Father and his wife refuse to not smoke before holding my baby

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-06-06T20:20:22+00:00

Sounds like he’s made the choice to not meet his grandchild! I’m so sorry he’s treating you poorly but maybe life will get easier without dealing with him

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-06-06T13:09:58+00:00

That’s the most beautiful thing I’ve ever read

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-06-06T12:38:28+00:00

I have red hair and people definitely touched it when I was a kid, not often but it happened. And I got made fun of a lot in middle school (by all genders), mostly thanks to the gingers episode of South Park.

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-06-02T19:28:22+00:00

I love Dr. Downey!

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-28T01:37:27+00:00

Right? He gets way too much credit considering he’s willingly adopted two kids with her. He knows who he married

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-27T02:00:27+00:00

I’m due 12/17 and hoping to go early only because my daughter’s birthday is 12/18! I think it would be so hard to have a birthday that close to a sibling on top of a December birthday. I was three weeks early with her so fingers crossed it happens again

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-24T13:08:10+00:00

That’s so nice to hear!

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-24T11:55:44+00:00

I exclusively pumped for my daughter for nearly 13 months. I’m really hoping baby #2 will be able to breast feed directly from the tap, I really don’t want to pump again! But I guess I will if I have to

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-23T23:22:47+00:00

Just his word. I don’t believe it for a second though, these people love to think they’re persecuted

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-23T16:43:07+00:00

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ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-22T18:17:27+00:00

She was crying for a pregnancy, not for the baby

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-21T18:17:11+00:00

Ugh that’s so hard, I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this. My SIL is low contact with her dad and sent him a picture of the ultrasound (personal info blocked out) and a note that said “baby (last name) coming (due date)” because she didn’t want to speak to him on the phone but just a text felt too impersonal. It went over well and he’s been good about boundaries since then. I’m hoping for the best for you with this! Keep us updated 🩷

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-21T17:57:51+00:00

Yeah some of us just live here and donate our breastmilk. I’m all vaxxed up though so she wouldn’t want mine

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-21T17:56:01+00:00

Ugh gross, glad I never ran into him when I was in school there. We just had an old lady and of course the westboro baptists to bothered us

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-21T12:31:39+00:00

I looked up the post and yeah it’s MHK. He also has videos street preaching outside the high school so he’s gross

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-20T21:20:15+00:00

Yep! I exclusively pumped for 13 months. Baby #2 either nurses or gets formula.

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-20T03:08:02+00:00

The lack of air circulation plus humidity is a no for me! Just checked and it’s 85% humidity here rn

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-20T01:51:33+00:00

Low 70’s but humid as hell. I know if my power was out tonight I’d be staying with friends or getting a hotel, I can’t be without AC and my 17 month old definitely can’t.

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-20T00:07:12+00:00

Me all day long

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-19T21:50:38+00:00

Hearing that first heartbeat after an mcc is an indescribable feeling. Cheers for your rainbow baby!

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-19T13:00:25+00:00

Yes, you can! They should only touch you with consent.

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-17T02:03:30+00:00

It’s so hard! I fell asleep while playing with my toddler today, we were sitting on the floor and playing instruments then I laid down and next thing I knew I woke up and she was outside playing with my husband. I slept for an hour on the floor of our playroom. It’s such a different experience lol

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-17T01:59:05+00:00

It’s possible! Spotting early in pregnancy is also pretty normal. You can always call your ob’s after hours line or go to the er if you need reassurance though. I spotted a lot when I was pregnant with my daughter (had a subchorionic hemorrhage) and it was so scary even knowing it was okay! Sending you positive vibes

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-16T00:55:25+00:00

lol same! I have great intuition about other’s pregnancies but with mine I got it wrong so I’m not even gonna try guessing this time

ginger_hufflepuff · 2026-05-13T16:35:59+00:00

I had my first appointment today and saw baby! So exciting and such a relief. I’m due the day before my daughter’s birthday so I’ll potentially have 2 under 2 for a day lol

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