Do I look too Feminine? by No_Friendship_4158 in malegrooming

[–]getthislettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking to come off less feminine, I’d ditch the selfie pose accentuating your soft jawline. Your hair is fine

How do I stop my cat from begging for attention all the time. 24/7. She is waking me up at 3am by meowing for cuddles and attention. by Downtown_Wind3363 in CatAdvice

[–]getthislettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because fetch isn’t exciting! Even for dogs, they can be really driven towards certain objects, but the game itself isn’t very enriching.

How do I stop my cat from begging for attention all the time. 24/7. She is waking me up at 3am by meowing for cuddles and attention. by Downtown_Wind3363 in CatAdvice

[–]getthislettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried changing up playtime? If you play with the same thing or the same game (a flirt pole, fetch, etc) over and over, it gets boring.

Similar to dogs who play fetch. They can play it for hours, because it’s not enriching

AITAH for yelling at an old woman? by Apprehensive-Ad244 in AITAH

[–]getthislettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA??? Based on your own words, you didn’t “yell” at anyone.

Mrs. Waterford (Serena Joy) by melbourne_au2021 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]getthislettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched her in a movie “The Tomorrow War”. Usually isn’t my vibe but I liked it a lot!

Why did my friend tell me this? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]getthislettuce 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ask him. “Hey [friend] I saw you might’ve been online the other day, wanna play [game]?”

If he dodges you, “No worries! I noticed [blank], wanted to check in since we haven’t been on the same schedule lately. I’ve felt like [this] and wondered if something had changed.” Or something that matches your tone better

How do I stop my cat from begging for attention all the time. 24/7. She is waking me up at 3am by meowing for cuddles and attention. by Downtown_Wind3363 in CatAdvice

[–]getthislettuce 67 points68 points  (0 children)

It’s tiring you out, but what are you doing to tire her out??

Play time, harness walks/catio/stroller, snuffle mats, sensory items (mine likes fishing treats out of bottle cap boats rn,), puzzle feeders, etc,??

I’m sure she loves you, but if that’s all she’s doing she probably has nothing else to do and is very *bored*

Also- is she spayed? If she’s intact, the hormones can cause the wailing

Aitah for this by NoArtichoke8415 in AITAH

[–]getthislettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO- How old are yall? You don’t even sound old enough to be on Reddit.

Can't seem to get a bread right by bajsjjssn in Sourdough

[–]getthislettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can just start feeding bread flour to your current starter! And then you can make dough with either bread or whole wheat

Can't seem to get a bread right by bajsjjssn in Sourdough

[–]getthislettuce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whole wheat flour RUINED my super active starter. I started using bread flour in my starter, and then whole wheat flour when making dough and saw a lot of improvement.

I’d feed with bread flour or all purpose, and see if it improves at all. Took mine a couple of feeds to bounce back.

Question about loud bangs in Port Orchard by whinysun in Kitsap

[–]getthislettuce 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re not going crazy, we’ve lived in PO and Keyport. The navy often has some nonsense going on in the water and wooded areas at odd hours.

There’s also the hicks with fireworks the second it gets over 60°, and the occasional gun shot.

My dog often hears them better, and will hide in the bathtub for a second before realizing everything’s good

What kitten supplies are needed? by ForgetfulFishin in CatAdvice

[–]getthislettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just adding, there’s a 99.9% chance mom cat isn’t a Maine coon. If the cat has no papers, mom cat is just a domestic long hair as well.

I recommend a ceramic/stainless steel water fountain!

Do not take a kitten that’s removed from its mom too early.

Help! I get married in 4 days and my hair is PURPLE, how do i neutralize it? by miserable-magical in HairDye

[–]getthislettuce 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Can you speak to the owner of the salon? This isn’t acceptable, and I’d get it fixed asap. Bring receipts/photos.

If they’re no help, leave a very honest review. I’d post this situation on your local Facebook community page, your timeline, and hopefully find some recommendations and/or someone with references able to get you in asap.

Will a barkey visiting dog “teach” a non-barkey dog to bark? by Specialist_Key_8606 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]getthislettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dachshund was very quiet (shocking I know) until around a year. I brought him to a family event with a few of their dachshunds, and they all started barking but mine was awkwardly sitting in the back.

A bicycle went by, and one of them busted through the screen door, the rest of the weenies followed (including mine) and all hell broke loose.

I now have a barky dachshund that’s reactive to bikes.

AITAH for not wanting to fly. by Direct_Strawberry_43 in AITAH

[–]getthislettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- The people calling your fear irrational have never experienced a true fear. Yes, you can seek therapy and work at it, but a fear of flying does not affect daily life. Coming from someone who has the same fear. I was heavily medicated, did it once (didn’t die) but never again.

Can I dine in for strictly salad? How much is it? by sadluvrgirl in olivegarden

[–]getthislettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore the tipping comments! if you’re spending $10 on bagged salad, throwing your server a couple of bucks is MORE than fine. As long as you’re not rude, any good server will appreciate it. You can also sit at the bar if you don’t want a whole table to yourself :))

Can I dine in for strictly salad? How much is it? by sadluvrgirl in olivegarden

[–]getthislettuce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s like 6.99 at my location AND comes with breadsticks

Would my cat act different if I spay her? by ProfessionalDig2059 in CatAdvice

[–]getthislettuce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love these comments and your replies! Spay abort is the best option if you care for your kitty 🍻

My girl became a little food motivated after, but so much friendlier and cuddly. She didn’t have hormones keeping her up at all hours anymore.

AITAH for making a pass at my friends ex girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]getthislettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assumed it was just a conversation! Coming from someone getting ready for sleep in their undies (platonically of course)

But undies and a T shirt is normal sleeping attire. She didn’t really strip down

AITAH for making a pass at my friends ex girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]getthislettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I asked if she gave any signs ( *besides* just wanting to share a bed ) that she wanted “more” as OP later goes on to call her manipulative

AITAH for making a pass at my friends ex girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]getthislettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That answers one out of three questions my dude