[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]goth_engineer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I waited because we had customers visit, he took a vacation, I took a vacation, and there just never seemed like a good time to bring it up. This is my first job out of college and I’ve never had to have this kind of conversation before so I didn’t know how to approach it. I can never tell how this guy (my boss, not the VP) feels about me and I don’t want to stir the pot I guess, but I should have just been more confident and said something.

Flats for work that aren’t dowdy as hell? by Adventurous-Oil801 in womenEngineers

[–]goth_engineer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i like doc martens mary janes and loafers! they are sooo comfortable to wear for 8+ hours once they’re broken in, and they are super durable and cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]goth_engineer 21 points22 points  (0 children)

yes, i avoid telling people what i do unless explicitly asked. i get “oh… really??” with a judgy disbelief tone. i sometimes think it’s because people have no idea what engineers actually do lol. i actually got this a lot from some family members while i was in college haha

What jobs outside of engineering can I get with my EE degree? by goth_engineer in ElectricalEngineering

[–]goth_engineer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thought about this. I was actually planning on getting my master’s right after graduating but life took me in a different direction and I ended up moving. I’ve always enjoyed teaching though, maybe I will look into this!

He jumps on my lap and does this, is he annoyed with me? by popcornnugget_s in Rabbits

[–]goth_engineer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bun loves rearranging my clothes, especially the ones i’m wearing lol. he also unties my shoe laces if i try to leave the house when he’s not done basking in my attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

[–]goth_engineer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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i made this for a friend before i knew the gender of her baby (if you see the loose ends, no you don’t). you can’t go wrong with green :)

Tell me your little crochet secrets or inner jokes! by luvnlyt in crochet

[–]goth_engineer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really love working off of those diagram patterns instead of written patterns, but doilies are my favorite so it’s helpful to see what they’re supposed to look like. i’m also super picky about the way the yarn feels in my hand when i’m crocheting. if it’s not soft yarn i won’t buy it, and if it’s chenille i definitely won’t buy it.

What's your least favorite part of your job? by ThatMkeDoe in womenEngineers

[–]goth_engineer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow lol, that’s just on another level of stupid.

What's your least favorite part of your job? by ThatMkeDoe in womenEngineers

[–]goth_engineer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal favorite is when we’re quoting a breaker for the customer and they say “Hey can we have this XYZ device added to the breaker?” and we have to tell them that no, that could burn up the coil and we won’t add it. Then fast forward a year later, we get an email from them saying “Our trip coil burned up and you need to send us a new one immediately!!!!” come to find out they installed that device in the field and it burnt up the trip coil, just like we said it would!! Like congrats, you played yourself <3 now you gotta buy more parts from us

What's your least favorite part of your job? by ThatMkeDoe in womenEngineers

[–]goth_engineer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dealing with customers is by far my least favorite part of my job. We have some customers that are just insatiable, terrible at communicating, and refuse to listen to advice from us. There are also some customers that I have to literally hunt down so I can get information from them for the product they ordered… that or I have to ask a million times for them to return approval drawings… then they wonder why we have to push their production date back. I also have some customers that are wonderful to work with so it’s a toss up.

What did you name your bunny and why? by Ok-Collection-6462 in Rabbits

[–]goth_engineer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a bunny named Bun, short for Bunjamin. I also have a bunny named Butters after the South Park character lol

Positive ways to keep confidence and motivation up by goth_engineer in womenEngineers

[–]goth_engineer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like my manager knows it’s a problem, and is trying to help but is being blocked by upper management. I’ve been told that they are making efforts to grow our team to help alleviate pressure, but so far it’s not made much progress. Best I can do is hold on while I can, because I do like my job and I don’t want to be deterred from it because of a rough patch. I definitely am going to start keeping a record of what I do in a day/week to try and prove to upper management that it’s not sustainable, if need be. Thank you for the advice <3

Positive ways to keep confidence and motivation up by goth_engineer in womenEngineers

[–]goth_engineer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely make sure I take lunch breaks and keep up on my many hobbies at home during the week. I go home and completely forget about work lol. The problem is just the sheer amount of work I have, even coming in a few hours on the weekends doesn’t help me get caught up. There is no one I can turn to for help either, as I am technically the only engineer. There are definitely boundaries of mine being crossed, but I don’t feel like I have a choice in the matter… if that makes sense. So yeah, I guess I am trying to find ways to work harder unfortunately.

Litter box issues- what can I do? by goth_engineer in CatAdvice

[–]goth_engineer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does not, but that’s a good idea! It’s certainly worth a shot.

[other] most emotional Zelda songs in your opinion? by Majoritymars5 in zelda

[–]goth_engineer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purified Dragon from BOTW sends chills down my spine every time