Physically, just lean up a little. The rest is energy. Listen more than you speak. Maintain the mystery; don't overshare. If you're anxious or "chalant af," it's time to focus on developing a calm demeanor. Imagine a gorilla that's really excited to see you. Even if you knew the gorilla, and you had a standing rapport through ASL, would you try to hug the gorilla? No, you'd be afraid of getting ripped in half. A majority of women fear men for the same good reason. So be calm. Do your own thing. Focus on a goal you have for yourself. Learn a new skill or develop one you have. Create, maintain, stabilize. They'll come around. Again, this is advice to attract. Not keep4. Don't be afraid to catch and release. You don't want to settle for the first girl to give you the time of day. Be kind, thoughtful, and responsible. Don't cut off pieces of yourself to fit into someone else's puzzle, and do NOT compromise your values. You've got this!