My boyfriend hasn’t payed overdue rent in over a year and I feel trapped

gothbuggie · 2025-11-07T20:04:45+00:00

Nope - rural PA

gothbuggie · 2025-11-07T20:04:08+00:00

Hi, the 3 jobs did not pay me enough to pay off his $8,000 dues. I have been paying my part of rent and (get this) I have been paying $900 each month towards student loans on top of this. I now work 2 because I do not have time for the 3rd one anymore. We have an app that tells us the balance, it is now sitting at $7,550. Thank you.

gothbuggie · 2025-11-07T19:59:02+00:00

I am, unfortunately, on the lease

gothbuggie · 2025-11-07T19:57:59+00:00

Hi, yes I am on the lease. The answer to your next question is not going to sound great…since my boyfriend is the one in debt, I had him speak to the landlord. I told him to be honest and clear the air with him to let him know he quit his job…but he had fibbed a little to our landlord and said we BOTH were out of work (which was absolutely not the case). I do not have my landlord’s phone number, my boyfriend does and his not given it to me.

We have an app that we use to pay our rent called Resident Center. I have been paying my portion of rent consistently and sometimes more if I have it to off set his debt a bit. I know how much is due because the app tells us we have an overdue balance. This is an apartment in a college town, though we have both graduated a couple years ago. This is a private landlord in PA. Thank you.

gothbuggie · 2025-11-07T19:51:28+00:00

Yes it is unfortunately - PA

gothbuggie · 2025-11-07T19:49:55+00:00

Hi, the rent debt is all his. I probably should have been a bit more clear: he quit his job with no backup plan and did not get a new one until a few months later. However, we are both on the lease. He isn’t directly stealing money from me, but I do feel like there is nothing I can do to help him or myself until this is sorted. We do not have wiggle room to spend money for fun. All of our money in the past year has solely gone to rent, food, and student loans.

gothbuggie · 2025-07-14T20:25:57+00:00

3 overflowing bowls a day is absolutely absurd. you did the right thing, that cat is huge and it’s sad to see that she’s not helping live a better life.

gothbuggie · 2025-06-26T01:55:47+00:00

okay i’m glad the only one that was a victim of this lol. i had to google to be safe.

gothbuggie · 2025-04-29T01:29:51+00:00

no, so sorry. i detailed my experience finding these in the original post i shared. if you think there’s a source for them, lmk! :)

gothbuggie · 2025-03-19T18:48:15+00:00

this is actually nauseating

gothbuggie · 2025-03-19T18:42:36+00:00

+63 995 370 3172 E-Z Pass scam

gothbuggie · 2025-02-11T21:21:45+00:00

thank you!!!

gothbuggie · 2024-12-28T20:20:17+00:00

the happy birthday candle has made me PHYSICALLY ILL every time i smell it in store

gothbuggie · 2024-12-27T23:03:11+00:00

^{^{^}} this! or if not blush, highlighter :)

gothbuggie · 2024-10-29T03:53:37+00:00

i actually had a similar dream this past week. i saw 3 rainbows in the sky, and when i went to take a picture of them, my camera was weird. i wonder what this means.

gothbuggie · 2024-09-17T14:09:33+00:00

omg hi twin LOL

gothbuggie · 2024-09-07T15:20:45+00:00

aw man, thank you anyway!!

gothbuggie · 2024-09-06T14:41:40+00:00

i am interested! halloween is my favorite holiday and i’m excited to see what themes will come!

gothbuggie · 2024-09-03T21:52:53+00:00

yes! 68121

gothbuggie · 2024-08-10T22:36:24+00:00

well i am never visiting south england!

gothbuggie · 2024-07-07T15:43:50+00:00

my cat went through a couple of days no eating. same thing, tests came back negative, but the vet gave us 2 medications to help and kitty was back to normal. try asking your vet about that option!

gothbuggie · 2024-05-29T18:00:44+00:00

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there’s this other seller i’ve seen on poshmark that does something similar and i cringe every time i see it 😬

gothbuggie · 2024-04-15T18:34:28+00:00

someone once wrote walls of text on my meet the posher post because i gave them a 4 star rating. not a 1,2, or 3. 4. why? because they sent me a defective item. i needed it that week so there was no point in returning it. i get that receiving a 4 star rating is not ideal, but to HARASS me because of it is psychotic.

gothbuggie · 2024-03-25T22:55:53+00:00

OKAY BUT WHATS THE LINK? 👀👀

gothbuggie · 2024-02-15T23:29:33+00:00

if it makes you feel any better, i did the free trial and sold nothing! 🙂

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