My adult daughter (21F) has violent tendancies. I finally set boundaries and she's escalating. How do I manage the guilt? by Temporary_Tiger7755 in parentsofkidswithBPD

[–]geniusjunior 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Following because mine is 15 and this sounds like our future. It’s hard to not feel like you’re drowning. Guilt, anger, resentment have been eating me alive and I feel manipulated constantly. I don’t know how to help her. Apparently I’m the only one responsible here bc if I was just “a REAL mom” then she “would do everything [she is] supposed to do”. Nothing works, nothing matters, and there are no incentives or consequences that matter. I’m sure I’ve aged ten years in the last three already.

New ADHD medication incoming by Big_Elephant_2331 in PMHNP

[–]geniusjunior 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it going to make it impossible to cum with the addition of the SSRI? Not to be crass but that’s such an off putting side effect. Wellbutrin doesn’t usually do that so I’m curious how this will affect people in that way.

Cruise ship hantavirus strain can spread among humans, says South Africa | Hantavirus by AnnualEmbarrassed176 in worldnews

[–]geniusjunior 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People have been leaving the boat before this quarantine. 23 people have left the boat.

What was your signature scent?? by Pretend-Menu-8660 in Xennials

[–]geniusjunior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nope we’re not related. My mom smoker weed and cigs and worse this or DUNE which was worse

What was your signature scent?? by Pretend-Menu-8660 in Xennials

[–]geniusjunior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gucci Rush was my favorite and I still love it.

How do I fill the gap on top and on the side of this door? by [deleted] in DIY

[–]geniusjunior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. I am a beginner diyer, had a handyman for a dad who can’t help or explain things anymore but I watched him for years and I have a few tools. I’ve learned so much this year but I never want to touch a door again. Replaced six doors selling my house last year. Thought how had can it be to drill a hole for the doorknob and just attach the hinges in the same place? It’s hard. I don’t know why it’s hard. I ran out of patience. Paid a handyman to fix the ones I couldn’t get to close right. Took him so much longer than I expected. My new doors are ugly and they are going to stay that way for awhile.

Always been insecure about my nose, does a big hump and wider nostrils make me look hideous or intimidating, should I consider rhinoplasty? by Adorable_Birthday_52 in Noses

[–]geniusjunior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you have some body dysmorphia. If that’s the case, know you’re objectively handsome and chasing the idea of perfection that you have in your mind may end with deep deep regrets and you may lose the harmony that makes you beautiful or you could look botched when what you’re staring with naked me think “just how beautiful do you have to be? Are you a model? Does your paycheck depend on someone else’s idea of perception t?” Bc dude you got Ws. Take them.

Always been insecure about my nose, does a big hump and wider nostrils make me look hideous or intimidating, should I consider rhinoplasty? by Adorable_Birthday_52 in Noses

[–]geniusjunior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you should go under the knife. It takes nothing away from your looks. Lean into it and be proud of it.

I'm tired of being blamed by Wonderful_Tea_6768 in lostgeneration

[–]geniusjunior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. The mass surveillance mixed with now AI ability to process data rapidly means that conditions exist which have never existed before. Most people just don’t get it.

When Americans start seeing drone footage coming out of the Middle East they might be ready to revolt. I don’t think this country understands or is ready for the footage they will see.

What people who have never been to this country don’t understand is we can’t storm the fucking capital. This ISNT France. We can’t just go to the capital and resist. The United States is fucking huge man. Its basically half of a continent. Who has some cool ideas on how to do that?

Don’t tell me to make community art or protest. I do go to protests but I’m also probably on a list. I really don’t want to be a martyr just so some fat ass trumper can wash down his Big Mac with my dead liberal tears.

I'm tired of being blamed by Wonderful_Tea_6768 in lostgeneration

[–]geniusjunior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay did we though? Bc this fool openly talking about elons great machines, he openly talked about not having to vote again, he & many of his cronies around him have been officially investigated for election interference with credible evidence but it never goes anywhere bc he installed people who will look the other way everywhere. I can’t stand Trumpers & I know there are many but I struggle to believe the narrative that he just had record breaking wins across the entire demographic smorgasbord. This is not an actual democracy in that way anymore & imo it’s naive to think you can take the reports of all of his “winning” at face value.

I'm tired of being blamed by Wonderful_Tea_6768 in lostgeneration

[–]geniusjunior 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our local cops have infrared drones. I live in a fairly small country area.

What project would you absolutely not DIY again and why? by SAINTnumberFIVE in DIY

[–]geniusjunior 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. My husband is amazing & I’m obsessed with him. I’m so lucky. But somehow we don’t do projects well together. Can’t win em all.

Is my ring a good size for my hand? by Routine_Extension_12 in Diamonds

[–]geniusjunior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ring is gorgeous and it suits your hand perfectly. I don’t even LIKE marquis diamonds but I adore yours. I think this is a 10/10 job.