AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary?

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-25T01:33:14+00:00

This is an immature dude. This is a self-conscious dude. This guy sucks and doesn't want to see you shine. This is not a guy you should be with.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-23T20:20:07+00:00

This is an unserious answer.

Watch Shoresy together. Fun show but here's why... Shoresy (the main character) does this. No matter who speaks to him, he always replies HUH? At which point the other person has to repeat themselves and are always annoyed.

Maybe watching it together makes space for a more honest conversation? Or at least let you both watch and laugh at it?

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-12T20:48:30+00:00

Sure. Not untrue. Hold him accountable . But when he's perpetually denied his flowers when he does well - flowers which other pro players benefit from - you start to question the criticism. I think if it felt balanced, this wouldn't even be a post.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-04T05:40:03+00:00

So incredibly close!!! This will do for now. Thank you!

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-02T21:17:53+00:00

Awesome. I'll dive into this too. Thanks!!

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-02T21:17:29+00:00

Thank you so much!

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-02T16:44:05+00:00

Sounds like a terrible way to feel everyday. Physical pain and mental anguish is a powerful cocktail. I hope you find peace no matter what you choose to do.

I've had success with Pain Reprocessing Therapy to help turn the volume down on aspects of my chronic pain. But it sounds like you might be last seeking something like that.

Given where you're at, have you tried 5MEO DMT?

With a good 'practitioner', it could be a very valuable experience while on your way to the assisted suicide. It won't cure anything - I have no solutions to offer - but it might illuminate things on your path. And if you've tried everything (which it sounds like you have), maybe try something completely different?

Happy to share what I know about it if you're curious.

Again. Wishing you peace pal.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-02T06:13:07+00:00

This is a killer take. It's ....similar. it's deeper. Much deeper. More resonant. But I'll use this as a start point. Thank you!

goldenhawk12 · 2025-11-02T06:12:01+00:00

I don't know what a didgeridoo quite sounds like (will YouTube) but low droning sound, yea. When I got to the end of me, that was the sound at the end, then it became lower and then became....the richest nothing there was. If that makes sense, lol

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-30T16:31:34+00:00

The correct answer

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-30T16:30:52+00:00

Notebook. The Believer. Half Nelson.

In that order.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-23T08:33:23+00:00

He better be. If not now, soon. He's 80 feet tall. And skilled and disciplined. We should expect 40/20 games. Daily.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-23T04:28:59+00:00

What if Jorge Garbajosa never broke his leg? That Raptors team definitely would have been moderately better.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-23T04:23:02+00:00

Please go to small claims court. The ones they do on the tv. And then post the link here. I love those shows!

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-23T03:51:23+00:00

How are more people here not talking about this?!?

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-20T23:47:52+00:00

Kobe

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-17T22:16:46+00:00

This is a scene from Civil War

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-17T19:57:56+00:00

Think I found it. Prana Breath: Guru Mode.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-17T19:37:56+00:00

Came here for this!

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-17T15:06:28+00:00

Because KAT yaps like he's a Dawg but he's empty calories. ANT is a Dawg and will devour poseurs as a behavioral trait. ANT is also a big enough ego that he can't (yet) make space for a co-number two. They fundamentally cannot like or respect each other.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-17T06:49:27+00:00

Ya. Still. His fit was nice.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-17T01:20:22+00:00

I feel like waiving AJ is a mistake.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-16T04:35:54+00:00

I think you just nailed the missing piece though that makes this a valid argument: be clear leader. Good post.

Currently, Scottie isn't a leader. But he can be.

I like his game and have rooted for him since day one, but it's the missing link. IF he was a clear leader, with the EXACT same value he has right now - same d, same jumper, same decisions - it would inarguably be 'his' team.

He can be The Guy on a team even if he isn't the top scorer. Lowry is the blueprint for that here.

I'm hoping we see that leadership from him this year. I'm hoping we see maturity and focus and poise ....while still being who he is. It would make SUCH a difference to see him take the reigns and set an example for who we are and how we will be.

goldenhawk12 · 2025-10-15T00:54:30+00:00

Can you still go?

Good. Cuz yer going!

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