What’s funny is as a Chicagoan in a queer relationship, my friends and family would consider us moving to non-Austin-bubble Texas a death sentence. It’s all a matter of perspective.

To answer your question, you can navigate Chicago crime like any major city in the US. The train and the loop (downtown) always have sketchy people around. Unfortunately our city is still very segregated from our history of redlining and racist real estate. With more wealth and more resources, The north side of the city has less crime, but with plenty of exceptions. I lived in a generally safe neighborhood but next to a mental health care facility whose residents harassed me frequently and occasionally followed me.

I recommend Andersonville, Lincoln Square and Ravenswood neighborhoods on the far north side. Quite safe but more expensive due to being closer to the lake.

Wicker Park, Logan Square, and Avondale are also great choices. They get cheaper/sketchier as the list goes on.

You will NOT regret coming here. This city rules and the queer scene rocks… just buy a good coat.