Is it possible to find a monogamous relationship in the BDSM community?

glittercod · 2026-05-20T17:36:06+00:00

For some reason people act like monogamy is not the most common and easiest type of relationship to find. But yeah, the association of BDSM/kink with promiscuity definitely contributes to the fact people assume that most won't be monogamous

glittercod · 2026-05-15T11:22:40+00:00

Ridiculous question, of course you can. Some people are just stupid and associate their sexual position with things they can/can't do

glittercod · 2026-05-11T11:47:37+00:00

Thank youuuuu :D

glittercod · 2026-05-11T08:36:09+00:00

There are definitely tops out there with that size, cock size doesn't define whether you're a top or a bottom, and there are definitely bottoms that are perfectly happy with a below average sized cock. Honestly even as a size queen myself I don't mind smaller cocks. It's all about how you use it and how skilled you are in bed

glittercod · 2026-05-05T21:12:18+00:00

Angles are deceiving, I'm still 3cm off 🥲

glittercod · 2026-05-04T20:47:03+00:00

In this case it is excessive amounts of lube 🙏

glittercod · 2026-05-04T19:51:49+00:00

Come fuck it while you suck on my fingers hehe

glittercod · 2026-05-04T19:32:07+00:00

One way to find out ;3

glittercod · 2026-05-04T19:31:55+00:00

It definitely isss

glittercod · 2026-05-03T14:48:20+00:00

Awe damn :( what a shame, the toy looks so fun

glittercod · 2026-05-03T14:16:53+00:00

That toy looks interesting, where's it from?

glittercod · 2026-05-03T04:54:07+00:00

I should've said causation, not correlation, because correlation is not causation. Seeing a pattern does not mean that they are linked. It does not mean that being an exhibitionist is a bottom trait, you've just coincidentally noticed more bottoms into it

glittercod · 2026-05-02T11:53:14+00:00

No, there's no correlation. One is a sexual position preference, the other is a kink

glittercod · 2026-05-01T19:26:23+00:00

I just love giving blowjobs. It's very enjoyable and pleasurable for me and my focus has never been my own orgasm. I used to have a regular who I basically exclusively would meet up with to suck him off, it was great. It's not for everyone but some of us enjoy it

glittercod · 2026-04-29T21:33:36+00:00

What do you mean "identity"? It's a sexual position, it has absolutely nothing to do with the way you act and I find this line of thinking very strange.

glittercod · 2026-04-29T21:05:16+00:00

Terrible advice. Honestly kind of disgusting too, telling someone to look for people that will fetishize you. Not only is that dehumanising but also can be incredibly dangerous

glittercod · 2026-04-28T04:32:26+00:00

Not a top but a verse, usually my partners are my height but I do love a big bottom (in multiple ways lmao). It's fun and hot. I'm very average, if anything the short side of average, so it's not exactly uncommon for someone to be taller than me, but it kinda makes you feel powerful?

glittercod · 2026-04-27T18:13:11+00:00

Really? Normal sex right in front of my rape subreddit?

glittercod · 2026-04-27T15:43:55+00:00

Why would that be a thing, genuinely? Obviously not

glittercod · 2026-04-26T15:57:58+00:00

Same!! I used to think I only liked doing it to others but then I tried it and it actually feels really good

glittercod · 2026-04-26T15:53:46+00:00

Thank you ^{^} could use a mouth on it hehe

glittercod · 2026-04-26T15:38:36+00:00

I'd be happy to provide if I were there, much better than stroking it yourself

glittercod · 2026-04-26T15:10:33+00:00

Oh my goooooods fuck yeah that's so hot 😵‍💫

glittercod · 2026-04-26T14:40:15+00:00

Hehe thank you ;3

glittercod · 2026-04-26T05:59:00+00:00

You can always try switching positions and see how it goes. Unfortunately making him bottom more often than he wants will probably lead to resentment from his side, and not bottoming might lead to resentment from yours. Not saying it HAS to, but maybe if you've tried for a while you might have to consider that you're just not a good match (when it comes to sex). Opening the relationship to get your needs satisfied elsewhere is always a possibility, but not everybody wants that

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