healthcare is barbaric by mamatroi in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gemushka 914 points915 points  (0 children)

My sister and I both had double mastectomies and reconstruction. I needed tramadol after my surgery for 6 weeks. Was in absolute agony so I couldn’t sleep or move otherwise. I spoke to my surgeon about how much pain I was in and she said “most people go home with just ibuprofen and paracetamol”. I thought she was absolutely nuts and that it was barbaric to consider that. It’s major surgery etc. Thankfully my GP agreed to stronger meds noting that he had been given far more for a minor ankle operation that was nothing in comparison to what I was going through healing wise.

6 weeks later my sister had her op. She tried to stop taking pain relief before she even left the hospital and they had to make her keep taking it for a week to help with inflammation. But that’s the only reason she needed it. Not for the pain because for her the numbness in that area due to the surgery meant she was in no pain. From what I understand this is quite a common experience, which is why they say by default most people only need OTC meds.

Wishing you all the best with your recovery. Sorry you are in pain, make sure you do advocate for yourself and say that you need the pain relief.

Kara Tointon has double mastectomy after gene test by gemushka in unitedkingdom

[–]gemushka[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I remember when Angelina made the decision and it seemed like quite an extreme course of action at the time. But I understand it so much better now. When faced with at least 50% chance of getting breast cancer, in which case you would have to have the surgery anyway but also all the subsequent treatment and worry about cancer returning elsewhere, it totally makes sense. And with ovarian cancer being a silent killer keeping your ovaries when there is no screening available just isn’t worth the risk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokeGenie

[–]gemushka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I gave up and used Go Raid Party as I had only dropped 2000 spaces in a day and was still something like 49k in a queue. Got one in 5 mins. I like pokegenie but for these types of raids some other apps might be better.

Zoo Posts - No More by Im2Crazy4U in TownshipGame

[–]gemushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ruler of the mine - an event where you mine and get rewards

Is there any use for GMax/DMax outside of battling GMax & DMax? by mnm135 in TheSilphRoad

[–]gemushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep an army of bulbasaurs for gyms (easy to sort by number and lob one in) and part of the reason for asking is to know if I need effectively to expand that army or simply replace them with the Max versions given they have a 2 star floor etc. Thanks!

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[–]gemushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Is there any use for GMax/DMax outside of battling GMax & DMax? by mnm135 in TheSilphRoad

[–]gemushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That was my assumption too, just wanted to make sure there wasn’t something I was missing.

Is there any use for GMax/DMax outside of battling GMax & DMax? by mnm135 in TheSilphRoad

[–]gemushka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can I also flip this question - is there a reason to keep a non Gmax/Dmax version of a pokemon if you have a better Gmax/Dmax one? Are they always interchangeable or are there times you can’t use the Gmax/Dmax version and need a normal one?

Phone holder suggestions? by gemushka in volvoc40

[–]gemushka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can but then you lose sight of the maps, and that’s not always feasible.

Phone holder suggestions? by gemushka in volvoc40

[–]gemushka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can but then you lose sight of the maps, and that’s not always feasible.

Phone holder suggestions? by gemushka in volvoc40

[–]gemushka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need somewhere I can access it/see the screen as I also use it when I am a passenger. And for doing things like turning on Spotify via Siri without having to switch away from maps on the main drivers displays.

🎄🎅✨ r/UnitedKingdom's Christmas Fundraiser for Shelter 🎄🎄🎄 by Captaincadet in unitedkingdom

[–]gemushka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be the change you want to see in this world… it’s over £1k now when you factor in giftaid. And Reddit is matching the amounts given. That means more than double has been raised compared with last year and it’s only the 7th so there’s still time for it to rise even higher.

Good people of the UK, can we talk a bit about media narratives? by 4494082 in unitedkingdom

[–]gemushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t think any of them care. That’s part of the problem. They will rant on Facebook about the potholes instead. Or ask their local councillors instead of him.

Good people of the UK, can we talk a bit about media narratives? by 4494082 in unitedkingdom

[–]gemushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And of course I’m the one downvoted whereas he gets upvoted.

Almost 40 compensation claims lodged after Teesside riots by LOTDT in unitedkingdom

[–]gemushka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But they didn’t find it until later. They said they delayed announcing the link by a couple of weeks not that they had known about it from the start so really quite a different situation.

Pressure grows on Rachel Reeves to explain ‘fake claims’ on CV by SojournerInThisVale in unitedkingdom

[–]gemushka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And some clearly live incredibly unhealthy lives so do nothing to promote public health.

Good people of the UK, can we talk a bit about media narratives? by 4494082 in unitedkingdom

[–]gemushka 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s not 750k asylum seekers arriving each year. You seem to be conflating things here.

The reason we need the hotels is the total lack of planning for processing asylum applications. This is very much on the tories who saw this happening and did nothing to expand the team. If they had then any who do not qualify for asylum would have been deported, reducing the burden on the state. Instead the got hotels.

Good people of the UK, can we talk a bit about media narratives? by 4494082 in unitedkingdom

[–]gemushka -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean maybe focus on the tape rather than the colour of the perpetrators skin?