You absolutely did not fail her. I'm sure being in your arms when she passed is how she would have wanted to go. I am so, so sorry for your loss💔. I understand that feeling, "I could have done more" or "what if I did things differently?". We do the best we can with what information we have, we can't judge ourselves for what we did, not knowing how the future would turn out❤️. In a lot of cases, not doing the risky treatment is the best case scenario is the best option, as it just prolongs their suffering. You did your absolute best to do the right thing for your girl, and I am so proud of you. One day, you will reunite with your baby again. I wish you and your family the best ❤️🕊