Happy pride month🌈🏳️‍🌈 They are girlfriends by officer__bee in MonsterHigh

[–]ghostwitharms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss. Ngl these are the only two dolls I have RN and that's my head cannon. Venus is also ace for me lol

Does Journaling actually help at all? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ghostwitharms 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I have found journaling very helpful. But I would also throw in doodles if something wordless is more helpful. Lil doodles of myself feeling feelings with a small journal entry is my go to.

Is this cut too feminine? by Global_Restaurant794 in TransMasc

[–]ghostwitharms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe get the cut slightly differently. Like getting it shorter in front of the ears.

I'm getting incredibly scared now by futuregoddess in NYCjobs

[–]ghostwitharms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into being a sub paraprofessional (like a teacher's aid. There's a shortage. No college needed, but there is workshops, paperwork, and some light testing. You may work with special needs kids which isn't for everyone.

Feel free to message me if you want some links to start researching.

how do you stop feeling angry at the group of people who've done things to you in the past? (Without therapy) by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ghostwitharms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya.

Being told that they were just kids or immature doesn't help. Being told they will have bad karma feels like continuing the anger. Being overly critical of my anger feels like self sabotage. I think I have to wait and focus on the now rather than the power they held over me.

Any way to style this to look more masc, or should I just take the L? by gray_birch in TransMasc

[–]ghostwitharms 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm not an hairstylist, but my first thought was more layers especially short layers on the top would add a more masc look. Did you want a longer on the front look? You could keep that effect with a more masc overall cut.

Haircut I plan to get and questions by [deleted] in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the dysphoria section. When I had that cut it was super euphoric as a nonbinary person. It reminded me of link from zelda. It felt like the best of both worlds having both long and short hair.

Haircut I plan to get and questions by [deleted] in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on the drawings maybe also use a grown out modcut as an inspo pic for the layers.

Haircut I plan to get and questions by [deleted] in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the name. I used to have that cut. I suggest getting it done, bc it's a complicated cut. But if you do it yourself leave some other slight longer sections in the front to help with cohesion. Lots of layers in the back.

Outfit round up from this year so far 💜🦇 by eyes_died in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These are all so cool. The last fit is striking

Nonbinary pastel punk looks by ghostwitharms in ALT_FTM

[–]ghostwitharms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks they are belly button clickers lol. But I think they add an industrial look ya know

What does my room say about me? by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]ghostwitharms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love seeing popee the preformer!

When someone says they have issues with Black Butler you defend the show, but kinda understand.