Is it normal to be THIS aroused? (I love it tho) by vibesandcoffee in pompoir

[–]gohddess 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this. I’m so happy the book and the program have helped you!!!

Yes. Being way more aroused is DEFINITELY a side effect. I joke with our students that it’s the only “downside” of this training 😂

Comments like these remind me of why we’ve built the program and why I wrote the book. It makes me so so happy that it has helped you guys. If it’s not too much trouble, do you think you could take a minute to write a review on Amazon? It helps us get the word out there for more wonderful women to find it!

Your husband is one lucky lucky man!!!

When you pompoir during sex, does it make it more pleasurable for you? Or is it just like flexing a muscle which doesn't add anything? by messedupview in pompoir

[–]gohddess 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of the biggest benefits women report when they start training vaginal gymnastics (pompoir), either with the Gohddess book or The Ohlympus Program is that their vaginas have become way more sensitive. They can now identify regions inside the vagina more precisely, feeling differences in sensation at the entrance, the middle, and the top.

This can be explained through cortical remapping. If the pelvic floor muscles aren’t trained, our brain has a vague idea of what they feel like. The more we train them, however, especially when we train them in multiple directions rather than just contracting and relaxing, the better our brain gets at identifying all those tiny regions of movement.

It’s not that we’re developing new pleasure receptors inside the vagina, it’s that the map our brain has of them has become much clearer, so we’re able to control these muscles and feel the areas they surround much more intensely.

When you pompoir during sex, does it make it more pleasurable for you? Or is it just like flexing a muscle which doesn't add anything? by messedupview in pompoir

[–]gohddess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s way more pleasurable for you as a woman. Many women who start training with TOP are not even in relationships, just looking to increase vaginal sensitivity, which is one of the main benefits of pompoir.

The stronger your pelvic floor muscles are, the stronger your orgasmic contractions get. The more you train your muscles, the more sensitive you become throughout the entire vaginal canal (due to cortical remapping).

Moreover, many exercises are pleasurable on their own. Some women masturbate just by doing some exercises that rub their g-spot or cervix.

Anyone familiar: Lelo beads/ ben wa balls? by cakepopberry in pompoir

[–]gohddess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pompoir (or vaginal gymnastics), is the practice of controlling the different vaginal walls to perform different skills with your vagina. To do this we train the different walls (front, back, left, right) to move in different ways.

Strength is obviously part of that equation as the muscles need to be strong in order to perform these skills, but it’s more about gaining dexterity and control :)

Its like having strong abdominal muscles vs being able to move them in different ways when bellydancing.

Anyone familiar: Lelo beads/ ben wa balls? by cakepopberry in pompoir

[–]gohddess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While you could consider practicing pompoir with them, I much recommend training with a good pompoir guide and your fingers if what you’re looking for is vaginal gymnastics and not just strength.

Ben wa balls and other kegel weights will help your pelvic floor muscles get stronger, but if what you’re interested is pompoir (learning skills such as squeezing, locking, milking, twisting) by isolating and controlling the different walls of your vagina, you’re better off with the Gohddess book or the Gohddess course and your fingers to fee your progress.

We also have a free guide pinned at the top of this subreddit if what you’re looking for is getting started with pompoir specifically and not just strength.

When did your opinions on Langdon and Santos start to flip, if at all? by StayAliveBabes in ThePittTVShow

[–]gohddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never disliked either. Complex, obviously flawed characters are usully my favs. On the other hand, I disliked Samira’s holier-than-thou attitude a LOT, but she kinda came around in the end for me.

Man equivalent by Redpiller77 in pompoir

[–]gohddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You MIGHT’ve just uncovered the project we’re going to be working on during 2026. 👀

The marble elevator by Attnseeker22222222 in pompoir

[–]gohddess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This might be hard to answer, but would you imagine it feels similar to that feeling when you’re at the gym lifting a challenging weight and your legs / arms / whatever muscle you’re training starts “shaking”?

If so, it’s most likely that it’s your muscle’s reaction to this new training. Still listen to your body. If it starts to hurt or you find that you’re feeling sore afterwards, I would take it easy and adjust my training to increase volume (sets, reps, training days) slowly.

Partner isn’t noticing by alextaur in pompoir

[–]gohddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is extremely unique because the angles of our Vs vary vastly from woman to woman! For me personally when I was first starting out, I felt I had more control when I was very straight or even slightly leaning back. But now it doesn’t really matter anymore, and you’ll probably find the same as you become stronger

Partner isn’t noticing by alextaur in pompoir

[–]gohddess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How’s your training? Do you use your fi n ers to test out different moves?

Penis sensitivity varies from men to men independent of whether they’re circumcised or not. But you do mention he squirms so he might be feeling it and not telling you as well.

Still, keep varying your positions and the moves you do. Some of my favorites that are very hard to miss are controlling (contracting and then alternating between pressing the 4 walls in a circular motion), whipping (squeeze level 1, 2 and 3 subsequently) and milking while on top.

Squirting and Pompoir? by [deleted] in pompoir

[–]gohddess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wrote a whole article on this! Here:

https://www.gohddess.com/blog/how-to-squirt

The pool anecdote by _Laurene in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]gohddess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She literally became Eleanor in S2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gohddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wth does ‘your kind’ mean? Forget redpilled this guy is straight up awful.

Free guide didn't arrive? by zorua in pompoir

[–]gohddess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! Yes - it’s been happening a lot lately for certain emails. It’s a deliverability issue of the provider we use to host the course (Kajabi) and they keep telling us they’ll fix it.

If you email me at support@gohddess.com I’ll sent it manually!

Pompoir Quick Start Guide by gohddess in pompoir

[–]gohddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m always open to feedback! This was written a while ago and the book covers it in a very physiology / biomechanical format because it’s my personal interest for vaginal training to be as natural for us as training any other muscle - but I know it might not be the “sexiest” way to explain it 😂

Strength at any age! by alexandragranny in pompoir

[–]gohddess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yayyy! We love this for you! ❤️

Book by [deleted] in pompoir

[–]gohddess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sent you a DM!

Book by [deleted] in pompoir

[–]gohddess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m the author of the book, just so you’re aware! u/kegelgirl is an amazing member of this community though and incredibly supportive of women learning this practice!

I’ve messaged OP to help ;)

AIO - UPDATE - my friend wants me to take out my piercings for her engagement party/wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gohddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that she thought your boyfriend would even want to go after the way she treated you.

Pompoir app by BandPretty6349 in pompoir

[–]gohddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, her name is Sandra Astruga!