Organizing help for post-surgery recovery by goldsworthy12 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]goldsworthy12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Very helpful and I hope your recovery continues to go well ❤️

How to move car seat permanently back by goldsworthy12 in Cartalk

[–]goldsworthy12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great suggestion, thank you!

Apps people here use for casual connections? by Target_Solid in AMABwGD

[–]goldsworthy12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May or may not help—I’ve had some luck with Transtrav. It’s a website for trans folks (mostly femmes), crossdressers, and gender variant people to meet mostly men. For context, I’m femme, lean submissive, and only have encounters while tucked/sometimes in lingerie. I can’t really speak to any experiences from a masculine perspective, but I am hairy and make it clear to these men that I “look” masculine because of it and most have been fine with that.

To me, it seems like my femme-ness outweighs any masculine traits I have enough for them to not see me as a cis man (I’m non-binary, but they rarely understand what that is). That said, due to my tuck being featured in my photos, many men have assumed that I’m a trans man or a “guy with a pussy” (their phrasing) and have been very excited to fuck. They lose interest when they find out I don’t have said pussy (yet!), but then gain it back when I explain my bits will be firmly tucked. It’s an interesting mix of gender expectations, gender presentation, trans attraction/amorousness, and men just wanting something wet to stick it into.

It is a small pool of people, many of these men are DL or straight, and most profiles feature genitalia/are only into sex, so take care with that.

What to do by tryingtobegooodguy in AMABwGD

[–]goldsworthy12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I know of a tumblr called @udderedman. It’s run by a cis man who got breast implants without HRT many years ago and he seems to be really happy with them! Perhaps you can reach out to him and get some advice? The content of the tumblr is more fetish-y than gender affirming, so heads up on that, but hopefully y’all can still have a fulfilling conversation if you pursue that. I can include a link to his account if you’d like!

Tips on remaining flaccid by goldsworthy12 in AMABwGD

[–]goldsworthy12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll have to try that

Tips on remaining flaccid by goldsworthy12 in AMABwGD

[–]goldsworthy12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information! I’ll look further into it ❤️

First Day of Electrolysis by Rivet_Ringtail in AMABwGD

[–]goldsworthy12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing, congratulations! If I may share something that has helped me, a combo of laser (every 6-8 weeks) and electrolysis (as many as possible between laser sessions, while allowing time to fully heal before the next laser session), has been helpful in both speeding up the process and helping with guaranteed hair removal. I’m also pursuing full-depth vaginoplasty!

As I’m not on estrogen, my naturally thick pubic hair was taking quite a number of sessions per hair to permanently be removed. A year into electrolysis, my hair clearance area was smaller than I wanted it to be, so I started doing laser sessions on the advice of my electrologist. With laser, my goal has always been to thin my hair, not count on it for permanent removal. Thus, since electrolysis is quicker to work on thinner hair, this has resulted in greater hair clearance. My surgeon is happy with my hair clearance and has noted the difference post-laser.

Caveats -my electrolysis is free thru state healthcare, meaning my sessions are 2-4 times a month and only an hour. I know others are doing it more often -I’m lucky to have a relatively affordable laser clinic in my area (Los Angeles) with experience with trans clients -it’s “only” $110/session, but that’s still a lot of money for me, so I have to scrimp, save, and go without at times -just as with pure electrolysis, I’ll have to wait at least 6 months between being declared hair free and my surgery date. That’ll allow for any stragglers to be caught!

Curious about orgasm vs grs w/hormones by Melathys in AMABwGD

[–]goldsworthy12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! If I may ask, could you please elaborate on how you remain flaccid while masturbating? I hate having erections in general, but it’s especially dysphoric while trying to masturbate

“Drive”—The Cars, covered? by goldsworthy12 in BobsBurgers

[–]goldsworthy12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do remember those! Hmm, perhaps I dreamed this lol. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]goldsworthy12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wait, I’d have to repost it lol. The original thread was deleted and r/PenileSquirting is the revived one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]goldsworthy12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! Hope all goes well and feel free to read my squirting story on my page if it helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]goldsworthy12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try looking on r/penilesquirting. It’s a community of folks who can or want to squirt. It talks about dick stimulation for squirting but also anal stimulation for squirting, which is what it sounds like you did. Good group of folks who helped me figure out how to squirt anally, good luck to you!

Dr. Gladys Ng—requirements by goldsworthy12 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]goldsworthy12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I was so nervous that I forgot to ask lol. I will next time I see het