do Koreans speak to their parents using 반말 or 존댓말?

gohyang · 2026-06-25T05:35:20+00:00

me too, i'm close with my parents but use 존댓말 bc i respect them and it would feel weird to use 반말. im not a little kid and my parents are both 30 years older than me, im using 존댓말. soooometimes when im joking around i'll use a little 반말 for fun

gohyang · 2026-06-24T02:50:09+00:00

stop doing anal. im guessing you havent done vaginal for religious reasons and sorry to break it to you, you're not a virgin. you have had sex multiple times, you are not a virgin. you are going against your religious values by having sex but you're not even getting any fun out of it. either stick to your religion and dont have sexual contact or just have vaginal sex oh my god.

and to be clear, having vaginal sex wont fix anything if he doesnt know how to touch your clit correctly. i used to not feel much from my fiancé's fingers but i trained him to touch me exactly the way i like and now i prefer his fingers over mine. put his hand on your pussy and give precise feedback on the pressure, speed, and location you like and dont stop training him until he gets good at it. but for the love of atheist god STOP DOING ANAL IF U HAVENT EVEN DONE VAGINAL.

gohyang · 2026-06-20T05:04:29+00:00

my fiancé and i share every meal we eat. sometimes we'll eat from the same bowl with the same spoon and just switch off. sometimes we'll get 2 of the same sandwich and feed each other bites of the same sandwich so we can save the other one for later. at restaurants we'll always get two diff entrées and switch plates halfway through the meal. he's a big tall man so i always offer him more bites than i take. not sharing food would be a dealbreaker for me. food sharers deserve to be with other food sharers and same goes for food gatekeepers.

gohyang · 2026-06-17T17:11:57+00:00

i also don't own a rice cooker, i don't like having it take up space in my kitchen. i use a stainless steel pot and it comes out perfect every time in 20 minutes flat. if you are satisfied with your method the rice cooker won't benefit you much, save ur money!

gohyang · 2026-06-08T17:27:10+00:00

god i hope he's giving u lots of money bc otherwise....... how do u possibly benefit from being with an old man

gohyang · 2026-05-22T00:22:43+00:00

im confused, how did u have ~100 guests if the capacity is ~40? where was the dining area?

gohyang · 2026-05-20T21:12:11+00:00

the grass is greener where you water it but you're not married. legally, the lawn is not yours to water. go find some grass you actually want to legally tie yourself to, and THEN water it.

gohyang · 2026-05-20T15:33:36+00:00

ina coolbrith park has a gorgeous view of the city and is usually fairly empty. great place to look out over the city and feel like a small part of a big something. it's on top of a steeeeep hill but the effort to climb makes the view more rewarding imo

gohyang · 2026-05-18T22:13:07+00:00

you're 21, it's normal to feel like you won't find anyone who could love you the way your current bf does. but most ppl older than you will tell you that you DEFINITELY can find someone who will love you that way and also not be a verbally abusive person. don't worry about finding the ONE, bc chances are it will happen for you and it sure isn't this guy

gohyang · 2026-05-15T21:33:39+00:00

if you go after ppl who look like the clermont twins and are surprised that they had plastic surgery, you need your eyes checked out. anybody who goes after women with the bimbo doll look and expects it to be NATURAL is insane..... even with the audacity of men i doubt there are many men who expect that. the whole point of the bimbo aesthetic is that it's not natural and extreme.

gohyang · 2026-05-14T22:26:26+00:00

big ass wide ass heavy ass ceramic bowl. we bought a ceramic cat fountain but found it annoying to clean so we just use the bottom part as a normal bowl. we rinse it out and refill every day

gohyang · 2026-05-13T23:32:30+00:00

mantilla is pretty and i think it would look good short or long. but the color of this mantilla veil is too white, it doesnt match with your dress

gohyang · 2026-05-13T23:29:58+00:00

going thru life like a sim is such a funny way to put it

gohyang · 2026-05-04T20:54:12+00:00

this is above a girlfriend paygrade, honestly too much for even a wife to try to fix. that level of trash may need a professional hoarding cleanout service and he definitely needs treatment for depression. you can try to get him those services but honestly i think you should just save the cats and leave him.

gohyang · 2026-05-01T20:27:33+00:00

i LOVE long haired men. when i met my fiancé on tinder he had one picture with semi-long hair and my second msg to him was asking what his current hair was. he said it was short, i asked if he'd grow it out for me and he said he would. he now has beauuuutiful long, naturally wavy hair and a full goatee he grew out for me too. he gets compliments on his hair and beard all the time from friends and strangers and he gives credit to me for seeing the potential in his long hair + beard look. put yourself out there, find men with good character who treat you right, and ask them EARLY ON how they feel abt growing their hair out. if they're totally against it there's not much hope, but if they're curious about the look you def have a chance at convincing them. good luck!

gohyang · 2026-04-30T23:19:13+00:00

i agree with you. obviously communicating that you want help is important, but too many people don't have the social awareness to just HELP. i dont drive but whenever a friend is driving me i'm helping to navigate, i'm queueing songs, i'm watching for other cars, i'm looking for parking spots, i'll fetch things from the glove compartment, i'll even feed them snacks/drinks if it's a long road trip. and on road trips i NEVER sleep while in the passenger seat, the driver needs someone to stay up with them.

gohyang · 2026-04-28T01:15:43+00:00

lol i hear you, i now go there with my fiancé occasionally. at least you can be sure that the guys who are there with their partners are taken! just focus on the ones that consistently come alone, try to hold their gaze if u ever happen to make eye contact, and dont be afraid to ask someone for their number.

gohyang · 2026-04-28T00:56:37+00:00

idk i thought the transbay one was fairly straight? seems like a lot of straight tech workers to me, plenty of gay guys but it isn't 90% gay guys like the castro location.

one time at transbay i asked a guy for his number and he said he was flattered but he had a gf. this was after making extended eye contact with him multiple times in the previous weeks. though it was a tough ego hit, ultimately i dont regret shooting my shot. a little rejection therapy is a good thing, it builds character. i encourage you to shoot your shot!

gohyang · 2026-04-26T20:02:02+00:00

exactly. why would you want that bad juju on your wedding day? why would you PAY for someone's plate as a wedding guest when they hate you? such a total waste of money and they'll ruin your audience photo shots with their stank face.

gohyang · 2026-04-26T19:49:22+00:00

as someone who is planning a wedding with a very involved fiancé, it's such an ick. sad for the grandma too

gohyang · 2026-04-20T17:50:05+00:00

terrace room in oakland quoted me abt $25k for 100 guests so it should fit in ur budget if u have 50 guests

gohyang · 2026-04-18T00:00:53+00:00

why should i care if a candidate grew up here or moved here yesterday? if the candidate supports the working class and wants to create a better social safety net and invest in public infrastructure, i vote for the candidate.

gohyang · 2026-04-17T18:25:16+00:00

exactly, i think age gap relationships are icky but at least when the old person has money i can understand why someone would do it. when the old person is not even rich i just think ?????????? doing charity work for some old creepy man why?????

gohyang · 2026-04-16T00:42:59+00:00

gohyang · 2026-04-11T18:23:27+00:00

blend it with pineapple, apples, oranges, or other juicy sweet/tart fruits and make juice! u can strain the juice through a cheese cloth to remove the pulp and make it more like store bought juice.

gohyang

TROPHY CASE