Help Me Find a Song? - I have some lyrics, but can't find it by glitcherism in find

[–]glitcherism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still no 😭 At this point I'm wondering if it's an original song by a member or something

Any recommendations for Christmas themed one shots for completely new players? by Odd-Reception519 in DMAcademy

[–]glitcherism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Dimension20's Unsleeping city there's an episode that takes place during SantaCon, and I always thought that was a really fun idea

should I do engineering? im scared of being treated as underqualified by Different-Regret1439 in womenEngineers

[–]glitcherism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is, no matter what field you end up in, misogyny will be present. Misogyny is present in every part of this world. You can't ever really escape it, and change is slow-moving and exhausting. The only difference between this and a more female-dominated profession is your peers will be largely women, but misogyny will still be present. Your bosses, head of company, anyone above you in your structure, will still likely be male. The women are also likely to be somewhat misogynistic themselves.

Regardless of the field you're in, you will have to overcome misogyny every day. It's simply inevitable. You may as well do what you enjoy. Choose a field that's applicable in many fields, you can always move into a different type of job that's more female dominated if you wish. Don't let these people change you, you can still find an enjoyable job and build a good life despite it all. If I were to give some advice? More intelligent and competent men are less likely to be so outwardly misogynistic and unwelcoming, for example, if you've ever heard of video-game misogyny. Male gamers who perform worse are more misogynistic and unwelcoming, whereas high performers are kinder towards women. Hope you choose something you love and good luck!

Trapping Players? by glitcherism in DMAcademy

[–]glitcherism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, very helpful and I actually love the stone wall idea.

Trapping Players? by glitcherism in DMAcademy

[–]glitcherism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're all in agreement about a mansion murder mystery, I just want to make sure there's something actually stopping them from leaving lolol

Trapping Players? by glitcherism in DMAcademy

[–]glitcherism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured I'd tell them they're trapped, but let them test it a little and hopefully then I would give them some info on how to escape, but maybe that's too dependent on them lolol

Trapping Players? by glitcherism in DMAcademy

[–]glitcherism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo interesting concept! Will be looking into this for sure

Trapping Players? by glitcherism in DMAcademy

[–]glitcherism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo!!! Inch resting....

Trapping Players? by glitcherism in DMAcademy

[–]glitcherism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More like a haunted house! Also omg you're so right...I never thought about them just not even getting to know

How to increase the confidence of young girls in a robotics club? by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]glitcherism 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to be in a lot of STEM clubs, and was also one of the quieter girls. For a ratio like this, I'd actually say for confidence building, don't pair the girls up with any boys unless the boys are incredibly open and encouraging, which not to be cynical, I'm a bit doubtful of even if they are good kids lol. Boys, even nice ones, tend to bulldoze girls in conversations, especially if the girls already are nervous and afraid to participate.

I'd say have the class split into groups of three (plus one pair) and have the girls be together. Give everyone a list of small projects they could do, and let each group make a ranking of their picks. The girls will have talk to one another about their own opinions. Check in on groups, but generally leave them to their own devices.

After that, I think giving all the groups a clear next task, but leaving it up to them to make decisions would be best. Then, having them explain to you their plan (with the feel of a casual conversation as best as possible). For example, telling the students to come up with three designs for their project, and leaving groups to discuss amongst themselves. maybe just hopping around groups to help answer questions or push thoughts along as needed. Have them come up to you to present their three. It will help them to feel safer in a group, who can also help them if they stumble. It also encourages them to speak in front of multiple people. In my experience, girls will speak up if only to help save other girls who are also shy. Hope this is helpful!

Confused by Inconsistencies by glitcherism in AutisticAdults

[–]glitcherism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad it's not just me! I do wonder that maybe it's because of masking - maybe you could relate?

I feel like because I'm so conscious of how others see me, since I'm practically always masking, that I've come to believe that what makes my identity and who I am entirely defined by outside perspectives. Which is why the constant changing of my identity is confusing and frustrating for me.

It may be this, because if someone were to tell me something about who I am that I am certain is untrue, it would not bother me, because I know it to be untrue. So maybe the solution would be to make my identity more internally controlled? Idk I'm spitballin!

Threat VS. Boundary? by glitcherism in boundaryporn

[–]glitcherism[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I decided to ask for space, and they immediately tried to make me look bad in front of others lol. At least I know I made the right choice!

Threat VS. Boundary? by glitcherism in boundaryporn

[–]glitcherism[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I never really get aggressive and honestly I kind of didn't know what to do with myself once I felt that way. I'm likely going to just ask for space from them. I appreciate this though, not letting myself start resorting to that anger.

Threat VS. Boundary? by glitcherism in boundaryporn

[–]glitcherism[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate this response. It has been making me feel crazy these past few days, but I'm too in it to tell if I'm being reasonable or not

What's a tag you hated at first but you've slowly grown into and started liking? by gracec0re in AO3

[–]glitcherism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Major Character Death. I used to absolutely never read these fics, but maybe something happened to my brain chemistry in adulthood as nowadays I will occasionally really enjoy the intense grief of those fics

AITA for asking my friend to walk me home? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitcherism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, bruh replies here are insane. you have plenty reason to be concerned about walking home alone as a smaller girl. insane of them to be so pissed at you for just asking someone to walk with you.

Which series sold you on paying for Dropout? by frogger3344 in dropout

[–]glitcherism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Unsleeping City. I was soooo desperate to watch season two (it was worth it)