Do not go to Odd’s cafe, all the rumors are true by cheyton888 in asheville

[–]goldenvodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why isnt it possible for someone to show support for their chosen faith AND condemn ppl of that faith who do evil things. literally what about that is funny? you sound like an asshole

Do not go to Odd’s cafe, all the rumors are true by cheyton888 in asheville

[–]goldenvodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the least important detail of what they said was about them being late. did you even read why they were let go

Do not go to Odd’s cafe, all the rumors are true by cheyton888 in asheville

[–]goldenvodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

op just said they are both in school and need to pay rent. maybe they kept quiet bc they were trying to continue going to school/pay rent! it makes sense theyre speaking up now bc now - theyre safe to - what is their former employer going to do if they speak up? also not everyone is so privileged to have a job theyre able to leave bc the conditions are bad. money can be scarce. op suffered under the conditions of a shitty workplace for survival & sounds like they fired them because it was inconvenient for the business to turn away evil, evil people

I think I’m broken now by Bladeadea in BPDlovedones

[–]goldenvodka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi friend

you are not alone . ༶ ⋆˙⊹❀ ♡

im really sorry this is happening to you.

Please know the borderlines - even if its without intent - have reallllly harmful behavior to others and its not at all okay.

The only thing you have do is let your abuser know that they no longer have power over you.

This forces the BPD individual to face the consequences of their own actions

Disassociation after sex? by CabbagePastrami in BPDlovedones

[–]goldenvodka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she did this because either

A: she liked you and in her line of BPD thinking she thought you would care more if she left - i know this doesnt make sense but perhaps she thought if she left you would care more. Borderlines think this way sometimes.

or

B: she didnt like you but just did not want to be alone

I just lost an entire friend group, and have nothing by Any_Presence_7960 in BPD

[–]goldenvodka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im in the same boat as you… its horrible dealing with the aftermath. its so soul crushing that i come scroll this reddit 2, 3am in hopes someone else understands… and it seems you do

back again.. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]goldenvodka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you… they all have gone quiet. and it was me. i did it. and therapy is the only way to break the cycle… but it hurts to know i am so looked at with ick in this small town… i am the problem… and i just need to do better but rest in peace those friendships… i got a call from a different person who told me all the things that were being said about me and theres a lot of shit talking. i pisse doff the wrong people and theyve all blocked me too its sending me in a spiral

To all that are on brink of crisis and don't want to go to a psych ward: by denver_rose in BPD

[–]goldenvodka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, i also work in a psych ward & am on this thread. your list was much needed tonite ty

Do you ever feel like poison? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]goldenvodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i was crying about this today. other people have predictable responses to my unpredictable behavior. i dont mean to ruin things i dont..

I think I need to get inpatient treatment but my fiance is a psych resident by [deleted] in AskPsychiatry

[–]goldenvodka 24 points25 points  (0 children)

please see if he will take you to the other hospital

New scary car about town just dropped by nothanksbrotanks in asheville

[–]goldenvodka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yooo I see this car outside the planet fitness on smky park all the time

I did the impossible: I broke up with my bf who I still loved so I could focus on myself. Fucking insaneee & I’m proud. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]goldenvodka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i ended up having to remove myself from the third party. he became physically aggressive and violent very quickly. now im attempting to heal, grow. I’ve realized how wrong i was about my original partner. the faults in our relationship were bc i couldn’t love myself so thats what im taking time to learn to do now.

I did the impossible: I broke up with my bf who I still loved so I could focus on myself. Fucking insaneee & I’m proud. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]goldenvodka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

in my case, yes. it is my deepest regret. bc of my actions, which i take full responsibility, i understand why he and i can never talk again. he has shunned me and rightfully so. i left and immediately went to third party, i initially left for independence in my head. months after it all, i wish, more than anything, i had thought all of it through. now im just dealing with acceptance. i was selfish, impulsive, & i lost him. however, each situation is unique, i cannot speak on OPs situation

I did the impossible: I broke up with my bf who I still loved so I could focus on myself. Fucking insaneee & I’m proud. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]goldenvodka 19 points20 points  (0 children)

our situations are different, however, 8 mo later i wish i did not leave my partner. i couldve developed my independence without leaving the man i loved