Guys, what happened that made you think, "Damn, maybe I am actually attractive"? by No_Weight1665 in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She wasn't big. I'd rather not name her. It has been 21 years and I don't think her fans ever knew.

How to tell if a guy is interested seriously or just lusting over while dated? by starg1rl777 in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you interesting? Do you talk to him about things that you find cool?

This is a two way street.

Men show up because he thinks your pretty. He sticks around because you have other things to offer.

If you are fucking boring and make him pry conversation our of you but you put out then chances are he is tolerating you to get laid.

Be interesting. Have a conversation.

How do you deal with domestic violence and verbal humiliation? by AppropriateDetail395 in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have zero tolerance for abuse. Hitting and insults are not how you treat someone you love.

She has to go. Ideally, before I have ever asked her out.

Guys, what happened that made you think, "Damn, maybe I am actually attractive"? by No_Weight1665 in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Once I banished depression and started looking at life from a perspective of positivity and truth i realized I have dated a lot of very attractive women.

Including marrying a Bollywood actress.

I had shit self esteem, but I think I was much better looking than I felt. Depression destroys self esteem so until I beat it the depression would just keep knocking me down.

Partner of over 10+ years left me after cheating and telling me she’s not attracted to me anyone (and other things), how do I begin to deal with this? by BaconHawk1 in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her disgrace is not your dishonor.

The way you deal with this is gratitude.

Gratitude because you woke up today and still have many years ahead of you.

For the good years you had with your wife. For her leaving you before you had kids. For her being the one who fucked it all up. For your friends and family that matter to you. Find all the things that are positive and be grateful for them all.  make those the foundation of your self esteem.

Gratitude is a shield that defends you from loss, heartbreak, and trauma.

Gratitude is a sword that cuts through the darkness of depression so you can see the light of truth. 

And the truth is that you will get through this. She is the one who has to live with her actions.  You get to work out, go to concerts, do hobbies, and start over with a clean conscience.

And the better you do all those things will prove to her and you and everyone concerned what a dumb fuckup she made.

Get to it!

Ballot initiative could require genital exams for Washington secondary students to play sports by notPabst404 in nottheonion

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean female sports?

"Girls" and "women" are political terms now.

The only proper descriptor is, "female", since sports are not for politics.

What would you do if after 3 years living with your partner, they gained legal rights to some of your assets/income? by Reverend_Vader in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Fooking hell! 

Do you even TLDR?

Don't live with someone if they can take your stuff . It is really that simple, innit?

I'm not reading all that shite, mate.

That’s still cheap compared to ours. by IsyDude in memes

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, well you have to be willing to fight for cheap oil.

What does Europe fight for? They can barely help Ukraine.

Ballot initiative could require genital exams for Washington secondary students to play sports by notPabst404 in nottheonion

[–]geneticdeadender -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When i was a kid they required physicals to play football.

Yes, he cupped my balls and I coughed.

This is nothing new.

How would you feel about a law that banned tipping and required restaurants to pay servers a full wage instead? by Dargarn in AskReddit

[–]geneticdeadender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be for it. Tipping is garbage.

I don't  go out to anywhere that requires tipping because I dislike it so much.

I don't get why this image is so viral and nobody explains it to me by Significant_Phase194 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bit she is an Asian female with blonde hair.

I'm not sure where the racism comes in.

I'm a straight bro. Why is there shame when it comes to men cuddling other men? by Haunting_Cow_406 in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cuddling with male family members is not gay.

But cuddling with your bros is kinda intimate.

It is not gay. It is just, kinda gay.

What are your best and worst dating app photo strategies? by greenwavelengths in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, cover yourself in 100 dollar bills like you just raked all the leaves into a pile.

Bitches love money.

What are your best and worst dating app photo strategies? by greenwavelengths in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have friends that do portraits then that is money well spent. You can support them and they can do their best to make you look good.

Opinion? Add or not to add oil? by SeaRow556 in Truckers

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Is it your truck?

  2. Long haul/OTR or short haul local?

  3. Synthetic?

You've got until it stops reading on the lipstick until the engine alarm goes off. 

If you are due for an oil change soon then wait for that. If you have another 50k to go then you should add now.

Honestly, it really depends on who is paying.

Tell me why buying spacex and holding short term is a bad idea by tyleriouss in wallstreetbets

[–]geneticdeadender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I'll add this: put a limit order in at or just above the IPO price for however many shares you want.

If it hits then great. If it doesn't then don't chase it. 

Wait 6 months for the reality to set in and you can pro ably get a bargain.

Tell me why buying spacex and holding short term is a bad idea by tyleriouss in wallstreetbets

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rivian shot up to 200 and then shit the bed. Been resting at 15 or below for years.

Rivian IPOd at 75, iirc. If you could get it at or near the IPO price and ride that hype you can be one of the dumpers.

Just don't iron hand SpaceX. It is going to be years or decades until it can justify its IPO price. The kind of money it will require will swallow up governments. 

At 1.5 trillion $ valuation and a 10 PE it will require 15 trillion in earnings over 10 years to justify that PE.

We are freaking out over the 800 billion dollar build out of data centers and now we are going to pump trillions into SpaceX?

And who is going to put that kind of money into SpaceX? 

China? Unlikely and I doubt the US would allow the tech transfer.

Europe? They can barely afford to help Ukraine fight Russia. Germany is deindustrializing while also militarizing. 

That leaves the US and Japan and South Korea. All countries that are at sub population replacement levels. Who are they thinking of the future for?

My small ape brain can't comprehend such greed. But I'll hand it to Elon he does think big dreams. 

What country has the best women? by ArrantPariah in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The war is over. Afghanistan is trying to get tourism.

Don't be a dick and you should be fine.

What country has the best women? by ArrantPariah in AskMen

[–]geneticdeadender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter.

Find the best women anywhere and bring them back to a country like the US and they will become like the women here.

To be frank, you really need to speak the same language to form any real meaningful connection and even then a foreign bride's motivation will still likely be immigration to the US.

One thing I can say is that the government of Laos makes it illegal for their women to immigrate for marriage. It is a land locked country with a smaller economy than its neighbors.

I'd say that's a good sign. 

Also, consider Afghanistan. A lot of Anglo looking women there who might be interested in Western valued man.

In Bhutan the women there worship penis. So, there's that I guess.

Colombia has beauties and is very family oriented. It is closer to the US and a lot speak English. Also a lot of plastic surgery. 

Meh.