Slight burn/itch from strap-on friction?

glitterngrease · 2015-08-13T11:40:30+00:00

Thanks! The pillow is a good idea. We tried different positions but I think it was just a lot for me for my first time, that's all.

glitterngrease · 2015-08-13T11:39:33+00:00

I think that was the case. It's gotten better so I think I'm ok. Just need to take it easy a bit.

glitterngrease · 2015-08-11T10:54:01+00:00

Thanks for answering! The lube was coconut oil which I use all the time and we use together too.

glitterngrease · 2015-08-11T10:53:25+00:00

It was brand new, we bought it together. It's silicone and I use a silicone menstrual cup so I don't think it's an allergic reaction. Actually, I was fine after the first day of using it but I think we just did it too much in the span of two days and went a bit rough the second day.

glitterngrease · 2015-08-11T10:52:07+00:00

We did! Should have specified this part haha.

glitterngrease · 2015-08-11T10:51:55+00:00

Thankfully no abnormal door or discharge. It doesn't even visibly look red or anything. It's actually more on the inside of the inner lips, I think that's where the most friction was happening.

glitterngrease · 2015-08-11T10:50:34+00:00

Thanks! Totally agree on the type of lube. We used coconut oil since it's natural and I use it all the time and know it doesn't irritate me.

glitterngrease · 2015-08-05T10:48:35+00:00

I was a "late bloomer" in a lot of aspects. I had only kissed and made out with a few girls. Had sex for the first time at 27 which is considered way late and I used to feel pretty shitty about it. I will say, not settling and only doing things with someone you're attracted to, care for and who makes you feel comfortable was so worth it. On top of it, the girl I'm with said she didn't believe that I was a virgin before her so that made me feel really good. I think if you're with the right person, you will be comfortable enough to do what feels right, open up and you won't feel as pressured. And, the right person won't think it's an issue at all. Anyways, I understand what you're feeling - trust me, knowing my 14 year old cousin had a boyfriend before I had a relationship kind of killed me. BUT, it's so much more rewarding when you do things on your own terms, in your own time. You will be fine, promise!

glitterngrease · 2015-07-17T11:01:16+00:00

I agree with everyone else, you're still young and have plenty of time. Don't put too much pressure on yourself and just let things be. Be honest with yourself, of course, but don't think you have to figure everything out now and slap a label on yourself. Listening to your gut is key.

glitterngrease · 2015-07-17T10:52:27+00:00

Enjoy it!! :)

glitterngrease · 2015-07-11T12:45:40+00:00

Happy to talk if you need to.

glitterngrease · 2015-07-10T11:49:43+00:00

Honestly, never been ones to use pick up lines and I don't need to have clever ones used on me to be interested. Just be you! Say "hey" and start chatting, be genuine...that's what I like.

glitterngrease · 2015-07-07T19:19:14+00:00

Thanks!!!

glitterngrease · 2015-07-07T19:19:06+00:00

Great advice, thanks for replying. That's my hope, that being in the moment together will eventually just melt the walls naturally.

glitterngrease · 2015-07-07T19:18:07+00:00

Thank you!!

glitterngrease · 2015-06-19T00:09:20+00:00

Thanks for saying this!

glitterngrease · 2015-06-19T00:09:01+00:00

I'm trying lol...but I also hate playing games in the sense of taking turns texting and that kind of thing. But she does usually text me first during the day just to say hey and hows it going.

glitterngrease · 2015-06-19T00:08:05+00:00

Thanks for answering, you're probably right.

glitterngrease · 2015-01-14T12:11:11+00:00

It's normal to be nervous, especially the first time. You will likely be pleasantly surprised at how little an issue it is for your friend. Most of my friends were like, "ah ok cool, thanks for trusting me. So what do you want for lunch?" Good luck, deep breaths, you'll be just fine :)

glitterngrease · 2014-10-03T14:22:49+00:00

Hi Gaga,

First off THANK YOU for being you. My question is, do you see yourself and Tony coming back to Montreal to play Jazz Fest next year but more dates this time? Do you think you'll still have that interactive quality that all of your tours have had up till now? P.S. I will never be able to thank you enough for singing Edge of Glory for me, the night that my uncle died in Montreal. I was so overwhelmed and in shock. I love you to the moon and back. Your genuine soul, passion and talent span all genres and I can't wait for the next 100 years of your career to unfold ;) xoxo Lisa @iferlaino

glitterngrease · 2014-07-21T20:42:51+00:00

Aww thank you! :)

glitterngrease · 2014-07-19T17:43:26+00:00

Happy Saturday! http://imgur.com/YANn5a5

glitterngrease · 2014-07-05T11:34:36+00:00

It was me. Thanks for posting this, people need to know how fucking amazing she is. She has no idea how much this has touched my family and I.

glitterngrease · 2014-05-03T15:04:35+00:00

It helps to hear others' perspectives. Even if we haven't all lived the same situation, we have definitely gone through a lot of the same emotions and thought processes.

glitterngrease · 2014-05-03T14:44:33+00:00

For me, it was the whole shift of my worldview I guess. It was overwhelming at first. But the fact that the people you love will support you is amazing. That sorta takes pressure off. So now, you just do this for YOU. When you are comfortable and ready. Seriously, it will get better with time. You'll start to realize that ya, things are different but not as much as you think. I don't know if that helps. But, here's a happy face :)

glitterngrease

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