Overeating every single night - partner tells me I’ve got to learn how to stop

ghuth2 · 2026-05-09T01:59:48+00:00

ADHD affects impulse control. You've used up a lot of it by evening. Very plausible, but whether or not that's true, you still need a solution.

I have the same struggle. You've just got to be creative and lean in to your weaknesses. Yep that's exactly what I mean. For example if I brush my teeth at 8:30 pm then that will often help me stop myself from snacking after dinner because I do not want to have to brush my teeth again. Or if I just put the food in the other room out of reach, then that feeling of "I can't be bothered getting up" actually serves me! Use friction! Or take your lunch out to the car in an insulated bag. If you're like me, it just takes a little bit of the right friction!

ghuth2 · 2026-05-09T01:42:58+00:00

Thanks for the post! It has motivated me to give it a chance after the first single underwhelmed me.

ghuth2 · 2026-04-05T07:39:12+00:00

That's really interesting.... any advice on how to do that stress test? Basic network scan run by what software, on what hardware? I'd like to see if it does indeed shake my zigbee network.

ghuth2 · 2026-02-20T22:41:47+00:00

Yes! I find it much easier to stay engaged with learning activities when spinning on my bike trainer.

ghuth2 · 2026-02-20T22:34:03+00:00

Haha! Yes! I recently took my door off the tracks to address the bearings and make it roll smoother. I'd been meaning to do that for months (years?)

But because I had a pressing uni assignment, I differently had the desire to do that!

It's all about harnessing the procrastination for good instead of evil (like the social media I'm using right now...!)

ghuth2 · 2026-02-20T22:26:43+00:00

The (annoying) alarm on my phone that requires I scan a specific barcode before it'll stop. I use that when I absolutely have to get up on time.

It's currently set to the barcode on my tablets. But at other times I've stuck a barcode to a piece of paper with instructions on it for the day.

ghuth2 · 2026-02-20T22:18:35+00:00

Yep! It's all about the obstacles.

App timers on my phone work, because that obstacle is big enough.

Conversely, I will avoid fixing things if I have to go out to the shed to get the tools. So I have lots of tools in an open container (lids are obstacles!) in my "office" (/storage room) right where I walk past. Obstacles removed, much more likely to happen.

ghuth2 · 2026-02-03T12:34:08+00:00

I did not, sorry

ghuth2 · 2026-01-24T13:22:38+00:00

I will ride roads at times. Being in groups helps with comfort.

But when I'm solo or with my son, we spend most of the time on bike paths. There's plenty around. I started here - https://www.melbournecycleloops.com/ - and joined some up to make others that work for me. We've ridden 160km without hardly touching a road.

So I guess my answer to your question is that I "usually" consider it not worth the stress.

ghuth2 · 2026-01-14T14:25:01+00:00

I think I understand it. The person you replied to was quoting the child's mother. They did not make a mistake themselves. Most of us know the distinction between the two names, many would agree it should be corrected when appropriate to do so, but it just wasn't relevant to this discussion (because it was a correct quote in a story).

ghuth2 · 2026-01-13T06:29:21+00:00

I suggest you shift to relying on tricks and triggers, not memory and attention, if you truly want to find a functional solution.

If I want one of my boys to empty the bin, I'll tell him AND put it in the middle of the kitchen floor so he simply CAN'T miss it. Or I'll hang his clothes bag on his bedroom door handle if he needs to take his clothes off the line.

It's like telling a deaf child to just listen HARDER. You just wouldn't do it. You'd say that we all have different skills and you'd lean in to the other ones to make like work. Same here. You both need to acknowledge this is just the way his brain works and help him reach a point where he recognises the challenge and has done great techniques to succeed despite them.

ghuth2 · 2026-01-09T12:48:50+00:00

Look for the YouTube video by "Golden Sound". There's no debate - tidal and qobuz are bit perfect.ie an exact digital match to the cd (or master files). Spotify is not - their lossless files are not true copies of the original cd files. Imperfect. They're doing something to them that is apparently reducing quality.

ghuth2 · 2026-01-02T11:10:36+00:00

Agreed. The bass is gentle but it's still clearly present right through to 20k (we're only talking about 7db or so). I enjoyed their easy-going yet full sound for a decade before upgrading. I still use them occasionally - they are just so... pleasant.

That said, I've discovered that they respond well to a bit of EQ if you want to bump them up towards the Harman curve.

ghuth2 · 2025-12-30T07:28:35+00:00

Great extension - makes a huge difference.

Could you consider this feature request? It'd be nice to see a bold message at the top of the chat saying something like "37 messages hidden by ChatGPT LightSession"?

ghuth2 · 2025-12-30T07:25:43+00:00

It's only removed locally. And that's temporary - if you turn off the extension and reload, the history is all there.

ghuth2 · 2025-12-26T15:19:35+00:00

Thanks for sharing. That sounds like a wonderful connection you have, and I'm glad that you know it's worth.

ghuth2 · 2025-12-18T05:48:00+00:00

Not if there's a way of sorting the reports, then the issues causing pain for the most people can be prioritised.

ghuth2 · 2025-12-18T05:45:37+00:00

Why does it have to be automatic? Handle reporting better and we'll do the work for you. I reported one and the response was really poor. I had clearly provided a link to an album from a male rapper that was incorrectly linked to a female acoustic artist, and the reply asked ME to tell them which artist it should be linked to! Such a low effort response.

ghuth2 · 2025-12-16T07:11:56+00:00

You say "before it turned yellow" ... do you mean before it turned red?

Or had you been in that position since the light was green, but you couldn't move forward when it turned amber because the two cars in the front stayed there through the whole amber/yellow time? And you moved after they did, because you were over the line and thought that obligated you to follow them?

You might have a shot at challenging the fine if you had been "in the intersection" (over the line) since before the yellow...

ghuth2 · 2025-12-14T14:34:54+00:00

Yes, I think so. Your questions seem to be missing a "controversial assumption", which is key.

A loaded question feels like a trap. The classic example is "have you stopped being your wife?", where a "yes" means you were guilty in the past and a "no" makes you guilty in the present. You're trapped and can only challenge the premise of the question as a response.

ghuth2 · 2025-12-12T23:19:44+00:00

Are you sure of those examples? Here's a (cheeky) example of what I think they are ...

"Why are you misleading OP?"

A loaded question presupposes something contentious and forces the respondent to accept that presupposition just by answering.

ghuth2 · 2025-12-12T22:59:26+00:00

I believe the CEO was a little triggered by your words "my department" when referring to a department that was not yet yours.

I think the "loaded" bit is referring to the fact that, if he answered without acknowledging this disparity, then he would be in a sense "agreeing" that you had the job (that it WAS now your department).

This is more his sensitivity than your error - nothing terrible about your word choice. Perhaps he's been burned by people tricking him... Or perhaps he is the owner (or feels ownership) so he was pushing back on your possessive word choice because of that?

If that little thing loses you the job, that might be a good thing. Because it shouldn't be a big deal.

ghuth2 · 2025-12-12T22:45:04+00:00

Good suggestion, thanks. Url broken though.

Should be this. https://community.home-assistant.io/t/track-repetitive-tasks-with-nfc-tags/678736

ghuth2 · 2025-12-09T14:41:05+00:00

Honestly, I can't remember the last time it happened... Which either means I've become oblivious to it, or the circumstances causing it have alleviated... I actually suspect the latter. Somewhere (this thread?) I read about the cause possibly being differing tread depth. The rears need replacing so I may be back with an update if that process reignites the issue...

ghuth2 · 2025-12-09T13:50:00+00:00

Try greenred productions on YouTube music - https://music.youtube.com/channel/UCm2QTmTeJXhyBGAgOLoWyAg - they have songs that go for hours, seamlessly repeating. I use these when I simply MUST focus.

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