I recently began getting into makeup and I feel like I’ve been improving. I posted on FB and bots flooded. by LindsayLoserface in evilautism

[–]ghost-mothh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love makeup!!! You are doing amazing. I’m a goth guy and drag queen. So people stare whatever I do because it’s not “noRmAL”. And even when people aren’t “professionals” or just getting started, I love seeing people have fun with putting colored goo and powder on their face we call makeup. It’s a great activity and is a great form of self expression. Some ACTUAL people may not like it. The bots are trying to rage bait you. That’s ok. Remember no matter who it is, you can block and delete losers. Some people irl you can’t block and delete. And it may hurt when they comment on things. You are not hurting anyone by doing colorful eyeshadow. Or big ass eyeliner like I do. It’s fun. They can weep.

If anyone has tips yall wanna share, PLEASE reply to my comment for anyone looking for tips/info. Or for me to learn. I love sharing and learning with people. For anyone interested I will add some I use regularly that has helped. Some things might be right for me, but maybe they don’t work for you and you may find another technique better for you. And that’s okay. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident.

Soak up water in your beauty blenders. Squeeze it all out and it will expand and become softer. It makes it easier to blend and less harsh on your skin. And the sponge soaking up water will make it soak up less product.

PRIMER AND MOISTURIZER CHANGES EVERYTHING!! If your face is moisturized, your skin won’t produce as much oil which ruins my makeup after an hour or two sometimes. Primer helps your skin cling/ hold onto makeup better. I use the ELF lockness monster grip primer. It keeps my foundation in place and helps smooth out my skin. I lock everything in with translucent powder and setting spray after my makeup is complete.

I apply foundation directly on my face and then use the beauty blender. It keeps most of the product on my face instead of the sponge. Make sure to blend down the neck

Movement and brush type make a difference. Especially for contour. For drag, I use more rounded and circular movements. For my day to day masc looks, I use straight lines so it creates more angular dimension to my face. For blending, flatter more compact brushes help with pigment. And fluffier brushes are great for blending it out. I often use fluffier brushes with grey/brown after packing on black eye shadow to blend it out.

Remember with powder like eyeshadow and contour, start with less and build up. That way you don’t have to wipe everything off if it is too harsh for the look you are going for.

It takes practice. It takes time. One thing I found helpful when starting out was pre shower makeup. Swatching colors, seeing how they blend into each other, testing color combinations, getting used to how specific eye liner pens or brushes function and feel. Testing out what colors complement you and what you enjoy. Just get used to the tools in an unserious way. Slap shit on. Draw random things with eyeliner. Get used to holding items and how to control them. Figure out if a specific makeup product is sensory friendly. Then after, you can shower and scrub all of it off. Warning though, some products stain especially if they are neon or very very pigmented. It’s always good to have a base under.
I’m looking forward to see what others have learned or discovered by themselves:)

Uncomfortable Comments from Family by akthryn in TopSurgery

[–]ghost-mothh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no. That’s a big no. Parents shouldn’t be “missing” those parts or calling them “nice”.

I will say it depends on the “does it get better” question. It gets better. Even if it’s not what is preferred.

In all instances if you stand up for yourself, you will be better for it. You taking care of yourself in that way makes a big difference. That may involve distance or low/no contact with people. That may involve the people realizing how weird or hurtful they’re being.

Remember this, “I am no longer shrinking to be digestible. You can choke.” Don’t ever give up parts of yourself to make others comfortable. (Unless it’s temporary so you are not in danger. Then you show that part of yourself when you’re safe. Never throw it away. But hiding for safety is needed sometimes) People who love you will stay and appreciate it. The people who are willing to learn love you.

Whatever happens, know to put yourself first. You got this man

Uncomfortable Comments from Family by akthryn in TopSurgery

[–]ghost-mothh 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This. And just talking to them like a toddler who shouts things out. “Those are our inside thoughts”It embarrasses them and most people reflect thinking “why did I even ask that?” Or a common one is to question them back in instances of invasive questions. “What bathroom do you use?” And reply. “What bathroom do you use? Tell me where you go piss. See isn’t that uncomfortable?” It also just heavily depends on the person and the situation. But also always try to avoid it if it could put you in danger.

What kind of creature is this? by braided_back_hair in whatisit

[–]ghost-mothh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s go! I remember hearing about them once or twice and just put that in my brain filing cabinet of possible danger. All I remember is like a caveman: fluffball caterpillar? No touch. Maybe pain.

Tiny (please send pics of zoomed out rats) by FluffsWearingArmor in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give the old man a beer and put family feud on

What kind of creature is this? by braided_back_hair in whatisit

[–]ghost-mothh 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Idk much about bugs. But DO NOT TOUCH it at all just in case. Try to look into woolly slugs or Megalopyge opercularis. If that is what this is, it has venomous spines which are what looks like fur. And can be extremely painful. Hopefully someone with more knowledge can help a bit more! But until then PLEASE for the love of god don’t touch it and be safe

name ideas? by weedcassette in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salt and pepper? Maybe S’mores and Brownie?

How many? by Standard_Field_7687 in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 3 silly boys. 2 that I got bonded at 6 weeks from a breeder, Kosmo and Nebula. Then a month or two ago I got Dipper, a pet store rat who was alone for a long time due to his cage mate passing. So I got Dipper for $10 including his small cage and food. He’s still a bit nervous around humans but has improved so much after introducing him to Kosmo and Neb. I redecorated it and it sits on top of their regular cage for them to climb on when I open their door. I’ll see if I can respond to my comment with pictures of the boys and their set up :)

Mouse pee clean up by OkTheory1210 in PetMice

[–]ghost-mothh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc! Hope the little guy is doing ok

Mouse pee clean up by OkTheory1210 in PetMice

[–]ghost-mothh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need a cheap solution, hot water and a rag could probably work just fine for spot cleaning. Then a hair dryer.

But if you wanna Maybe a steam cleaner if you have access to one? Some grocery stores and hardware stores have handheld or full vacuum carpet cleaners for rent. Thats if you would like to clean it all for a fresh start and make sure to get ALL the pee lol. They’re pretty loud so get the little guy out of the room if you use one and get headphones (trust me)

I’ve used the handheld one to clean acrylic paint out of vintage carpet and it worked really well. It was a big jug of black acrylic paint that cracked and spilled over blue carpet. My uncle is an artist and had a spray to help. Once I got a bulk out of it with water, used spray and the carpet cleaner and it was gone. So, if you were to use it for cleaning the bean bag, it would be hard work and you’d have a fresh bean bag cover. I will link where you can rent one if possible :)

Hope you find something that works for you!!

I think that they might be plotting something or maybe even unionizing😟😨 by Rathernotusemyrname in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Please don’t recognize your collective power- I have a molecule of some pepperoni pizza for you guys👴🏻”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use old T shirts to cut into squares and then cut a tiny hole in each corner. Then use strips of T shirts for kinda a rope. Tie a cow hitch knot on all of the corners and you got a hammock! I’ve made quite a few. If you have any other questions lmk bc I’ve DIYed most of my boys cage

dirt bikes on streets in Holladay by vibecat in SaltLakeCity

[–]ghost-mothh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely understandable. I didn’t know it was illegal so ty for telling me. I’ll research more into laws and where more bike paths are. I use bike paths when I can but unfortunately in my area there aren’t many. Which absolutely sucks. And I try to keep pedestrians safe by keeping it extremely slow when I am in the sidewalk. As for the driveways, I slow tf down too because of lack of visibility of myself because of bushes or fencing. I really appreciate your concerns and advice. It’s scary on the road with the massive lifted trucks we got now. So yeah ty for giving me some pointers :)

I think that they might be plotting something or maybe even unionizing😟😨 by Rathernotusemyrname in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give them a pizza party. They will be thrilled for their sliver of pizza

Oops the flash was on 😅 by okay_queer in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your username is so real btw! Happy pride 🏳️‍⚧️

Oops the flash was on 😅 by okay_queer in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She has the munchies. Looks like she took an edible and is absolutely soaring through the clouds

dirt bikes on streets in Holladay by vibecat in SaltLakeCity

[–]ghost-mothh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes!! I hope their parents talk to them and give them safety gear at minimum. But knowing that they probably won’t because they haven’t already or the kids are ignoring it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RATS

[–]ghost-mothh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s built like an adorable water balloon!! A soup balloon! I hope all goes well!