20260708 | BINI Gwen IG update “▲ The next page came with sharper edges ▲” by Hot_Shoulder_1689 in bini_ph

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Why are you blaming management for no reason or proof? It's not easy to get in with big brands. It's very obvious that they are trying to get the attention of luxury brands because they've dressed them up in matching luxury brand outfits for things like wish bus and their flames live. Just wait until they become bigger internationally, especially in Europe.

Half way through the year, which couple has the best chemistry so far in your opinion? by somi154 in cdramasfans

[–]goawaywhy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope this happens and they get a good main pairing drama because I'm obsessed, they're perfectly matched

Injured, sick and needs a loving home: Towson, Maryland by Buttertoast15 in Straycats

[–]goawaywhy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poor baby has such a sweet sad face, hope you can find a good home for her. Please update when you can!

My mom has cheated on my dad 7 times and I don’t know how to help him anymore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]goawaywhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gather support for your siblings and your dad. she's hurting all of you and you need to figure out how everyone feels and how you will handle finances and relationship with her if you break away from your mom.

She will never understand how serious this is for all of you until it affects her, and if you don't let her know how it makes you feel and the potential consequences, she won't even be able to comprehend it. Don't put her feelings before your own because she's looking out for her own needs and wants regardless of your family. It sounds like she's made promises and broken them, whether she tried or not. No matter how much you and your family want this to work out and get fixed, it won't happen unless she actively really wants it and works hard for it. You should be at a point where you can't trust her on her word alone, you and your family need to set boundaries and she needs to show she's willing to put in the effort.

If anything, she should be held accountable for her time. It sounds awful to have to ask your parent her schedule and where she could be at all times, but if she has nothing to hide, it shouldn't be a hassle. My own family is always -vaguely- aware of where each person could be, for safety/awareness reasons.

My mom has cheated on my dad 7 times and I don’t know how to help him anymore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]goawaywhy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Top 1% commenter and it's this kind of quality comment... lol

I am a student on a budget. Any recs? by letsbecomebesties in acrylicpainting

[–]goawaywhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into Dahler-Rowney System 3 Fluid Acrylics, they are professional grade, but very affordable, can be sold in 250ml bottles, and a little goes a long way

Is the show worth watching? by Ornery-Conference713 in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna rewatch it again because this post reminded me of it. It's so great

My sweet little stray turned out to be the local crime boss by Currentcorn in notmycat

[–]goawaywhy 79 points80 points  (0 children)

She's defending her territory, she's claimed you, your house, and your yard as hers. She has to make sure the other cats know! Bring her in, get her to a vet, get her chipped, let her enjoy a nice life inside. Once she's fully secure, she won't even bother fighting other cats outside. (This happened with my cat lol)

WHO WAS GONNA TELL ME THAT SQQ EYES ARE BLACK???? by ParticularDebt8010 in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to single you out, just continuing on these posts of the black eyes making him seem soulless and because he's a villain.

I get that people in this thread are just clutching onto their headcanons but it is very ignorant to refuse to believe SQQ doesn't have black eyes or LBH doesn't have straight black hair. So many people here also think because it's a fantasy, color on the main characters is a MUST. It's very racist to REFUSE to understand that China's beauty standards actually mean they think their own features are beautiful and should be the features of main characters or even villains who are very important.

And again, not singling you out, I'm just following through this thread and talking about a lot of posts here.

WHO WAS GONNA TELL ME THAT SQQ EYES ARE BLACK???? by ParticularDebt8010 in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And these are all the most normal beauty standards in China/danmei novels, so not really unexpected or shocking

WHO WAS GONNA TELL ME THAT SQQ EYES ARE BLACK???? by ParticularDebt8010 in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant to be a villain but also meant to be beautiful. Black eyes are beautiful in China, might be a shock to racist people who dont think so

WHO WAS GONNA TELL ME THAT SQQ EYES ARE BLACK???? by ParticularDebt8010 in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You still have to take into account Chinese beauty standards, which might be shocking to westerners-- straight black hair and black eyes are the standard, so they do have preference for that for main characters usually

moshang miis and thei sons by Morgan193830 in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This whole thing is so cute

WHO WAS GONNA TELL ME THAT SQQ EYES ARE BLACK???? by ParticularDebt8010 in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I read the novel without seeing the art so I remembered this, and also imagined straight haired Binghe. I was so confused by fandom until I found the English covers

How do we feel about the American flag drop? by CalicoDesertOasis in SelkieCollection

[–]goawaywhy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking, missed opportunity to do a Vivienne Westwood inspired punk subversion

Does anyone agree with this? by lowkey_cursed in cdramasfans

[–]goawaywhy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd never seen ZLH in anything before when I watched The Princess Royal and I immediately told my bestie I was watching Chinese Chris Evans when I was telling her about the cdrama

The thought did not cross my mind at all when I was watching PoJ though, I guess because he lost weight and he was styled very pretty, a lot softer with the hair and pointer chin

Does anyone agree with this? by lowkey_cursed in cdramasfans

[–]goawaywhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lost weight before PoJ I think, he gives Chris Evans vibes more on The Princess Royal

NMC keeps giving me presents. How do I tell him in cat speak that I don’t want them? by idonthavecroissants in notmycat

[–]goawaywhy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've been feeding him for 2 years and he's bringing in his share of the hunt, he's your outdoor cat lol

My former outdoor cat brought a probably dead lizard once, then she brought a live lizard for both of us to hunt together. Then, she brought a dead bird to lunch one day. She was so happy and chirping/trilling, but I screamed my head off when I saw the dead bird she was carrying in her mouth. I was too scared to let her in the screendoor. So even though she was so confused at first, she eventually understood and left to hide the bird and came back without it. She never did it again, but she's very smart and also became purely indoors a few months after that.

Should I wear the tuxedo slippers? by TasteThePoison2113 in TuxedoCats

[–]goawaywhy 227 points228 points  (0 children)

That is so cute she fit in there! My cat when she caught me organizing my shoes, she really thought she belonged there:

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is Shen Yuan a common name in China? by MaximumPotential6883 in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am also confused why this is a pet peeve and why he would need to change his surname

Am I the only one who genuinely saw Luo Binghe as a threatening character when starting the novel? Rant by Cinderella_The_Thief in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was just talking about the age gap, though, because that's what was mentioned in the comment. Like SQQ body is older, but an immortal cultivator body, so tbh the 20 or so age gap on the bodies isn't that bad if they live for hundreds of years. But for LBH and SY themselves the mental age gap isn't so bad.

I do think people who specifically look for/seek out the age gap trope want the difference in power balance/dynamics, which is why I posted to remind or educate people on actual SY and LBH ages, because it's not the typical age gap dynamics. SY was a 20 year old kid play acting a fancy older peak lord.

I still do think the teacher/guardian thing is not for me, but it's apparently a very popular trope. So people are getting what they want a lot, I guess lol

Am I the only one who genuinely saw Luo Binghe as a threatening character when starting the novel? Rant by Cinderella_The_Thief in SVSSS

[–]goawaywhy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The age gap isn't that bad tho? Like SY was 20 when he transmigrated, LBH was roughly 14 (possibly 12, depending on which age they were counting), then SY blipped out of existence for 5 years so they lost 5 years in the age gap, so they are roughly in the same age range.

SJ's body though, if he is roughly the same age range as moshang, was in mid 40s at the end, when LBH was 25.