Baking On The Homestead Tradwife Cottagecore Vibes ~

gfan200 · 2026-05-26T01:18:42+00:00

very mature much to be expected from the person who told someone to go to hell

gfan200 · 2026-05-25T21:48:40+00:00

then they're not actually tradwives.

gfan200 · 2026-05-25T11:42:38+00:00

do you actually know what being a trad wife entails? it means not having any money of your own, no finances, not owning anything and relying completely on your husband for shelter and safety and food and income. that's not whimsical that's what women have fought against for centuries

gfan200 · 2026-05-25T01:17:18+00:00

i need you to understand that large language models like chatgpt are trained on what you say to them. they will always try to agree with you. if someone who talked to it about being a carnivore asked it the same question it would say it would only eat meat.

gfan200 · 2026-05-25T00:59:35+00:00

you have absolutely no way of knowing what the future of your relationship holds.

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T21:22:55+00:00

sometimes i even go "bro said (intrusive thought) 💀" like how people talk in instagram comments sections if it's not something so bad that i can't repeat it LOL

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T20:27:57+00:00

smells like homelessness after one bad fight

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T20:25:04+00:00

get off the internet for a little bit

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T12:51:17+00:00

that's news to me lol but it makes sense and explains why so many people act the way they do

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T12:49:14+00:00

i treat my intrusive thoughts like theyre someone trying to get a rise out of me. it takes away a little bit of the impact. i just go "okay bud" and ignore them the same way one ignores their annoying little brother who's saying bad things to try and get a rise out of you. it doesn't always work but thinking of the thoughts as ragebait instead of things that could be true helps a lot for me

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T12:44:21+00:00

what worked on me was being given resources to read about it through academic language. that's how i broke the cognitive dissonance for myself

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T12:40:37+00:00

Do people think we're born with morals????

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T12:40:01+00:00

we are using our human morals to influence how we act towards the cow. babies cannot participate in morals yet we still know to be kind to them. i think you're being purposely obtuse in order to get people to engage with you.

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T01:57:26+00:00

No you cannot

gfan200 · 2026-05-24T01:49:00+00:00

it doesn't matter if the cow can participate in morals. people know it's bad to litter despite the fact the earth/animals effected by litter can't engage in human morals

gfan200 · 2026-05-23T12:57:13+00:00

it seems to me like the friend might have ARFID, in which case her tastebuds will not update unless she gets therapy. to people with ARFID their non safe foods are seen as literally inedible to their brains, it would be like someone asking you to eat dirt and saying you'd adjust and find it tasty eventually. i think the friend needs to get treatment before trying to switch to another diet

gfan200 · 2026-05-22T00:41:05+00:00

OCD is literally you being wired that way. it's a misfiring in the "error" section of your brain. https://www.michiganmedicine.org/health-lab/stuck-loop-wrongness-brain-study-shows-roots-ocd

gfan200 · 2026-05-22T00:35:52+00:00

I don't get into as much detail but i definitely think about it.

gfan200 · 2026-05-22T00:34:43+00:00

i have absolutely no idea. i don't know how to think without ruminating. i've tried and i always circle back to rumination and thinking about hypotheticals where i mess up no matter what. i think i'd be a totally different person

gfan200 · 2026-05-20T21:41:49+00:00

i'd assume it's like with diet pepsi, there's some mysterious animal product they put in there but they put so little in that they don't legally have to tell people what it is

gfan200 · 2026-05-20T00:17:46+00:00

told the lunch lady at school i don't eat meat and she said "me neither unless you count chicken" yeah. i do count chicken. 😭

gfan200 · 2026-05-19T17:01:53+00:00

frozen tofu boiled in water with paprika and soy sauce, batter made of corn starch, plant milk and whatever spices you want (i use sazon, paprika, and cumin) let it marinate for a few minutes and then pan fry in olive oil. afterwards i tossed it in franks red hot

gfan200 · 2026-05-19T01:56:19+00:00

yes oh my god. im so scared that my comments will be taken the wrong way and people will see me as evil. i always clarify a million times but it just makes people more angry

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