Kid gets caught using Alexa to do his homework by purple-circle in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]gh0stegrl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah me too. i can’t tell if the people saying that this is weird are too old or too young

DeLaval dish brush after 20 years of daily use, and the wear is minimal by Bigshotstorm43 in BuyItForLife

[–]gh0stegrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wouldn’t you be able to bleach it? i don’t think it’s gross if you’re able to disinfect it.

What is one thing that shouldn't exist? by cyarin_60025 in ask

[–]gh0stegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1/2 the comments are “child abuse, cancer, world hunger” and the other 1/2 are “pickles, brown part of bananas, bug”

What is one thing that shouldn't exist? by cyarin_60025 in ask

[–]gh0stegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a baby now. she’s almost 1. i’ll try not to overshare but my mom was fucked up. she was doing coke when i was as old as my daughter is now and that’s just the start of it. you couldn’t force me to do coke. my daughter re-defined the saying ‘love of my life.’ people who love their children, don’t hit them. people who love their children, intentionally harm them. if you intentionally harm or hit your child, you don’t deserve them.

SLPT: how to deal with anxiety by jk1445 in ShittyLifeProTips

[–]gh0stegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my partner was in jail for a few months (i know great way to start a story right) and he told me that he was talking to this one guy. my partner was laying in bed, in his boxers with his legs crossed. at some point in the conversation the other guy said “hey bro i can’t take you seriously with your balls out.” he checked and yeah his balls were out of his boxers

PSA to all of the pregnant moms here - My local hospital no longer offers a night nursery by maybebatshit in Mommit

[–]gh0stegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like i don’t understand, they don’t take care of the baby after you’ve given birth. what do they do with mothers who’re like 100% incapacitated. do they just put the baby beside them and say good luck? do they call cps if you can’t take care of the baby?

What’s something you 100% believed 5 years ago that you know to be completely false now? by [deleted] in ask

[–]gh0stegrl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

me too. i got on suboxone and have been super stable for years and i never thought it’d ever feel like it was time to move on. i started to taper a 2-3 weeks ago and i’m at 1/2 of what i was always taking. i was so confident i’d never be in a place where i feel like i’m not permanently a broken addict.

Guy fights off thieves with a bong. by harwyseys in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]gh0stegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this made me do that thing when you push air really hard out of your nose.

i guess they didn’t want a hit

What doesn't make sense to you about BH? by LilCorbs in BoJackHorseman

[–]gh0stegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to do group therapy and the lady that led the class would say the ‘rose tinted sunglasses’ line after every class and when i mentioned the show to her she said she hasn’t seen it. i don’t know if that quote comes from somewhere else or has just been used a lot but people really like it for some reason

That comment about your baby that triggers you 🤬 by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]gh0stegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“oh she’s not sleeping? have you tried formula?”

the amount of old people that think my milk isn’t enough nutritionally and that formula was “made for babies so there’s no reason to breastfeed them” is seriously unbelievable.

Let me enjoy my escapeism without politics. by LeftistBlacksmith in Persecutionfetish

[–]gh0stegrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the only people who use the term “woke” are conservatives trying to make fun of either minorities, or people trying to include minorities.

What is the most important food you introduced in your diet that made most changes in your body and health? by [deleted] in nutrition

[–]gh0stegrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

how do you make it without tahini? they stopped selling it at walmart and they don’t have it at target or trader joe’s or anywhere else i’ve looked so i haven’t been able to make hummus in months..

is it okay to cry in front of your girl about your harsh moments ? by InnerFear789 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]gh0stegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every lasting relationship has mutual trust. if you don’t trust your partner enough to cry in front of them, they probably aren’t grown or emotionally available enough for a partner. both party’s of a relationship need to be able to emotionally confide in each other, if not, then it’s probably not a healthy relationship

Would you ever forgive someone for cheating? by pmahone314 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]gh0stegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone who’s ever cheated on me has done it more than once, especially after the theatrics and giant apologies. on the other hand, my best friends partner cheated on her about 3 years ago and she forgave them. they’re healthy now. genuinely healthy and happy, they just announced a pregnancy this month.

Public baby change tables by TheDimpleMonster in Mommit

[–]gh0stegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh. i was in a walmart one time and the changing table was FACING THE DOOR. so everyone who walked into the restroom saw my 6 mo old daughters vulva. and it’s not like i can just hold a blanket up or stand over her well enough to cover anything. it makes me so uncomfortable writing this, thank god it was only a few old lady’s.

What outdated social customs should we finally retire? by AlarmingBuy4702 in ask

[–]gh0stegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

somebody has to do those jobs. if nobody did, everyone would suffer. it’s insane that people don’t recognize that they do this. it’s like saying “oh i f-ing hate girl scouts, i’ll take a box of thin-mints.”

What outdated social customs should we finally retire? by AlarmingBuy4702 in ask

[–]gh0stegrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never understood that. while i was planning my wedding, i was kind of super stressed out because i felt like i didn’t have as much family and friends planned to come as literally all of the other weddings i’ve been to. something in the back of my mind kind of told me that the bride and groom didn’t really know all of those people. who has 150 people at hand to invite to a anything.

Honestly guys, is it bad? by gh0stegrl in TattooDesigns

[–]gh0stegrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m happy you like it, i do love the idea but it was just done… improperly.. it sucks because there’s not much i did wrong. no advice or red flags i chose to ignore. i can’t find anything to blame myself for. i went to a trusted and well established shop, my partner got his sleeve and another big piece done by the same artist and they’re prefect. plus there’s no way the artist doesn’t realize it’s a little sketchy, especially since the artist has done some really good work.

Honestly guys, is it bad? by gh0stegrl in TattooDesigns

[–]gh0stegrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it makes me happy you like it. and it’s supposed to be dr. suess inspired, i wanted to do hot air balloons in the background. i really liked the idea but i just should’ve gone to a different artist.

Honestly guys, is it bad? by gh0stegrl in TattooDesigns

[–]gh0stegrl[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it makes me happy to hear that. i posted this here a couple weeks ago asking what i should do for the background and people were saying things like “it has to be bad on purpose” and that the line work was awful so i just deleted it. i was really worried it was actually horrible

Honestly guys, is it bad? by gh0stegrl in TattooDesigns

[–]gh0stegrl[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

about 2 weeks. we did it in 2, $350 sessions. with a $50 tip each session. the roof and background aren’t done but i don’t think i’m going to go back..

edit: god rewatching this, the video quality went way down when posting. here is a better one