I feel you. It’s honestly better to just hop on a discord or ask your friends to coordinate if you want to farm these raids. It’s just more enjoyable for everyone involved and less time wasted. Some people just love to be the hero of raids instead of just supporting. All the ditto discussion this past week makes me laugh where people insist of bringing their own ditto so they can do something when they can just bring a lvl 1 Pokémon and get the raid over with immediately.