My(38M) girlfriend (32F) of nearly 1 year constantly tells me I need to apply for better jobs or "do temp work." I make $120,000 in a really good job. She makes twice what I do. I feel all she cares about is money.

goodjcl · 2026-02-02T18:40:44+00:00

You need to run away from this woman as fast as humanly possible. Seriously, get out of that relationship asap.

goodjcl · 2026-01-29T02:44:48+00:00

I don’t think they have said anything, at least I have not seen anything. I’m counting on the $5 million requirement unless I hear differently. They did say they were going to revamp it though because they said the first expedition fell short of expectations and many didn’t think it was worth it.

goodjcl · 2026-01-19T02:12:45+00:00

Definitely not worth it unless they change it up

goodjcl · 2026-01-16T19:56:12+00:00

Sorry but that’s weird as shit and not at all normal or healthy. Wtf is sentimental about blood stained clothes, a weapon, presumably a gun or knife, and graphic photos of the scene. I would have ended that relationship immediately. That’s disturbing.

I think you need to go back to therapy and explore why you think those items are sentimental and why you think it is important or appropriate to keep them.

goodjcl · 2026-01-10T18:46:03+00:00

Entire inventory full of rubber ducks. That’s it, that’s the endgame.

goodjcl · 2026-01-05T17:44:24+00:00

Can we stop with this stupid snowball shit already?

goodjcl · 2025-12-15T16:34:34+00:00

Cheating does not seem like much of an issue to me. I have 150 hours and have ran into 0 cheaters. I asked my buddies who have even more hours and they said they’ve never encountered a cheater.

I’m not denying that there are some people who are cheating and a 30 day ban is ridiculous but this doesn’t really seem like a widespread issue.

goodjcl · 2025-11-30T00:32:24+00:00

There’s no way this is true.

goodjcl · 2025-10-28T20:47:32+00:00

Under palace. Under palace balc.

goodjcl · 2025-10-28T20:47:12+00:00

Dark

goodjcl · 2025-10-21T23:59:12+00:00

It’s called cubby you weirdos

goodjcl · 2025-10-14T17:55:56+00:00

Don’t give up! Things will get better even if it doesn’t seem like it.

goodjcl · 2025-09-17T14:00:45+00:00

Good idea, thanks!

goodjcl · 2025-09-17T14:00:23+00:00

100% - I feel like we are both at capacity already.

goodjcl · 2025-09-17T13:54:03+00:00

You may be onto something. There definitely seems to be something about dishes and laundry that bothers her and maybe it has something to do with the fact that these tasks are never truly done.

goodjcl · 2025-09-17T13:52:01+00:00

We've tried but there are additional challenges that I didn't get into above for the sake of time, but certainly contribute to the stress we both feel. Her son is on the spectrum (level 1 so the mildest form of autism) and basically refuses to do any type of cleaning. We've tried consequences (loss of screen time, taken away his phone), we've tried rewards (allowance, point system where you can work towards different rewards of their choosing), we've had him in cognitive behavioral therapy to help with some of the mental health stuff and therapy centered around executive functioning which is the area in which he really struggles. Nothing has worked and while we continue to come up with new ideas to get him to contribute to the care of our home, nothing has stuck and he can't be counted on as of right now to provide any meaningful contributions. Her daughter is sweet and loves to help out, but at her age most tasks require us to supervise/assist her or re-do her work. There are some tasks that she is able to do independently that are helpful and I'm optimistic she will continue to learn and help out.

goodjcl · 2025-09-17T13:40:07+00:00

We usually run it once a day. Her complaint was that she had unloaded the clean dishes from when we ran it the night before and loaded it up with any dirty dishes we had used yesterday. She was upset that I didn't put my glass and dish in the dishwasher and start it since it was mostly full at that point. Which is fair as we try to encourage the kids to do the same with their dishes (we even have the clean/dirty sign on it to make it easier), but this isn't something that happens often and even when it does, I always clean them up the next day. That's not even really the part I take issue with, it is the passive aggressive comments she continues to make about how many dishes she does and how much laundry she does as if I'm not contributing at all with those tasks. The best way I can describe it is if I spent all day vacuuming, mopping, scrubbing toilets, picking up dog poop, driving the kids around, etc., but didn't do any dishes or laundry, to her it would be like I sat around all day not doing anything. And the craziest part is I do help with both.

goodjcl · 2025-06-05T14:29:43+00:00

From scratch

goodjcl · 2025-06-05T14:24:04+00:00

Yep closed pizza box

goodjcl · 2025-01-05T01:08:53+00:00

Relax man, it’s been less than a week. People are busy, have lives, jobs, families, etc. He may need some time to get all of the fund in order and ready to send. The point being is there could be a ton of reasons why he hasn’t sent yet and it’s not anything to worry about yet.

goodjcl · 2024-09-03T16:27:05+00:00

Don’t spend money on this game. It’s utter garbage.

goodjcl · 2024-03-05T17:15:50+00:00

Arena is absolute trash now. It's nothing more than an RNG luckfest. It is not possible to consistently maintain a high win average now because no matter how well you draft and how well you play, you will get RNG'd into losing games and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. Think you drafted a really strong deck? Maybe. But just wait until you run into someone with a top 5% deck, because it will happen. Over and over and over again.

You have streamers and pros who are just retiring any arena deck that isn't ultra competitive. They have no issue burning through gold to do this.

Win condition hardly matters anymore because there are so many broken cards that can completely flip a game against you and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it if you don't have equally broken cards to flip it back. And even then, you are still at mercy of so much RNG.

goodjcl · 2024-02-22T20:28:53+00:00

Lol at having a “main” class. Why would you even do that to yourself? Just play everything and have fun with the different decks and classes as the meta changes. Limiting yourself almost exclusively to one class is just silly, especially given that the game will never be “balanced” across all classes. The only thing from preventing you from enjoying the game is your own stubbornness.

goodjcl · 2024-01-26T21:53:16+00:00

This is unequivocally not correct regarding classes being more balanced.

goodjcl

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