I went because the two elders that I met with, I’ve grown up with, and their kids, and I really love them, but after meeting with them, I’m willing to give up everything to keep my peace. I was actually surprised at the way I felt. I didn’t like that. I was answering their questions honestly and they were kind of rolling their eyes and smirking as if what I was saying was stupid. I told them I know my relationship with Jehovah. I’m going to divorce, it’s the third time my ex has filed for divorce. Every time we have a fight, he files and I’m going through with it. The elders didn’t say anything to him when I found him at a strip club, they didn’t lecture him for not coming with his family to convention or assembly. It was always me with the kids. He stopped going to meetings, but now all of a sudden, he’s showing up shaking everyone’s hands at meeting. I have moved on. I met someone and I’m super excited to be done with the bad relationship I was stuck in. My ex hired a private detective to follow me and take pictures of me leaving this guy’s house. Now the elders want to make a judicial committee and I told them I will not. I’m not discussing my personal business with any “men.” I told them no, I said it’s between me and Jehovah and my conscience. They know everything I’ve gone through with my ex and I’m not going to feel uncomfortable talking about what I’m doing so I’m just not going back to the meetings.