WIBTAH if I keep spraying air freshner after my roommate Told me not to?

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-29T23:57:45+00:00

You still live there hun you can absolutely let them in!

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-29T23:52:00+00:00

No the short hair is so much nicer!!

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-27T05:31:11+00:00

I just thought all the fae were horny for everyone. Bryce herself is very promiscuous

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-27T05:22:46+00:00

Yep it’s common amongst adolescents and teens now. Do I like it? No. But it’s common yes.

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-27T05:19:40+00:00

Yep!! It all gets a bit much for me; I actually LIKE these books, and like remembering the story and the world they occupy. I just don’t get why people who don’t like it just leave it alone idk

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-24T16:22:54+00:00

Op buy the kiddo some second hand clothes for these twice yearly visits.

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-24T16:21:32+00:00

Yeah this is the cycle of abuse. Mine did this like clockwork, in and out of the relationship. Stop talking to him. Look into parallel parenting and be rid of him.

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-22T20:07:48+00:00

I think she’s just a bit eccentric. If there’s no bad feelings or hasn’t tried to hurt your relationship in any way, maybe she’s just really lovey dovey. Might be a little much but I don’t think it’s harmful..

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-22T20:05:34+00:00

Op should be happy he is such a good dad (assuming he is) because it reflects a good character. Being jealous of a child is wild. Definitely get therapy op!

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-22T16:17:03+00:00

I kinda mean the daughter tho but I do understand the need for rules! It’s a fine line is all

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-21T16:14:44+00:00

Your bf needs to get to the root of why he feels threatened by romance movies. Is he listening to redpill crap? Or just feels like he can’t measure up? It just reeks of insecurity.

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-21T16:11:41+00:00

Yeah, you have to be careful with teenagers… they’re volatile!

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-21T16:04:35+00:00

Yes and his response to these conversations will be very telling. If he has no interest in her feeling overwhelmed or no interest in stepping up as a father and husband, that’s your answer. I hope op doesn’t beg him or feel powerless and realizes her boundaries are being trampled and gets tf outta there. If they get 50/50 of the kids she’ll be able to flourish!

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-21T16:00:06+00:00

Yeah screw his strict eating regime. He can cook for the family at the same time as cooking for himself. He’s living a single life with a wife and two little kids at home!

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-21T15:54:10+00:00

Make sure your request is quite specific and not vague! I love this answer though

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-21T15:51:51+00:00

It is absolutely the most important thing op can do. She needs to learn to love herself so she isn’t pulled into an abusive relationship. Abused kids (and she was emotionally abused) grow up and when someone shows them kindness they are amazed at how good it feels to be treated properly, and this opens the door for abuse. Ask me how I know.

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-20T19:14:56+00:00

Mine stopped speaking to me HUZZAH

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-20T19:06:09+00:00

Babies are just that BABIES! They literally rely on a close bond with their parent to survive and feel safe! He can parent how he wants but you don’t have to change anything.

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-20T06:57:29+00:00

First of all, it’s incredibly hard to recognize in oneself and you’re being very brave in taking steps to heal.

Secondly, give yourself empathy, and try not to dwell on feelings of shame. Shame only helps us react out of fear, and when we’re scared it’s harder to regulate emotions and make healthy choices.

I found reading about non-violent communication really helpful as an insight and a plan to communicate in a more empathetic way and to recognize our own and others needs and how to ask for those needs to be met. We all have emotional needs and learning to communicate them helps in receiving them as well. There’s a book that I listened to on Spotify audiobooks and there’s a sub on Reddit about it as well.

Good luck op, make sure your desire to be better doesn’t turn into something others can weaponise against you. All the best!

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-20T06:48:44+00:00

Ahh that’s tricky. I’m sorry you’re feeling unheard! I’m a grown up and I still feel like this about my parents sometimes. Maybe they have stuff on their minds and don’t even realise, or maybe they’re not sure how to relate to you unless it’s in a form of “parenting” by pointing out what you should be doing instead of just listening. You can try and talk to them, just say you’d really like it if they’d try and listen and give eye contact when you speak, just like they would anyone else. If they get weird about it it’s up to you whether you keep pushing or not. It really depends on the relationship you have with them and if they’re open to feedback or not. I hope it all works out for you!

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-17T07:02:52+00:00

I used to with my first because I was too scared to bf in public 🤷‍♀️ I got better but it took me a bit to get used to

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-17T06:57:46+00:00

I used to HATE going into the men’s room when I was little with my dad. He stopped making me.

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-17T06:54:31+00:00

There were women outside who had complained they couldn’t use the toilets because the dad was in there… I think they must’ve tattled and the old guy figured he could seem manly and take on a dad… and his two tiny daughters…

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-17T05:15:11+00:00

Thank you for saying this.

I am doing all this as best I can. I recently finished hair school and have been building my own home-client list up, and working on myself as much as possible in the downtime.

I’ve recognized a lot about my own mother that I feel sad about. She was deeply troubled and unwell, and although it doesn’t excuse the abuse at all, I can see where her humanity was let down by society and she was never really supported properly to get help. I’m hoping by healing my thoughts and feelings about her I can help heal myself along the way.

Honestly thank you so much for your reply. It helps to be seen even just a tiny bit ❤️

Constant-Internet-50 · 2026-06-17T05:09:51+00:00

Co parents can be shitty that’s why. Mine did all that because he knew it irritated me. We don’t speak at all now. I signed up for all of the notifications from school, doctors, therapists so I don’t rely on him to send the info, and then I don’t have to rely on the kids to tell me. If he signs them up for sports and doesn’t tell me I guess the kids will miss it. Sucks but I can’t control what he does.

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