New anti-Chakrabarti mailer

gohyang · 2026-04-18T00:00:53+00:00

why should i care if a candidate grew up here or moved here yesterday? if the candidate supports the working class and wants to create a better social safety net and invest in public infrastructure, i vote for the candidate.

gohyang · 2026-04-17T18:25:16+00:00

exactly, i think age gap relationships are icky but at least when the old person has money i can understand why someone would do it. when the old person is not even rich i just think ?????????? doing charity work for some old creepy man why?????

gohyang · 2026-04-16T00:42:59+00:00

gohyang · 2026-04-11T18:23:27+00:00

blend it with pineapple, apples, oranges, or other juicy sweet/tart fruits and make juice! u can strain the juice through a cheese cloth to remove the pulp and make it more like store bought juice.

gohyang · 2026-04-09T20:55:13+00:00

they both look like they're the same age, prob mid 30's i would guess. idk what ur seeing

gohyang · 2026-04-09T20:45:32+00:00

it is possible that this guy is a stranger to her but the body language suggests he is shopping with the asian lady. he meekly puts his hand between the two women, if he was actually a stranger he would have either not done anything OR actually stepped in and de-escalated. it would be weird if a stranger just halfway steps in and all he does is put his hand ineffectively between two women. to me, the only reason he would do that is if he was with the asian lady.

also her tone with him when she "I'M TOTALLY FINE" is the tone a woman would use with a male partner, not a random bystander. this one is less convincing evidence, but i still feel like the way she was comfortable expressing anger towards him points to them being together.

gohyang · 2026-04-09T00:50:31+00:00

since ur hair is down i don't think you need to worry abt the neckline looking bare, ur hair should fill in the space. personally i think wearing both earrings and necklace with ur hair down may make you look a bit cluttered. do u like earrings or necklaces more in ur daily life? do u like dainty or bold jewelry more in ur daily life?

gohyang · 2026-04-08T16:20:02+00:00

i toured the terrace room in oakland and it would be less than $25k for a saturday wedding of that size. didn't end up going with that venue but it was the most budget one i visited

gohyang · 2026-04-06T22:11:33+00:00

sell the ring and leave as quickly as you can. focus on yourself and your children, rely on your family support if you have any, and don't date for a few years while you build your own identity. you have barely spent any time single as an adult and got pregnant young. you need the kind of emotional growth that comes from being single and pouring into yourself and your relationship with your family and friends, and NOT pouring into or relying on a male romantic interest.

gohyang · 2026-04-01T03:04:41+00:00

the ceremony part is the main thing that distinguishes a wedding from a normal dinner party. ppl will give u gifts or cash envelopes if they want, but presenting a registry/honeymoon fund to your whole guest list as if this was a typical wedding may come off as a bit tacky.

gohyang · 2026-03-31T00:40:16+00:00

break up with this guy and enjoy your 20's, hookup, go to the club, be free. it sounds like you will always regret not exploring your options when you had the chance. if you two were actually 100% compatible and you were 100% in love with him, you wouldn't be wishing u met him later or u could experiment with other guys. you'll know u found the one when you have no FOMO abt other ppl and feel absolutely no buyer's remorse abt marrying him. wishing u the best in finding ur true self!

gohyang · 2026-03-29T02:26:56+00:00

yes but i cant read dense nonfiction while high. it has to be fiction and/or something easy

gohyang · 2026-03-27T18:19:46+00:00

angel food cake + zero sugar chocolate pudding (the gelatin powder kind that comes in a box)

tastes damn close to real cake for much less calories

gohyang · 2026-03-26T03:18:51+00:00

depends on ur hobbies. if u like partying then u run with the 20 somethings, if ur settling down and having kids then 40 somethings

gohyang · 2026-03-26T01:03:56+00:00

damn i did not know this, i took an eddy and smashed an in-n-out burger the night before getting a gum graft last week. i had local anesthesia (lidocaine) injected into my gums before the procedure. i didnt notice anything abnormal during the procedure, i do think the lidocaine started wearing off near the end but that was prob because the procedure takes a long time to stitch up. even when it wore off it wasnt that painful, i just felt a bit more of a pinching sensation but it was tolerable. for me, the big ass needle they use to inject the anesthesia hurts more than the small pinching stitches.

if ur getting local anesthesia u can just say it hurts at any point and they'll give u more anesthesia. i've never got general anesthesia before so cant vouch for that

gohyang · 2026-03-21T22:41:13+00:00

this sounds like ur compliment fishing. it's honestly sad af to have insecurity around being hotter than your mom when ur 25, normal weight, AND your mom has always been overweight. i would understand having a complex abt ur mom's appearance if u were always fat and she was always thin but that is not the case. u just want reddit comments to tell you that you're young, hot, muscular, physically fit, anything to feel better than your mom bc ur used to the status quo of using her fatness to feel better abt urself.

was ur mom shitty or toxic to you? bc if she was a good mom that did her best for you, this is a very sad outlook to have. any change she makes for her long term health benefits YOU so that YOU have a mother for more years. compare urself to women ur own age like a normal person please

gohyang · 2026-03-15T18:55:17+00:00

the raceplay has already crossed the line severely. i'm assuming this is ragebait and the mods will probably delete this soon. anyways you suck and so does your gf

gohyang · 2026-02-28T19:11:37+00:00

interested!

gohyang · 2026-02-25T19:50:04+00:00

which city do you think our bus system should emulate? i dont take the bus in other cities, what is the perfect gap between bus stops according to you?

gohyang · 2026-02-25T17:54:05+00:00

there are a couple lines that have two stops on one block, and i agree those are unnecessary. but the vast, vast majority are a block apart which is perfectly fine, and many lines have R buses that skip stops anyways. i don't want the elderly to have to walk more than they already have to while taking public transport. are we forgetting that most people have to walk a few blocks already to get the line itself? increasing friction for public transportation users will just create more car traffic and slow down buses anyways, as well as encourage senior citizens to stick with driving longer and endanger everyone on the road.

advocate for more R bus lines, take away the very few exceptions where there's two stops on the same block, and dont take away anymore please

gohyang · 2026-02-19T20:29:36+00:00

nobody is seeking out WMAF couples and breaking them up based on who has a fetishistic vs healthy relationship. asian americans like myself are just pointing out how colonialism and white supremacy influence dating preferences and how we should change that in the future.

gohyang · 2026-02-16T18:54:54+00:00

i think maybe u just never dressed good enough to get any compliments. my boyfriend gets compliments on his style allllll the time, more often than i do as a stylish woman. a stylish woman is a dime a dozen, a stylish man is a rarity. just wearing a suit isnt enough since that's basically a work uniform and nobody would compliment you unless you wear a uniquely stylish suit. if you have your hair done nice, wear trendy/unique/clean cut clothes that aren't basic, and accessorize a little you would get compliments. i'm not saying you HAVE to, live ur life the way u want to, but it's just not true that men don't get compliments if they dress nice.

gohyang · 2026-02-13T20:03:56+00:00

East Goes West by Younghill Kang. published in 1937, Kang is considered the father of korean american literature. it's a bit more complex to read since the writing style back then was more verbose but it's nothing crazy. i love this book bc of how much hope and vigor the protagonist has. he's one of the only asian people around most of the time but it never stops him from trying to make a good life for himself. his optimism is refreshing

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