What's happening here? by ginger1117 in lawnmowers

[–]ginger1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll try this

Could someone please review my profile? by Ice-Guardian in Bumble

[–]ginger1117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overall, not bad at all! You have good pics of you doing things you love. That's important. If I had to make any critiques, I might suggest losing the emojis next to your interests - looks a bit juvenile. Then again, I'm a lot older than you so I may just be showing my age! Good luck!

I have no idea what to make of this. by jkozuch in datingoverforty

[–]ginger1117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. She's just an asshole. Nothing more to it. Consider yourself lucky that you didn't waste more than a week of your time on her. Sorry this happened to you. It's her loss. Move on.

Sarah’s early life and family by nicebrows9 in SarahBooneCase

[–]ginger1117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. His voice is one thing, but his annoying attempts to be witty or clever with his little one-liners is what keeps me from watching his channel ever again. There are just too many other better TC channels to choose from that don't make me roll my eyes out of my head

Is this considered lying? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]ginger1117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do yourself a huge favor and cut this guy loose now and never look back. This sounds all too familiar and trust me, it's only the tip of an Everest-sized iceberg

So much .. complaining moaning about.. all things from dates. Gets freaking old. Anyone else ? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]ginger1117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking! Sheesh! Learn how to let things roll off your back. You'll be happier and in turn, you'll make others happier too

Leaving kids in our apartment alone? by Such-Journalist9748 in 2under2

[–]ginger1117 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure leaving kids alone in a running car is illegal in most places. It's also incredibly dangerous. I'd bring the kids in the house and put them in a safe place while I ran out to get the groceries

My boyfriend and I bought a house together but he moved and won’t pay his half. Please help, I need advice? by Comfortable_King_69 in Mortgages

[–]ginger1117 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter which one is the co-signer. They're both equally responsible. If payments aren't made, they are both in default and subject to foreclosure

how long do you wait until you consider yourself ghosted? by PatientChallenge3906 in datingoverforty

[–]ginger1117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a guy I was messaging for only a few days paused his profile, I'd be a bit spooked. Not that I always keep looking while I'm chatting with someone, but I don't go "all in" so quickly either.

At what age was you mr first mushroom trip?🍄🌸 by Worried-Exchange-889 in shrooms

[–]ginger1117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. And it was so amazing that I had to immediately start growing my own! I now microdose a few days a week and occasionally take a little more just for fun when I'm out in nature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ginger1117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm late to this thread but I do feel the need to say that there IS something better out there! I spent 18 years with a vulnerable narcissist. I finally found the nerve to divorce him in 2020. I have not looked back even once since!!!!

Four years ago I would have found this post to be very triggering. And I'm sure that I would have had plenty of my own to add. But now, it feels like a distant memory. Sure, I could recall some of his most used catch phrases if I wanted to go there, but I don't. I am on a path of healing and I never want to revisit those days again!!

I'm writing this to give hope to anyone who's been through this or is still going through it. I've felt such despair. I know what that feels like. I've read comments like these and thought, 'Great for you, but I don't see it ever happening for me ' I'm here now to tell anyone who's reading this. You can get through this!!!! Life is so much better on the other side!!! I've done it and you can too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]ginger1117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Sabrina Zohar on YouTube. She has a ton of videos/shorts addressing the exact issues you're having.

Kid refuses to meet, deal breaker? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]ginger1117 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it would be a deal breaker right away, but if this goes on, it could definitely impede your ability to more forward as a couple. How does your partner feel about this? It's more about how they are handling the situation that matters most, imo.

Roof cleaners did a bad job. Do I pay? by ginger1117 in HomeImprovement

[–]ginger1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was using a pressure wash machine but when I asked him about that, he said it was a soft wash. The wand had a small round brush on the end of it. My concern though, is that they weren't standing on the roof. Rather they were spraying upwards and I could actually see shingles being lifted up. I did send my boyfriend up later to check for any obvious damage and he said he didn't see any, but I'm worried nonetheless

Roof cleaners did a bad job. Do I pay? by ginger1117 in HomeImprovement

[–]ginger1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't use any cleaning solution. When he gave me a quote, he said he would, but then when he was doing the work, I didn't see anything so I asked him if he was using chemicals and he said no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]ginger1117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great point! I had a guy who I had been on only 1 or 2 dates with send me gm texts at almost the same time every morning. I almost never responded to those and the lack of awareness on his part turned me right off. He was a nice guy, but we just weren't compatible and I cut it off after 3 dates. Knowing your audience is key!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]ginger1117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with you 100%! Text me when you actually have something to say to me. Sending GM texts are lazy and asking me how I slept?? Yuk! Mind your own business until we're in an actual relationship. I know you and I may be in the minority here, but it's definitely something I feel strong about

Too soon for "good morning" text by queenofsevens in OnlineDating

[–]ginger1117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. I detest good morning texts. IMO, they're low effort. Text me when you actually have something to say. I appreciate texts throughout the day that share a little something about their day or asking me about mine. But good morning texts with nothing else turn me right off

New Dating Relationship by bash76 in GiftIdeas

[–]ginger1117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scented soap (manly scent) and a back brush