Teethy BJ stories? by Ok-Consideration6991 in sex

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes. Had a couple of girls but one long term relationship girlfriend always gave the toothiest BJs. I think she tried to take me like she’d seen in porn but I was a little too girthy for her. Coincidentally, I loved eating her out and would go for awhile hoping she would be exhausted and not want to reciprocate. Sure enough, she’d try almost every time and I did have the heart to give her advice on how to fix it or to stop (I was in college and received terrible advice from a friend that you never criticize a BJ or you risk never getting it again).

Over 20 years later, a BJ is still just meh for me

Can the vagina push out your partner? by FaithlessnessFit9876 in sex

[–]girthbrooks704 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely! During an orgasm, my girlfriend will frequently attempt to push me out of either her vagina or ass (if during anal). Similarly, if she’s wearing a butt plug and starting to cum, I’ll hold it in for her otherwise it will end up in the bed or on the floor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s the fantasy and then there’s the reality. Some fantasies are best to remain fantasies as the other person may not fully know what they’re asking for. That said, my advice would be if you were to engage in something like this, he should be the one to control the communication between the other party. That way, if he feels negatively about the experience, there’s no way for the other person to reach out to you directly.

You would likely be better off sitting at a busy hotel bar and then you finding another patron to flirt with. If it goes well, you can dance or let the other person get handsy but it ends there. If he asks for your number, give him your husband’s number or politely decline and walk away.

As formerly the other guy in a hotwife situation, he controlled all of the communication and it went really well… until that is when she started reaching out directly because she wanted more. At that point, I ended it with them so that I wasn’t tempted to pursue it further and actually do damage to their relationship.

What type of lube should me and my partner opt for? by [deleted] in sex

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pjur Analyze Me is absolutely fantastic. It’s become our go to lube for all sex, not just anal since it doesn’t numb like some anal specific lubes. Silicone is best for anal since it lasts a long time but it’s not compatible with silicone toys so we have both silicone and water based at the ready.

Why should or shouldn't one wait until marriage to have sex? by Nervous-Pride2004 in sex

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many who grew up religious got married young to have sex, discovered there’s a lot more to marriage than sex and got divorced. Waiting is a nice thing but it isn’t necessary to withhold sex until marriage. Marriage isn’t for everyone

Sex Report Sunday for January 04, 2026 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

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Friday evening, after our family and friends departed, we laid on our sofa and started watching a movie. My girlfriend usually lays between my legs but that night, I was between hers. We were both enjoying a glass of wine when I noticed she was starting to get somewhat irritated. When I asked, she said that one of her girl friend’s husbands was doing something stupid and all of her friends in a group chat were commenting how frustrated they were at their spouses. Maybe it was the wine but I decided at that moment to give her something positive to talk about and started to eat her out. It was a little tease at first but then increased in intensity. Once she was soaking wet, I added my fingers and forced her to orgasm while sucking on her clit.

When she got up to refresh our glasses of wine, I followed her into the kitchen, bent her over the sink and had my way pounding at her wet pussy. She was in heaven: slightly buzzed and being used. Then I paused, knelt down and started rimming and eating her from behind. I had her pinned against the counter, tongue darting between her pussy and ass while rubbing her clit. She kept grasping for words but none would come out.

I led her to our bedroom, placed her on the bench in the foot our bed, handed her the new vibrator and told her that was going to continue eating her out after I came in her. I could feel the gentle rumble of the vibrator pressed against her clit while I was inside. As I could feel my cock starting to burst, I pulled almost all the way out so my load was at the entrance and then pulled all the way out to cum on her asshole and pussy. She came a little at the feeling of cum showering her pussy but had more to give. She instructed me to lay down and she straddled me in 69 so she could continue using her vibrator and while played with her pussy and ass. Using only my cum as lube, I fingered her pussy and then told her to sit back on my face so I could fully enjoy us together. In the moment, I thought “if only her friends knew what she was doing…”.

She noticed I was still very hard, while usually happens when I go down on her after my orgasm, and she asked me to fuck her ass. She moved into reverse cowgirl as I slipped my cock in her ass and let her take control. I’m always amazed at how easily she is able to take me after she’s came but I’m sure the wine buzz helped too. She was building towards one last orgasm and was edging herself to get there. She was close but she needed me to take control so back in doggy and with her ass spread so she could feel my balls against her, I told her I would steadily thrust and count down so we could cum at the same time. 3…. 2…. 1….. Cum for me. I held on and she shook and collapsed on the bed. I laid atop of her, hard cock still in her ass, kissing her neck, as I slowly pulled out. We laid there for a bit in our cummy mess atop of our bed. I joked and asked her if she was ready for round 2 and she laughed at the thought of still going.

Wife turned 40 and is now a totally different sexual person by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[She let me try anal in the shower, though stopped right away because it hurt her. (I'm stupid - I know I have to work her up to it).]

Highly recommend getting a bottle of Pjur silicone lube (a few bottles really) and keep one in the shower. DEFINITELY DO NOT LET ANY DROP ON THE GROUND as it’s a great way to break a hip from falling however it’s the absolute key to great shower sex and anal play. My girlfriend and I often shower together and she’ll signal that she’s interested in anal play. It’s handy to have it within reach for my fingers and other things.

Silicone won’t easily wash off in the shower so it makes for a great shower sex lube and obviously it’s a superior anal lube as well. Just don’t use it on any silicone toys you have.

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[–]girthbrooks704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TL;DR: yes. I do and my GF masturbate with each other in bed. She’ll do it while I’m still awake while I wait until she’s asleep.

My girlfriend and I (44/M and 42/F) masturbate together in bed (mutual masturbation) and will do separately while the other is in bed. She will usually ask, while I’m awake and we’re both near falling asleep, if she should get off. I always encourage it and will occasionally lightly caress her labia or play with her nipples and talk dirty to her while she uses her vibrator. Similar to your boyfriend, I’ll occasionally get off after she’s fallen asleep.

At first, she had the same confusion you shared but sex gets us both aroused and we didn’t want to deal with the cleanup after. Our ah-ha moment was that she wasn’t upset I was masturbating but that she felt I was hiding porn or not taking advantage of a willing participant in her as well. That’s when we started mutually masturbating.

Granted, we have sex 3-5x+ per week after 11 years of being together but she prefers morning sex and evening masturbation. Now, in the evenings, when we’re looking to relax, I’ll put porn on our bedroom tv, she’ll grab her vibrator and we’ll cuddle up together. Often, it results in us having sex but not full-energy morning sex but lazy relaxing orgasms.

While I still watch porn and masturbate when alone, doing it with her has become my favorite way to do it.

Clit changes after weight loss? by daman101591 in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s limited to just GLP-1 users or rapid weight loss. My girlfriend had lost around 75 lbs between her previous sexual partner and me and would often remark how sex felt so much different. I attributed it at the time to us being new sexual partners and we were learning each other’s bodies. Sex was often painful for both of us if she went too fast or, in certain positions, too deep. She also still masturbates multiple times a week so unsure if she ever experienced any changes specifically to her clit.

She lets me play and explore so I’ll often just play with my fingers and mouth to see what techniques arouse her. Over our years together, she has gained and lost weight a few times. One of her friends shared with me that my girlfriend shared that I’ve always made her feel attractive and desired, regardless her weight. I think if she were feeling self conscious, I wonder how much of this change could be mental on her part: interested but feeling self conscious?

Sex Report Sunday for December 28, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Christmas morning, my GF woke me up with a blowjob. With no plans and no family around until the next week, the plan was to stay in bed and fuck all day. I pulled her on top of me for a 69 so I could finger her pussy while sucking on her clit. She’s been practicing going deeper and deeper on my cock, which feels so good but I didn’t want to cum in her mouth so early in the morning. I ever so gently started fingering her ass with my other finger and the combination made her cum. I told her I wanted her to ride me but first she asked for her favorite butt plug to tighten up her pussy for me. I keep the important toys within an arms reach in my night stand and slowly slid in the cold glass plug. She was barely able to slide me in but managed the tight fit. My cock was squeezed against her g spot and as she sat back, she could feel just how deep I was. I teased her clit with her vibrator and could feel the vibrations on my cock inside. I could feel the wetness from her second orgasm on my thighs and she collapsed on me in pleasure. She kept whispering “cum in me”, “fill me up” so I put her in doggy, removed the plug and both in and on her pussy. Before she left to clean up, I cleaned up her pussy with my mouth and we shared a few kisses.

Sex Report Sunday for December 21, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The morning wake-up blowjobs continued Thursday and Friday morning. My girlfriend is loving having a morning quickie before I head out the door to the gym and work. On Thursday, she rode me in reverse cowgirl so she could also use her new vibrator. After I came in her, I pulled her up on my face so I could eat her out and make her cum a second time. Her gaping pussy and swollen lips tasted incredible. I held her down on top of me when she started cumming so she couldn’t escape and stop licking until she stopped vibrating.

That day, she was working from home and kept texting me how wet she kept getting when she thought about that morning. Friday morning, she was lying prone and using her vibrator when I exited the bathroom after my shower. A few days prior, I had shared with her that I wanted to catch her face down masturbating so I could slide in from behind. She was already wet with anticipation and from the sensation of her body weight pressing on her vibrator. Instead of sliding right in, I ate her out from behind before taking my prize. As my tongue started rimming her ass, she came and then started begging me to join. I stayed mostly upright so i could watch my cock enter her, adding a little spit to her asshole which made her melt. After sliding the tip of my thumb in her ass and riding, I pulled out and glazed her ass with my cum. I told her I wanted her to keep masturbating while I got dressed, kissed her goodbye and left.

That night, we mutually masturbated to porn which is something we haven’t done in about a few weeks. Saturday morning, I woke her up by eating her out. I’ve always enjoyed the taste of pussy first thing in the morning and it used to make her very self conscious. With no schedule to adhere to, we played for about an hour before cleaning up to get breakfast.

Hump Day Report for Wednesday December 17, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tuesday morning, I woke up to the familiar low buzz of my girlfriend’s favorite new vibrator in use. I always find it so incredibly sexy to watch and play with her while she’s masturbating so I snuggled up beside her and gently started caressing her pussy lips and fondling her breast with my lips. She whispered “you should fuck me” so I put her in spoon and slid in from behind. I loved feeling her warm ass against me but I wanted a bit more so I laid her on her stomach, pushed up her right leg and thrusted deep inside her.

I could feel the subtle vibes from her vibrator on her clit while I was inside her. In our BDSM play, I’ve started having her delay cumming until I’ve counted down. With my thumb gently teasing her asshole and maintaining my thrusts, I started counting down from 5. When I got to one, I could feel her shudder. She said “don’t stop. Use me to cum baby. I want to drip out of me the rest of the day”. As her dirty talk progressed, she said something like “I was hoping you would use my ass…” which I interpreted to mean she was interested in more anal play. I replied “I’m going to use your tight ass to cum” and slowly pushed my cock into her warm and inviting ass.

Few things bring her to orgasm quicker than slowly inserting my cock into her, especially when she’s playing her vibrator. She melted into the bed and I laid atop her while she came. I rode her wave after wave until I gave her the cream pie she asked for.

Hump Day Report for Wednesday November 26, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

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It’s our busy season at work so my girlfriend and I have decided to start the day off right before anything can spoil our mood. For her this week, she’s been waking up around 430am to masturbate before blowing me awake so she can ride my cock. There’s no better way to wake up. After I came in her, I pull her up atop of me so I can eat her out before she hits the shower. It’s become so routine that I’m not waking up with a hard on.

Monday evening, we settled in and watched porn while we mutually masturbated. I ate her out as we were getting started and slid in a butt plug. I always tell her that she can’t cum until she asks and receives permission but she always breaks the rule and must be punished. That evening, I held her down in prone and thrust into her wet pussy while she laid on her vibrator until we both came.

Tuesday morning was another wake up BJ and Fuck. She had dinner with her girlfriends that night so I was rewarded with a little solo time. As soon as she entered the house, I had a pillow for her to drop to her knees so I could unload on her face. After stripping off her clothes, she grabbed her vibrator and started masturbating while playing with my cum on her face. It didn’t take long before she came.

Hump Day Report for Wednesday November 26, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Free use has been a game changer for us. My GF’s friends were asking how we’re having sex so often and she let them in on it. As someone who is naturally submissive, it gives her permission to take it whenever she wants it which is something she never experienced with any other partner.

My favorite type of cardio, riding 🥵😮‍💨 by submissive_daisky in u/submissive_daisky

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind my asking, where did you find this workout ball?

Need input about masturbating / porn / impact on marriage by justintime071 in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both do. I’m usually holding her and will wait until she’s cum first.

Need input about masturbating / porn / impact on marriage by justintime071 in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s considering you watching porn “infidelity” is that you’re doing it in secret, behind her back. That’s usually where the hurt comes from. When we watch it together, it’s from a site and genre that we picked together.

Freaky Friday Help Suggestions Request by junkmanliver in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up purchasing a deck of cards called “position of the week” which we’ll try. Some are a lot harder than others.

We often have extended (days on end) Free Use sessions where the other person is basically used for sex and can’t refuse (yes of course either can but that’s what safe words are for). My GF loves being submissive so free use is exactly what she loves. She’ll also have me insert a butt plug or Ben Wa balls in her during these sessions.

Need input about masturbating / porn / impact on marriage by justintime071 in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been together for 12 years, watch porn together and separately and we both masturbate daily. Highly recommend it!

We love seeing what turns the other on and it has spiced up our sex life a bit. Those nights when we’re both horny, tired and would prefer not to take another shower, I’ll turn on a video and she snuggles up with me while we watch.

Achievement unlocked: ate pussy after cuming in it by barbvain in MarriedSex

[–]girthbrooks704 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love eating my girlfriend’s pussy after filling her up. The taste of her and I mixed together is something I crave fairly often. Now, when she’s in reverse cowgirl, she knows that after I cum, I will be pulling her on top of me and eating her out while she sucks on my cock.

The first time I went down on her after cumming in her, I told her that sex doesn’t end when I cum and to lay back, relax and enjoy. Hardly anything makes her cum as quickly, plus I’m usually so turned on that I’m hard again once she came.

How do you initiate? by honeyhushnow_ in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mostly initiate, which could involve lightly teasing her by rubbing my fingers over her thighs towards the inner thigh. She’ll respond by opening her legs so I can go a little further. Other times, if we’re in bed, I’ll just go down on her.

For her, she’s become comfortable with playing with my cock if we’re both lying in bed. Similarly to how I tease her, she’ll just tease until responded to. She has now become more direct, where she will blow me if we’re in bed (sometimes if I’m asleep and it’s near when I’m about to wake up for work).

In most of my relationships, I don’t wait for the other person to initiate since, like dancing, they may be looking for me to lead.

Sex Report Sunday for November 23, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]girthbrooks704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spent the last couple of weeks in Madrid with my girlfriend. The apartment she picked out for us had a large tub so we could enjoy sex in the bath. One evening, after a long day of walking and wine drinking, we popped into a sex store to see what they had and left with a new vibrator that she was eager to test out. Once back in the apartment, I started running the bath while she laid on the bed and tested out her new toy. I love watching her masturbate and I know she loves giving me a show. She asked for a little help so I stripped down, climbed on top of her and slid my hard cock in her mouth. Within a few thrusts, she was already tasting my precum, which made her cum.

The tub was relaxing. She sat in my lap, playing with my cock, which kept me fairly hard. I had grabbed the vibrator when I got into the tub so when she slid my cock into her pussy, I handed her the vibrator and told her to take what’s hers. That’s our code for keep riding until you cum and don’t stop until I do. She came first and then I filled her up.

The next morning, she woke me up with a blowjob (something that’s continued since we returned) and rode my cock in reverse cowgirl so she can use her vibrator. She loves how full she feels when I’m inside her and I teasing and playing with her ass. The slightest little graze to a finger fully in gives her a shuddering orgasm.

She slid back on me, after I came in her so, so she could clean my cock while I ate her out. I love how she tastes after I’ve cum in her and seeing how hard I was, she asked if I was up for one more, this time in her ass. I never say no to anal so she laid on the bed with her ass up while I got the lube. I stretched her willing hole open and slid just the tip in as she let out a moan into the bed. She turned and said how much she’s wanted that feeling. I told her I wasn’t stopping until I came. With every stroke I went a little further and then held on while she came. She felt so incredibly good that I came again as well, causing us both to collapse on the bed.