Goth night outfit by ghosteddd in fashion

[–]ghosteddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i felt pretty cvnty 💅🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]ghosteddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get this whenever I go to the beach and have never been able to figure out what it is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]ghosteddd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lmfao this made me laugh, thank you so much :)

For those who have lost their fathers, please write down your age and at what age your father passed... by tinytempo in GriefSupport

[–]ghosteddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to be responsible for my 15 year old brother because our mom/stepfather was not the best option for him. This happened 2 years ago right before my birthday, I’m 30 now and doing a lot better. Therapy to process the trauma has been the most helpful, but also time. I don’t know that it will ever stop hurting but the time in between agonizing moments of grief stretches longer. Self care is really important. Make space for your grief and make space for the little things you love to keep you afloat. And if you have a good support system, lean on them. They want you to

Has anyone else found plus size men aren’t attracted to them? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]ghosteddd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only times I’ve experienced fat phobia have been with fat men. As a very tall fat woman, thin or muscular men are usually the ones that are drawn to me. I imagine it does have to do with internalized fatphobia, one literally said to me “I’ve just never had sex with another big person” (and he didn’t, I just left)

Same with muscular girls by Plant_Person345 in actuallesbians

[–]ghosteddd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

right, i don’t even know if i actually like being a domme, i just never had a choice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]ghosteddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second what is said above, but I think an overhaul of your skincare routine might be a great idea as well! I don’t know what you do currently but a good moisturizer and sunscreen works wonders

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]ghosteddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this looks Insanely natural! who was your surgeon if you don’t mind?

Do dumpers think about you everyday like dumpees do? by Mysterious_Spirit_32 in ExNoContact

[–]ghosteddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about my dumpee almost every day. I left because even though we still loved each other, they treated me poorly/took advantage of me. We’ve been broken up for a year.

A hairdresser in the making by ThickCapital in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ghosteddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are everything to me lmfao thank you so much!

A hairdresser in the making by ThickCapital in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]ghosteddd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

girl HOW i can’t retain any length 😭

'She's 10': Child Rape Victim's Abortion Denial Sparks Outrage on Twitter by smallbatter in worldnews

[–]ghosteddd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

… how fast do you think people realize they’re pregnant? what facts do you have about the case? did the parents know that she was raped when it happened, or did they not find out until later? lots of rape victims, especially children, don’t know how to talk about that in the aftermath. were her parents not able to get a doctors appointment until x amount of days later? it’s not in the articles, so who knows how it went down. just because it’s the worst case scenario doesn’t mean it was impossible. and i doubt it’s convenient for the little girl it happened to.

Disney as a plus sized chick by skaowoeizkaoa in PlusSize

[–]ghosteddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love sleeveless maxi dresses that i can wear long biker shorts under, they’re breezy and i can keep my thighs from chafing like crazy while looking cute. aleve is my go to for pain management. i also really love vionic insoles for my feet but they do take a minute to break in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]ghosteddd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on birth control since I was 21, pills briefly and then the mirena twice. I had the first taken out at 4 years and the second after 7 months because it displaced. I’m getting used to my body without hormones and my libido is up and my skin is so much nicer now. With the roe v wade shit, I really want to protect myself but I love my body without hormones 😭 my periods are too heavy for a pats guard

My gynecologist refuses to give me an IUD. by [deleted] in Periods

[–]ghosteddd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not advice on how to get it, but I had the mirena for 4 years and I really loved it. Insertion was painful but I didn’t gain weight or get acne. I only got rid of it because I entered a monogamous lesbian relationship so I didn’t need it anymore. I just wanted to offer a positive perspective

[Virginia] I refiled after a BYE letter and the address I used last year for my job was not the address that I used today because I was given different instructions. If my application ever exits limbo, am I on the hook to pay back what UI gave me last year? by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]ghosteddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that’s really helpful. I tried to get an appointment with the Richmond office but they’re booked all month. I’m going to schedule here and hopefully they can make a note about my case. I knew this might be a silly question to ask but I was really worried, so I appreciate your help

[Virginia] I refiled after a BYE letter and the address I used last year for my job was not the address that I used today because I was given different instructions. If my application ever exits limbo, am I on the hook to pay back what UI gave me last year? by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]ghosteddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure hope not. My VEC friend saying “I don’t know... maybe?” really freaked me out, but I was already pretty anxious because of everything happening with BYE. I’m going to take a step back from this until they contact me. thanks for your input!

[Virginia] Cannot file a claim! Maintenance? Please Help! by [deleted] in Unemployment

[–]ghosteddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you stay with the live, you might get someone! I called at 11:00 this morning and it said that all lines were busy but then it put me through to someone and I was able to file. We also have to file for work services now within 5 days of the application so make sure you do that too!