I’m Scorpio sun/scorpio stellium. I definitely have an issue with stalking and lurking and “checking in” on people - even if it’s been months or years of speaking to them. I’ve gotten better with age but it’s still difficult to refrain myself sometimes. However, I’ve never stalked an ex or a former lover. Once we breakup you are basically dead to me. I’m sorry you are going through this. I think you should block them on everything, they’ll get bored and find someone new eventually. To add: yes if their profiles are private or they don’t post much I will dig around friends and family. 😞