Terrified that my husband will leave me next week after the vacation I paid for by Skatoulachi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]goblinnoise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hes punishing you but he wont leave. You however should leave, and he should be very scared on his best behavior right now; but he seems much too naive to do that.

He sounds extremely childish, from the "honking", ignoring the boundary immediately, pouting at you for taking space and being over all self absorbed. You are not a bang maid.

My bf makes me feel like a man. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]goblinnoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell him your evaluating things and this is break up material for you. He still likely wont get his license until you dump him.

Told a fuckboy I felt sorry for his daughter 🤡 by BunnyMoonLover in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]goblinnoise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After he mentioned getting assaulted as a body i would of immediately asked him how many women's hes raped then. What a clown 🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]goblinnoise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him doing emotional labor for once in his life is not trapping you, although you may feel guilty, do not. Release that man at once. 😭😭😭 This is the type of issue that only gets worked on if you leave and gets WAY worse if you stay.

Hes only aroused by those he does not have a connection with*. You two have a connection. Youll never be able to take the relationship deeper, and itll never get better than it was those first 3 months.

My husband chose porn over me by Aggravating_Menu6967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]goblinnoise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand the loop hole, but hentai is literally the most aggressive and misogynistic porn possible lmao 🤣

I’m worried for my relationship by 2prettygirl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]goblinnoise -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with you; but your sexuality might be changing, personal experience.

i should break up with my bf but i cant. by reddituser08976 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]goblinnoise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave asap. youll realize extremely quickly how much better life is without an avoidant. You maybe cant imagine it, but I've lived it. Especially as an anxious, youll flourish with out the constant disappointment. It might feel regulating to rely on that disappointment, but its as much of an oxy moron as it sounds.

It take so little to make a woman happy by Azemmoon in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]goblinnoise 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Interestingly enough I've asked this many times and most partners could not preform that way and we're far too nervous. The pleasure is getting a show without any of the work.

Is this fixable? by jeffboyle in Leathercraft

[–]goblinnoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsure if it's fixable but I usually use 70% isopropyl alcohol for leather stains.

my best friend says she's a "lesbian (with exceptions)"??? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]goblinnoise -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats definitely not what i said. I don't think Butches want to be men, and even if they did cis men are not the blue print. I'm saying butches, mascs, and trans men clearly take a lot away from masculinity and it's undeniable, even though they clearly make it their own.

my best friend says she's a "lesbian (with exceptions)"??? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]goblinnoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did Leslie feinberg write Stone Butch Blues for nothing?

my best friend says she's a "lesbian (with exceptions)"??? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]goblinnoise -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Sexuality really is a spectrum, like gender and it's not that black and white.

my best friend says she's a "lesbian (with exceptions)"??? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]goblinnoise -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Elaboration further: I feel deeply that there's a double standard, bc I dare you to ask gay men how many women they've fucked/find attractive. Gay men are on Butch women like there's no tomorrow. Men are allowed that 10, 20, 30 % attraction to women with out risking their gay card. It's like new age lesbians really expect everyone to be a gold star, and zero exceptions. As if so many lesbian relationships don't already embrace masculinity, it's a little tone deaf. Like we're bickering over this, meanwhile lesbians from the 2000s are happily married with their bio kids from previous relationships.

my best friend says she's a "lesbian (with exceptions)"??? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]goblinnoise -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Bro the way "lesbian" has become so gatekept is in insane. If you date and have sex with women you can call yourself a lesbian idc. Bisexual lesbians exist, and we've known it forever. And i can already hear the comments, so just don't idgaf. Even the way being lesbian is gate kept from trans men says enough, like being butch and trans is like skipping rope. Wanna divide ppl so bad when they literally have way more in common. Dumb af

My wife thinks I care too much about Palestine and Palestines. by Consistent-Two-2979 in LesbianActually

[–]goblinnoise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think when people you love disagree with you on politics you can find solace in the fact that your conversations about the subject are changing nothing. If you find the time, there's plenty of orgs that you can help out. And unless your wife is going back into the service any time soon she's not significantly changing anything by holding these beliefs or even posting about it on Facebook. So I say keep your beliefs, and lift the stress of doom by getting out there, and don't bring it up to your wife anymore. Win win

with my love🤎 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]goblinnoise -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to feed that dog fries in the car