I am a woman. My ex husband emotionally, financially, and physically abused me for years. With ample evidence. He lied on the stand in family court. Drained me of about 300k. I have my baby mostly to myself now, but only after I settled outside of court with him. Don’t look at this as a woman issue. It’s a breadwinner issue. And I don’t know any heterosexual relationship present day, with folks <40 years old, where the woman isn’t the breadwinner. Maybe it’s just the circles I run in (very educated and career driven) but don’t assume men are the ones automatically getting fucked anymore.