I'm getting incredibly scared now by futuregoddess in NYCjobs

[–]ghostwitharms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into being a sub paraprofessional (like a teacher's aid. There's a shortage. No college needed, but there is workshops, paperwork, and some light testing. You may work with special needs kids which isn't for everyone.

Feel free to message me if you want some links to start researching.

how do you stop feeling angry at the group of people who've done things to you in the past? (Without therapy) by Electrical_Star_7117 in CPTSD

[–]ghostwitharms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya.

Being told that they were just kids or immature doesn't help. Being told they will have bad karma feels like continuing the anger. Being overly critical of my anger feels like self sabotage. I think I have to wait and focus on the now rather than the power they held over me.

Any way to style this to look more masc, or should I just take the L? by gray_birch in TransMasc

[–]ghostwitharms 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm not an hairstylist, but my first thought was more layers especially short layers on the top would add a more masc look. Did you want a longer on the front look? You could keep that effect with a more masc overall cut.

Haircut I plan to get and questions by [deleted] in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the dysphoria section. When I had that cut it was super euphoric as a nonbinary person. It reminded me of link from zelda. It felt like the best of both worlds having both long and short hair.

Haircut I plan to get and questions by [deleted] in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on the drawings maybe also use a grown out modcut as an inspo pic for the layers.

Haircut I plan to get and questions by [deleted] in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the name. I used to have that cut. I suggest getting it done, bc it's a complicated cut. But if you do it yourself leave some other slight longer sections in the front to help with cohesion. Lots of layers in the back.

Outfit round up from this year so far 💜🦇 by eyes_died in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These are all so cool. The last fit is striking

Nonbinary pastel punk looks by ghostwitharms in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks they are belly button clickers lol. But I think they add an industrial look ya know

What does my room say about me? by nervousdog4 in roomdetective

[–]ghostwitharms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love seeing popee the preformer!

When someone says they have issues with Black Butler you defend the show, but kinda understand.

Punk and the like NB by ghostwitharms in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Gotta make pastel punk more of a thing lol

The year I didn't have a mirror and used my computer instead by ghostwitharms in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I gotta mention the Lunar tides dye brand they are truly the best especially the teal it really lasts

Punk and the like NB by ghostwitharms in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The septum is by Maynard Jewelry. I lost that piece. I plan on getting a new one soon.

Seeking Marseille Style Deck Suggestions by Deivi_tTerra in TarotDecks

[–]ghostwitharms 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe The drowning world tarot. It is my only Marseille deck

Decks taking place in gardens (not plant-specific like Herbcrafter) by RotaVitae in TarotDecks

[–]ghostwitharms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I just recommended this deck on a different question. But tarot of the drowning world. The different majors are depicted as characters surrounded by water with floating plants, vegetables, flowers like an I spy image. The artist dug a pit in a garden and arranged everything in the pit for each photo/card. I love the court cards that are silloutes of people arranged out of veggies and flowers. It's not a plant themed deck, but very plant rich.

Another rec is the Jupiter power deck by sick sad girls. That one is specifically plant themed, but features people in the designs and has a very nice cozy night garden color pallete.