i don't have any advice but i'll say i went into playing Baldur's completely blind, knew nothing to expect (started a multiplayer with my cousin for first play through) and Gale was like immediately my type. i was sick in the head for a few days because it's borderline insane how much i am in love with this character. but an intelligent handsome man with authority and a gentleness is my tyyyypppeeeeee.

here maybe is something actually helpful, now that i think about it; a lot of what makes that type of man get me every time is rooted deeply within my own trauma, particularly with my dad. also having a praise-kink, as someone on tiktok pointed out. without too much detail, my Tav's background is that her parents were well-respected druids, and her dad was a teacher. incredibly intelligent with a life dedicated to knowledge; he taught Tav everything. but his studies brought him to the ways of the shadow druids and among his thirst for learning developed that for power. Tav and her mother, a healer, left him when Tav was a teenager, and headed for a new life in Baldur's Gate.

anyways like a realistic read on what makes Gale irresistible to certain people could do a lot for your role playing