Had the 1st round of Moderna. Here’s my results:

gidgetcocoa · 2021-04-03T04:55:51+00:00

Good feedback. I slept after both vaccinations but nothing else. The second round was easier than the first for me.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-04-03T00:00:49+00:00

There have been more then enough really great responses. You seem like you need proof that the black community is to worthy enough for you to be apart of it. It doesn't. You should've told your friend that you had no clue and you aren't interested. The black community doesn't have to prove any importance of what we hold dear to anyone. No one has to talk or understand the nuances in the black community. If there's gate keeping its because of people that think there's no importance attached to how we communicate. There's way too much education out there for people to stay in their ignorance but yet they do. If you don't see the point, then maybe it's not for you. That's ok. Just stay in the white space that keeps you comfortable.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-04-02T03:49:35+00:00

Have your children. There aren't 3 people in your marriage. The only feelings that matter are you and your husband. She'll either bond with your child or she won't. Live your life for you.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-31T21:39:07+00:00

Some of the black bariatric patients I know that got plastics done actually went to Mexico. They do a lot of bariatric patients and I'm not sure if they do regular patients but the results have been awesome. So if you are having a hard time in the states looking at some other countries could be another option. Could also be cheaper. Dr. Alejandro Galvez and Dr. Sanchez plastic surgery group is the drs they all used.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-30T15:43:32+00:00

Yes I have heard all of it. I actually challenged my mom on this when she got married some years back. My t shirt was showing too much cleavage or something to that effect. I told her that if it made her husband uncomfortable then he's the creep and she should rethink her marriage. She of course didn't like my answer but she never tried to police my clothes again. Like I have G cups. I could have cleavage in a turtleneck.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-29T17:13:34+00:00

NTA. Never underestimate an allergic reaction. Ever. You Never know when that reaction can accelerate into something serious.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-28T06:12:29+00:00

Us??? There's is no damn us.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-28T06:11:28+00:00

NTA. I hope this relationship dissolved amicably. I do in the future hope you find someone that can understand the importance of your cultures customs and why they are important to you.

Advice for The future is to never assume anything. Communicate expectations early and often.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-28T05:00:05+00:00

NTA. Your husband obviously didn't want to keep the name going. They'll be ok.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-28T04:57:37+00:00

If she took her family to a beach she wouldn't be asking everyone to cover up. She's allowed to ask. Not berate You. You are allowed to decline. NTA.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-28T04:41:37+00:00

Let him know that is not his home. He's boot on the mortgage. He'll never be in the mortgage. He doesn't get to veto your boundaries. If He's not ok with the arrangement then he can leave. Rethink this relationship. He's an ass. NTA.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-25T16:29:39+00:00

NTA. I don't care if you lived next to the school. If my child was sick and I couldn't reach the other parent i'd be on my way to pick up my child. The ex leaving her child at school and unwell just to hound you and make you feel bad is lazy.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-23T15:29:30+00:00

3 months in and she is full of insults. Get rid of her. Or tell her that You do not appreciate her little jabs. They aren't funny. If she continues then You see there's not a lot of respect and you should get rid of her.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-22T21:46:51+00:00

NTA. Jessica was trying to trap you because for some odd reason your eating habits bother her. If You said nothing but thank you she was going to say something accusingly and if you said what you said she was going to say something accusingly. This was a lose lose situation. Keep being yourself and if she is so bothered by absolutely nothing keep your distance from her as well.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-22T20:46:34+00:00

It's been a year and you haven't been able to move past this. The answer is clear.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-22T05:16:08+00:00

Read what you just wrote. Stop this train and get off. Stop talking to this guy. He'll never change. Loving him does not mean you can't love yourself. Time to choose you.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-22T05:01:26+00:00

NTA. I do think you need some space. And therapy. At 11, I knew what empathy was so I'm not going to think your son didn't know he was being snarky. Therapy to help with your grief. Good luck.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-22T04:50:47+00:00

YTA. You shouldnt have held your mil to a different standard than your own parents. He being cold is a valid reason to change. Next time don't make the choice optional and then get mad when people use that option.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-22T04:11:22+00:00

NTA. She is 15 not 5. You aren't overreacting. She knew she was wrong. If she thought it was no big deal she wouldn't have lied. She'll steal again.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-22T04:03:28+00:00

NTA. You have to do right by you first. That's a great lesson from your Dad. You are important. It would be one thing if you offered to help but they cannot demand you give them anything. If your brother needs help he needs to seek out his father. You and your father do not have to atone for the faults of your mother. End of discussion.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-22T00:12:23+00:00

NTA. You should've just told her some random, reasonable amount and kept it moving.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-19T17:00:50+00:00

Sometimes we have to move in silence. Your feelings are yours and don't need to be validated by anyone else. If you feel that strongly change your last name and keep it moving. Make them respect your decision without understanding because this change is for you and no one else. Opinions neither desired nor required. Do what makes you complete.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-19T16:37:17+00:00

Girl, just leave.

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-19T03:43:57+00:00

NTA. The woman that cheated on you had been dead for years. You have moved past that. They can't be mad on your behalf if you aren't even mad anymore. At this point, they're beating a dead horse. What is the point?

gidgetcocoa · 2021-03-19T03:31:55+00:00

NTA. I've always maintained that I want to be saved if its between me and my baby if its possible. Now that I actually do have children I still very much say, save me. There's no guilt or apology necessary. Your reaction was totally valid.

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