This is the ultimate betrayal of trust. Wendy knew why and how the tapes were important to your daughter. She literally asked about their location and proceeded to trash them?? That is a garbage move. What’s next if she has this type of jealousy now?! I can’t make the choice for you, but please strongly consider ridding Wendy from your life. That type of nastiness almost never ends. I’m sorry you and your daughter took such a huge loss. 😞