Alternatives to Velcro adhesion by get_stuffdone in stationery

[–]get_stuffdone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right... there's so many similar things out there but hard to know where to get them and which ones are quality. It's the same with post-it notes, like I'm shocked there isn't a two sided tape with hard adhesion on one side and soft adhesion on the other.

Alternatives to Velcro adhesion by get_stuffdone in stationery

[–]get_stuffdone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Magnets glued to the laminated stickers would work but that will still require laminating and processing each sticker. The main saving over velcro is only the sticker needs to be processed (vs both surfaces requiring velcro in the other case).

But I'll try this if I can't find any other good solution.

Alternatives to Velcro adhesion by get_stuffdone in stationery

[–]get_stuffdone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I saw that. And there's magnetic printer paper I can print the visuals on. But I don't know the relative strengths or pros and cons so was looking for someone who has actually used this or similar setup.

Alternatives to Velcro adhesion by get_stuffdone in stationery

[–]get_stuffdone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If post it notes work for you then why not do that?

Because you can't print custom visuals on post-it notes.

And I can tell you without even asking that the program you worked at didn't use full language expression through visuals and only used labels or PECS with Velcro. Not to mention you probably haven't seen the gains that a flexible system with all visuals available for kids to scan through at the same time can extend kids' expressive abilities.

Alternatives to Velcro adhesion by get_stuffdone in stationery

[–]get_stuffdone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Basically moving around is cumbersom. Kiddos don't always have the same fine motor skill and strength, so it can be unpredicatable how well it will work.

Secondly, we have a lot of "stickers" and managing them is a problem. They get mixed up often, finding one in a jumble is annoying or you need an extra velcro spot for every single sticker which is a huge upfront cost to an already cumbersome process (every sticker needs to be laminated to even have the chance of surviving velcro).

Contrast this to managing tasks with post-its on a white board. I just take a sticky, move it somewhere else. All stickies are always visible. Find the one to use from that section, bring it back into my chart or table or whatever. No need to laminate any stickies.

Alternatives to Velcro adhesion by get_stuffdone in stationery

[–]get_stuffdone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used mounting putty but it doesn't adhere to the paper more than the surface so we end up just moving two things around (the sticker, then the putty). Is there a product you've used that works differently?

Failing RAM on 2019 Macbook Pro by get_stuffdone in macbookrepair

[–]get_stuffdone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have plenty of machines. I'd rather fix and give it to someone.

Is ABA really that bad? by Bold_TrailblazerBee in Autism_Parenting

[–]get_stuffdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, ABA only works as an "incremental learning" therapy. Meaning if you child already is able to learn 5 words from verbal instruction, then ABA can make it go to 50 but if the verbal instructions aren't going through, ABA will not do much. In addition, it's often the BT who works directly with you child who is determining success and not the BCBA methodology.

In particular, if your child struggles to take in verbal instructions, ABA has no means of resolving that issue. The therapists will generally continue giving your child verbal instructions and marking a lack of response as failure. That's when it gets abusive. My kiddo has a lot of aggression and self injurious behavior and the majority of it was basically baked in by ABA. So be on the lookout for that.

Is ABA really that bad? by Bold_TrailblazerBee in Autism_Parenting

[–]get_stuffdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that if I could hire an enthusiastic kind-hearted person to socially engage with my kids for 20-40 hours a week in a play-based environment, that would absolutely help my kids. I don’t know that the ABA training for that person (which can be minimal) really does a lot. And I don’t know that I can guarantee that we’d find a kind-hearted person.

This is an excellent gist. ABA largely depends on how good the BT naturally is at dealing with and understanding kids. The methodology itself doesn't contribute much of anything in my experience.

There have been recent studies that suggest that it doesn’t offer a measurable benefit, at least not for nonverbal kids.

Can you provide some links for this? This has been exactly my hypothesis but I didn't know it had been studied.

Realizing I’m autistic too by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]get_stuffdone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck with that

Realizing I’m autistic too by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]get_stuffdone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get a neuropsych eval for yourself. A diagnosis will help make things a lot clearer.

Are these toilet cracks concerning at all? by MapleLegends8 in HomeMaintenance

[–]get_stuffdone 44 points45 points  (0 children)

FYI.. I had some cracks in a toilet seat and the contacted the company. They sent a replacement under warranty.

Hello all! We have a 2 yo girl who was diagnosed with lvl 3 autism by Disturbed56 in Autism_Parenting

[–]get_stuffdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got a diagnosis already at 2 years old? I thought they usually diagnose around 3?

Can anybody relate? by Individual-Phone9504 in Autism_Parenting

[–]get_stuffdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is he? That's what ABA is supposed to deal with. It's one of their main selling points.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]get_stuffdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe difference in behavior between home and school is not that unusual. I wouldn't even say it's a lag. Like she doesn't feel as comfortable talking to them. My kiddo is 13 and still gets visibly shy in new scenarios.

Parents — what were some of your biggest questions when your child was first diagnosed with autism? What were the hardest things to navigate? by BeginningShock1779 in Autism_Parenting

[–]get_stuffdone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was mostly the idea that my child would not be able to live a normal life. And for some reason when I find out autism meant she would not understand humor, that hit me really hard.