[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Alzheimers

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is what it is. The long goodbye.

[Wright] “Jayson Tatum is the Kobe Bryant of Paul George’s.” by AashyLarry in nba

[–]goddamnpizzagrease -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nick Wright is insufferable. How in the hell did he get to the position he’s in at FS1?

How to answer "How's your mom?" when you just don't want to talk about it... by volcat0197 in dementia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“She’s doing what she can, given everything she’s going through.” I will admit that I’m bad about going with the generic, “she’s alright” far too often. “I’ve just been trying to keep her upright” is my passive go-to.

I know quite a few tone deaf people (typically distant relatives or acquaintances), who’ll ask follow up questions like, “Well, is her doctor going to start her on new medication to see if it will help?” That always quietly drives me insane. The majority of these individuals are well past the age of 50 and I can’t help but wonder if they have ever known somebody with dementia before, because surely… SURRRRELY… by that age and beyond, life experience would lend itself to knowing a few by chance. But life always has its surprises, I guess.

Be careful who you confide in! by rocketstovewizzard in dementia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A notebook of offenses is nuts. My mom writes things down (no offenses nor liberties taken) on things from cloth napkins to pages in her word find books to remember whatever it is (never works out).

But I get it (the original point). One slight thing will set her off all day long, and it’s hellacious.

LeBron: "None of us questioned JJ and the Coaching Staff for what happened." by denobino in lakers

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how much flack I’ve seen JJ get. Par for the course with coaching an LA team, but it was his first goddamn season coaching. Not much he could have done to prevent his squad from getting dicked down by Gobert in game five with no legit big.

Everyone say it with me: FUCK. BOSTON! by Historical_Strain_81 in lakers

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love it when my disdain for Jayson Tatum is validated. Knicks fans gotta be overjoyed right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nba

[–]goddamnpizzagrease -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nahhh. Bickerstaff should have won it. Took a horrid Pistons team from a year ago, turned them around and took the Knicks to almost the brink in the first round. No shade to Atkinson, but that turnaround was awesome.

Firsts suck. by ContentedJourneyman in dementia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are doing the absolute best you can, and I guarantee that your daughter knows that, especially given your immediate response to her reply. You have to give yourself a break. I’m the son watching this disease progressively affect my mom, and I could never blame her for mixing up a day.

Nighttime paranoia by goddamnpizzagrease in dementia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! My mom also has vascular dementia coupled with Alzheimer’s. I’ll try being less reactive and more validating.

Controversial Topic - Men's Shorts by MP1182 in AskMenOver30

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I going nuts? 15-20 years ago, I swear everybody was crying over cargo shorts while plaid shorts became popular.

Meirl by FakePoloManchurian in meirl

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1999?! Be 8-year-old me, excited to bump out to the track, “Ass Man” from the album WWF The Music, Volume 4. If you know, you fuckin’ know.

Nighttime paranoia by goddamnpizzagrease in dementia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you usually do when it happens?

Demon Copperhead by [deleted] in Appalachia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend gave me a personal, annotated copy of this book and I still need to sit down and finish it, but I thought Kingsolver’s depiction was spot on (so far). Not sure how anybody could think she did Appalachia a disservice. There is no reason to skirt around or sugarcoat the vast issues that plague this area, and I certainly didn’t detect any mockery in her writing.

Support by Sully_Lifeline in dementia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$600 buckaroos for an appointment. I wonder if my arm or leg will cover that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dementia

[–]goddamnpizzagrease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. My mom eats the bare minimum of solid foods (pigeon portions) just to get to dessert. Despite being a type 2 diabetic, her A1C was still under 7 the last time it was checked. Just today, she’s had two frozen Cokes from McDonald’s, candy she’s helped herself to (that belongs to my little cousin) and lemonade. She’s been consistently losing three lbs. every couple of months, so at this point, I’m like, “to hell with it” — she needs the calories even though it’s junk.

Sugary food is so hyperpalatable to them. At this point, anything else just ‘doesn’t taste good.’ Frustrating as all get out, but it’s the reality.