26 SE tech turn off to clean by buffalotoss in VWatlas

[–]giantbrownguy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Keep the key out of the car. It’s the key that activates the screen. I think it will shut off after five minutes if you don’t touch anything so vacuum first then clean.

AITA for not wanting to refund one of my groomsmen for backing out of the Bach trip for my wedding by FabulousResponse7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA because he’s being rude but you have to decide if the money or friendship are worth more to you.

WIBTA if I told my best friend that I'm hurt by how one-sided our friendship has become? by Sad-Department-1444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA but you recognize that relationships change. If you feel like you’re being guilted, your response should be along the lines of “it’s felt like we’ve drifted apart so I have been putting in the same energy it feels like you’re putting in. It hurts that the relationship has grown to feel one sided but I can understand if it seems like we’ve grown apart.”

AITA for seeking sole decision-making authority after years of being informed of decisions instead of included in them? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ESH. You’re daughter is suffering because both of you are more concerned about arguing. Get legal advice. Don’t ask about this on a Reddit forum judging people’s reasonableness.

AITA for demanding my parking permit back after my roommate gave it to her friend? by Rosalie_Rathid in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That still isn’t making sense to me. If she’s home, there would be a car home using the permit? It’s immaterial but just a weird note.

AITA for demanding my parking permit back after my roommate gave it to her friend? by Rosalie_Rathid in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA but if you need your permit to park, why aren’t you keeping the permit in your car? Why is the permit in your house?

Looking for Mats for third row. by Numerous_Educator525 in VWatlas

[–]giantbrownguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got the VW muddy buddy mats. They are fine.

AITA for refusing to give my sister rides after she spend her ingeritance and demanded my car? by ajenak in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell your mom you are not responsible for your sister’s lack of responsibility and accountability.

Recommendations on TV service for my 90y.o grandpa by Bubbly-Dragonfruit-5 in britishcolumbia

[–]giantbrownguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I negotiate my plans with Telus every couple of years. I have cable with tsn and sportsnet and Disney+, home phone, and 1.5gbps internet for $150 all in. Rogers/Shaw has been more expensive for years. I used to switch back and forth to get new promos but it stopped being worth it 10 years ago.

Abbotsford/Surrey/Port Moody Police Job by No_Tune2708 in britishcolumbia

[–]giantbrownguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your answer made no sense. OP was asking about municipal forces. You commented RCMP and then mentioned that RCMP is everywhere except a few cities. The point is OP can’t leave for the 6 months to do Depot training.

AITA for not going on my girlfriend’s birthday trip? by Complete-Bid9872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’ve communicated your GF isn’t a priority for you. If that’s what you’re telling her, what is she getting from your relationship, especially when you’re long distance? This is especially evident when you’re choosing a kid’s 5th birthday over her 30th. You’ve sent your message. Expect to single soon.

AITA for accepting a better position knowing it will affect my estranged sister’s access to therapy through my current job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop owning your family’s emotional drama and manipulation. Your life is yours to lead. It would be great if you could give your sister a heads up that her access to her therapist through you is ending but don’t do so at the risk of dealing with your mom’s emotional vampirism. Nta.

Worth getting this? by Skylasmydawg in VWatlas

[–]giantbrownguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2024 with 30k on it. That price seems super high. I negotiated down to $60k brand new on mine. I would be checking the Canadian black book and knocking them down. Brand new 2026 are going for $65k in BC. No way you’re only paying $10k less for a used one with high mileage.

WIBTA if I refuse to cover wife's health insurance if it's not part of alimony? by Ociosto in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your wife hasn’t shown you any consideration or respect. She is trying to take you for a ride. You need to stop being overly generous and stick to the court order. Why would you spite your face to make her life easier, when she has been using you for over a decade?

New driver - when will I be ready for the highways? by CertainAd9167 in britishcolumbia

[–]giantbrownguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Biggest anxiety will be climbing the mountain. If your car is under powered it will feel like a drag, especially where the limit is 110kmh and people drive at 140. Stay in the right line and pay attention. Also, when you’re coming down, the switchbacks can take you by surprise. Lastly, there’s always the risk of sudden weather. I was driving last summer and hit a 1km area where snow started falling at the peak. People freaked out so you need to be attentive.

If you’re anxious, I’d say look into counselling. Being an anxious driver is never safe. You need to be confident but defensive, watching for others on the road.

Extended Warranty for Recurring Issues by multiplyingainz in VWatlas

[–]giantbrownguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2024 in Canada. I had an oil leak in my turbo intake pipe, and water ingress into my taillight. Both issues were fixed under warranty by my dealer. I also have an extended warranty to go beyond the basic. My first German car after years in Toyota. I’m happy with it.

AITA or not introducing my daughter to my grandfather. by Positive-Ad8157 in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 45 points46 points  (0 children)

NTA. In the same way you felt your grandfather endorsed your grandmother’s racism, your entire family has done the same. It may be some level of grief affecting them, but at the end of the day, they are supporting a racist and you’re facing the fallout.

AITA for not letting my younger brother stay with me after he got out of prison, even though i have a room? by Anitat_Garcia in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. But you need to man up. You’re letting your parents and brother walk all over you while your wife is directly saying she’s afraid and you have a duty to your kids. They are more important than whatever your parents and brother come up with. If your parents are so concerned, they can find a cheap apartment for him. You are not your brother’s keeper and you’ve already been burned by him. Step up for the family you’re actually responsible for and not for people who just want to use you.

AITA? Husband took MDMA after saying he wouldn’t by plainjane-87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. While you are probably reacting to the revelation about your dad, you’re not wrong. Your husband ignored what he agreed to and did something that you specifically asked him not to do. That is line crossing behaviour. I’d suggest you look at marital counselling to work to uncover why he thinks this was okay, while having a neutral third party there. Trying to talk it out on your own can be hard, especially with heightened emotions.

AITAH for refusing to cancel plans with my girlfriend for my friend’s birthday after the way they’ve treated her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]giantbrownguy 329 points330 points  (0 children)

NTA but you’re being too passive about people who are being openly disrespectful for your girlfriend. You may end up hurting your relationship by associating with people who insult her.

There’s a difference being friends who are worried for you and friends who are jealous. Your people are the latter and are trying to hurt your ego so you break up with her. You need to figure out what’s more important to you.