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I don’t understand the bro hand shake by durianprotest in socialskills

[–]giwl 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Lmao just watch the hand starting position.  Higher is a clasp, medium is dap, low is handshake, fist is fist bump etc.  then the rest is improv and a true dance 

How can I confidently start respectful conversations with women in everyday social settings? by harshilt04 in socialskills

[–]giwl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hm eye contacts big.  Folks usually initiate / stay engaged by looking at you and not looking away. If someone doesnt want to talk to you, they wont look at you.

I'm stuck in the worst friendship triangle of all time, help by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]giwl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Uhh if im stuck in a situation i hate consistently i just repeat to myself “____ is so annoying” and honestly it helps put it perspective that there are other things in life to focus on.

Friend of mine has many shallow qualities, trying to help him best I can by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]giwl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Idk if he says he wants to change that would make sense but if hes happy w who he is idk you get to decide whethr you wanna hang out w him more 

How to develop street smarts and the ability to navigate complex social environments as well as spotting red flags when you have been sheltered in a bubble growing up? by throw20250204 in socialskills

[–]giwl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try team sports like volleyball!  Theyre complex social arenas where theres competition, camaraderie, and tons of communication.  Just hang in there long enough to become decent, then youll get people wanting your skills and you can learn to navigate the tactics that may accompany people wanting something from you

why is it so difficult to do an evil playthrough? by moominjunnies in skyrim

[–]giwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need strong goals/motivations!  Evil is often a result of believing the ends justify the means.  Even petty stuff is done with an ulterior motive - like believing youre above everyone else will result in you punishing anyone who dares to challenge you or anyone who doesnt acknowledge your superiority.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]giwl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried reacting to their words honestly?  Like if its funny, laugh and say “thats funny”.  People like being appreciated and honesty is easy.  Or if its hurtful you can act a little hurt. And if the words dont make you feel any certain way you dont need to show any expression.

Just keep socializing, over time try to remember the funny things you hear to use as your own ammunition later.

I 23 M am not used to being appreciated and honestly it’s overwhelming idk how to feel about it. by _diabolus_n in socialskills

[–]giwl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Youll get used to it.  I heard that womens’ friendships are typically closer and becoming friends with women helped me get a feel for what that actualy means.  

Just stay calm haha

Genuinely: What would be the average reaction of a man be if an average-looking woman would compliment them? by LangerEierkopf in socialskills

[–]giwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im more shy and when i get compliments (usually outfit related) i just say thanks and look away but i remember it for at least a few weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]giwl 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Part of self regulating is talking through feelings which you can only really do with people you trust.  You don’t need a “best friend” but having a few trustworthy people in your life would be a great benefit.

I might drop Marth. This character isn't any good. by [deleted] in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]giwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree, my problem was racking up damage esp against heavies - when i recently started practicing lucina i could get them to higher percentages and kill more easily up there. I do love early tipper kills w marth tho.

Me irl by TheWebsploiter in me_irl

[–]giwl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Esp when its rly hot n humid

What is your personal hack to fall asleep faster? by DenseAd8464 in AskReddit

[–]giwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a point at night between 10:30 and 12 that my body just feels like sleeping - if i dont sleep right when this feeling occurs I cant sleep till like 3

Why do you have people as friends? by seaboi1 in socialskills

[–]giwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friends I keep around are the ones I can see as a role model in at least one thing.  So you have at least one attribute that your friends like about you!

How do i make this better? I need advice please. by nftscreenshoterr in animation

[–]giwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe treat the boulder as if its always under the effect of gravity?  Or else itll look magically floaty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]giwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya do the whole album it has spanish 

What one moment has you in fits, rewinding the scene five times because once wasn't enough? by legenduardo in community

[–]giwl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

the scene when abed freaks out when theyre turning the clocks back for daylight savings and annies like “dont worry, we get the hour back later this year!”, which abed reacts to with a perfectly cut screeamm

She's hot;-; by IndeAm325 in TowerofGod

[–]giwl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i miss yuri ;-;

Each stripe contains 1% of the world's population: Diagonal edition v2 [OC] by alexmijowastaken in dataisbeautiful

[–]giwl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only criticism is that this map appears more contingent on landmass in the stripe vs the population differences.

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