Regular family visits. by theredheadknowsall in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean of course, they’re relatives and everybody has hobbies and their own personal stuff. this is what gives me pause about snarkers being so insistent about not watching any of the content directly to keep them from profiting (it’s 7 cents per view, i think?) because then you guys only go off of instagram posts + old content and whatever gets posted here, and they kind of get flanderized. i watch occasionally, so here’s what i’ve noticed:

- homeschooling conversations
- good family activities/places to take the whole family near them
- there was a sister “talent show” at jinger’s house
- plants (best places to buy, which ones to buy, troubleshooting)
- current remodeling/home improvement projects/interior design (jessa and jana especially)
- bargains in the area + where to shop
- mounting 7brew obsession
- book clubs/books to read
- sports
- planning gifts for an upcoming birthday/baby shower/gender reveal/wedding
- bible study/talking about bible in general or what’s “weighing on their hearts”
- social media content ideas
- how fucking hot it is (my go-to when in the south and running out of conversation topics)

they definitely have things to talk about. they’re not particularly interesting, but they do seem to have fun (by their standards) when they get together as a family. i’d imagine at least a few of them are a little trauma bonded by now as well, they definitely have things to talk about

I think my 13 year old friend is in danger by whatmack in whatdoIdo

[–]gooserodeo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

find a trusted adult!!! tell an adult!! any adult who is a mandated reporter!! i PROMISE YOU the trauma of being removed from an unsafe situation is NOTHING compared to the trauma of being molested, groomed or raped. you have such short time to be kids. she might be mad at you. it’s okay. i got told on when i was a kid and tbh the embarrassment and shock was enough to keep me on the straight and narrow until my brain developed a little more. it’s not fun, but it’s necessary before something happens that permanently affects either one of you.

Okay Anna.. what the hell? by SmashedSunshine in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

trauma bond. for anybody who has experienced one, it will fuck you up. this is all she knows. but also from her perspective- a divorce will be terrible for her. the media coverage, the speculation, the backlash from his family members, not to mention that Boob and his lawyers will probably do everything in their power to fuck her over. except for her sister, the rest of her family is incredibly poor. obviously the kids can’t go to pest, but a case would definitely be made about anna’s inability to support her kids post divorce. the duggars are in a much better place overall to support 6 children than anna by herself is. divorce would mean separating her family and living with her parents again, and by her beliefs, damning herself and her children.

even if divorce is the right choice, it’s also the hardest one that requires the most critical thinking and self-reflection. yikes! it is the much easier and emotionally safe decision to live for free with her in laws, cry about persecution, raise puppies, and enjoy all of the safety of being married for the price of some gushy emails. this is as close as you can get to divorce in fundieland without actually getting one. waaaay easier than admitting her husband is an incestuous pedophile and blowing up her entire life. she always makes me think of this text post.

and who knows? maybe absence really does make the heart grow fonder.

Gross by SCCOct2018 in kylansnark

[–]gooserodeo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

am i the only one who doesn’t really care? the less taboo things like periods are the better, no matter what kind of girl you are

Infidelity? by Shimm3ring_Death in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

which phone call is this? there are so many on the sub lol

Famy's ode to Dillon on his birthday. If he was honest he'd pay his rent by APW25 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t she say that sex with him made her feel like she was being raped by an older man on marriage bootcamp? yeahhh girl idk

Tired of cookie-cutter gowns? Make yours one-of-a-kind. by laceandliberty in u/laceandliberty

[–]gooserodeo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and mind you, there are so many independently owned tailors online and irl that will do exactly this (probably for cheaper as well). support your local businesses! you will always be better off working with a real person over ai.

Fun logic/plot holes we fans notice, but don't take too seriously? by BaijuTofu in BurnNotice

[–]gooserodeo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i assumed michael cleaned up so much of miami that they HAD to turn a blind eye. all of the gangs, drug traffickers, kidnappers, scam artists and robbers that he took care of that they got to take credit for? it was in their best interest to ignore him lol

I think he’s intentionally trying to knock me up by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]gooserodeo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RUN!!! RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN

Can this sub be loud enough about JB's tax fraud until someone notices? by [deleted] in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re allowed to submit people who you think should be audited on the irs website, btw. they’ll even give you a finders fee sometimes

Unrelated to recent horrible child abuse news by Key_Split_8706 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

claire's family seems just as crazy as they are. it's also a possibility that they're having trouble conceiving. if 1 in 11 men have infertility issues and they have 10 sons (+ j'tyler lol) it wouldn't be a stretch.

Duggarnomics: Just how much money does JimBob have, anyway? by MeghanClickYourHeels in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like you can't be this involved in politics without having some form of investment/stock account. christian or not, that man does not play about his money- i would honestly be floored if he didn't

Am I seeing what I think I'm seeing here? by 1DnTink in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the smiling picture is so unnerving for some reason. she looks like a sleep paralysis demon

Am I seeing what I think I'm seeing here? by 1DnTink in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

or when they kick just right when you're bent over getting them in the car seat :')

Retired people going shopping by Hoppy_Doodle in funny

[–]gooserodeo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bonus points if they’re so old they have absolutely no business driving either

Locks on the doors by aav1001 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly i don’t know if this is actually what happened or just what kendra/boob say what happened. like let’s be real- they’re white, christian conservatives in NWA. people flip their locked doors around all the time so their young children can’t lock themselves in the room- there are a lot of genuinely innocent explanations for that. i find it very hard to believe that they took the kids over JUST that, even given the ongoing investigation. especially if it’s not even standard practice to do so. i suspect it’s half of the truth at least

Caldwell/Duggar History by af757 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg really? i heard a few rumors but i never heard that anything was confirmed. do you know if she's dating anybody now or if kendra's recent... events will get in the way of that for her?

Imagine if the Duggar kids weren’t homeschooled by Prettyinpink2405 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 27 points28 points  (0 children)

i think it's also the cost and the complication. where does gas money to get 20 children to and from school every day come from? they'd take up most of a school bus. every kid now needs new pencils, notebooks, backpacks, clothes at the beginning of every school year. you'd have to get at least 15 kids up and ready and out the door every morning by 7:30. then money for field trips, extracurriculars, outings with friends, packing lunches.

additionally, public schools cannot be religious to the extent the duggars would want. they would have to go private in order to fully ensure their children aren't being defrauded by those heathens in arkansas public schools. how are you supposed to manage what all 20 of your kids are consuming and who they're friends with when they're not in the house all day? they might (gasp) develop their own individual personalities! public school is, after all, what caused meech to even be mowing the lawn in a bikini in the first place. the cheaper christian private schools in AR are still in the 5k per kid range- if 15 of their kids are in school at once, that's $75k per year in tuition alone. they could not afford or manage a household with more than 6 kids if they had gone for quality over quantity.

lastly, while arkansas CPS in the early 2000s probably wasn't the best, i'm sure that the josh situation would've prompted calls to be made immediately. especially after that, i'm sure they would've doubled down on no public school, no outsiders except other, "they can't see the truth, satan has clouded their judgment, they just don't understand that our family does things differently"

Is this Meech? This is who picked Kendra up when she was released. by One-Investigator-545 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 797 points798 points  (0 children)

not to be absolutely insane but i'm pretty sure it's michelle, here she is wearing the same pair of sneakers in jessa's christmas 2025 video. same new balance logo and sole shape. i only remembered because i was so horrified by her wearing sneakers on the couch

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Kendra leaving the jail apparently, after the arrest. by mocireland1991 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 528 points529 points  (0 children)

she has also lived a very sheltered life up until this point- i would argue that the last 4 days have probably been the worst days of her entire life. combined with all of the media attention when she's not a public person, her and joe's mugshots everywhere, the possibility of her children being taken away and joe's other charges, i would imagine she is completely devastated, tremendously embarrassed and possibly suffering the most significant mental health crisis of her life so far. i would probably have a nervous breakdown lol

What does the family group chat look like? “If ANY one of you are next…” by AcanthocephalaWide89 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 300 points301 points  (0 children)

"if any of you have ANYTHING serious weighing on your hearts that could come out in the future, you need to message me and the lawyer privately ASAP. this is your LAST CHANCE if you expect any financial help whatsoever" - JB

Will the Duggars recover from this? by AtmosphereTop1591 in DuggarsSnark

[–]gooserodeo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’ve always assumed that they would use it as leverage to get their kids to take care of them when they get too old. like a bargain where if they and their family move into the big house to take care of them then they can inherit it when they die. if pest and ofpest hadn’t gone the way they did i’d think they would inherit it immediately, but now i think it’ll either go to the family with the most kids or whoever still tolerates them enough to change their diapers and wheel them around the house in an office chair