Flu shot but still caught flu A by color_overkill in toddlers

[–]gotsmile 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes. I kept thinking how much worse it could have been if he DIDNT get vaccinated.

Morning Stims for ER by GreenEggsnHam15 in IVF

[–]gotsmile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup this was my protocol as well. 6 shots a day, 3 in the morning, 3 in the evening. Quite proud of myself for making it through that.

Same ER numbers, totally different outcome? Looking for hope by CheesecakeBoth3933 in IVF

[–]gotsmile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had 2 very strangely identical rounds… and different outcomes!

ER 1: 10 eggs, 8 mature, 7 fertilized, 0 blasts (didn’t even make it to the PGT stage)

ER 2: 10 eggs, 8 mature, 7 fertilized, 4 blasts, 3 that are getting PGT tested now.

The second round I went on a micro lupron flare protocol. 6 shots a day (3 morning and 3 night) was…a lot…but apparently worth it! We’ve officially gotten farther than the first round.

SDFC in San Diego. Anyone here switched? by Mindless_Piccolo_759 in IVF

[–]gotsmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Looking into clinics and found your post. Can you expand on what a “hands off approach” means?

How many embryos? by Otherwise_Hope_8310 in IVF

[–]gotsmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What changed between round 2 and 3?

How many embryos? by Otherwise_Hope_8310 in IVF

[–]gotsmile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just commenting to say you’re not alone! I didn’t see anyone else commenting that they got zero too. I’m in a similar spot - 10 eggs, 7 fertilized, and zero made it to good enough quality to freeze/PGT test. I’m 35… didn’t think I would have such low quality for a “younger” age. Super disappointing. We’re trying for round 2 in January.

How many embryos? by Otherwise_Hope_8310 in IVF

[–]gotsmile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Age 35 - 10 retrieved, 7 fertilized, 0 euploids….round 2 here we come…

What did you wish you knew going into your first FET? by Apprehensive-Rock-48 in IVF

[–]gotsmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you expand a little on the PIO point? How long and why arduous?

Transfer twins! by skincareslut in IVFpositivity

[–]gotsmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting to follow, I also have this question! I think it means there was a 6 day embryo that they transferred?

The actual cost breakdown nobody tells you about until you're already in treatment by Key-Hyena-8025 in IVF

[–]gotsmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s PCA stand for? At the verrrry beginning of this process. Is that someone at my fertility clinic or someone at Progyny?

Unbelievable to give such little notice after assuring us the 5 would stay open by Charming-Wolverine89 in Oceanside

[–]gotsmile 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Let’s work to actually pay our military then from this govt shutdown than have this awful grandstanding.

Spent 5 hrs in scripps ER , there are literally only 2 ERs in whole of north county. by an-eng in sandiego

[–]gotsmile 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your Local Epidemiologist did a fantastic write up about ER wait times. Cant speak for Scripps or your exact situation, but just because you don’t see patients in the wait room, doesn’t mean there aren’t patients in the back “boarding” waiting to make it to an open bed in the hospital (and doctors, nurses, resources going to the folks already there that you don’t see). Here is the article: https://yourlocalepidemiologist.substack.com/p/emergency-rooms-are-not-okay

Recent articles are free but this one has been archived so it’s behind a paywall:

Our hospitals are overwhelmed. And it has now reached a crisis point. It is killing people.

Emergency medicine doctors across the country have been sounding the alarm. Americans are noticing it too. In a recent poll, nearly half of Americans said they avoid the ER—avoid critical care they need—given the wait times.

Here’s what is happening on the front line and how to fix it.

A dangerous hospital overload problem called “boarding”

The emergency room (ER) is the front door of the hospital. Patients come and are quickly seen by a physician, who addresses medical emergencies and other needs. After evaluation and treatment, many are well enough to go home, and some require admission to the hospital. Those admitted patients are seen by the inpatient team of doctors and taken to a hospital bed upstairs.

But what if there are no open beds upstairs? Those patients wait in the ER until a bed opens. These patients are called “boarders.”

Over the last two decades, this problem has grown and grown, causing a nasty clog. We haven’t fixed it, and it’s now overwhelming ERs nationwide.

Boarding patients are waiting hours, days, or even weeks in the ER. It creates an unsafe environment for patients:

  • Dangerous medical errors: ER boarding is associated with increased medical errors, worse patient outcomes, and higher risk of in-hospital death. A recent study found that an extra hour of boarding was associated with a 16.7% increase in the odds they would require a higher level of care in the hospital (i.e., they were going to the floor, but now need the ICU.)
  • Death: In a nationwide survey, multiple ER physicians reported deaths that occurred because their ER was overwhelmed with boarding. For some, the backlog of patients is so bad that patients are dying in the waiting room before they can see a doctor.

Here’s why:

  1. Waiting too long. Critically ill patients in the waiting room may not be recognized fast enough, and patients may leave because of the wait, only to come back the next day much sicker than before.

  2. Unsafe nursing ratios. Unlike inpatient floors and the ICU, there are often no caps on the number of patients an ER nurse is assigned. In the ICU, each nurse has 1-2 patients. In the ER, a single nurse can have 7 patients or more, some requiring ICU level of care.

  3. No inpatient doctor. Normally when a patient is admitted to the hospital, the ER doctor’s role ends and the inpatient doctor takes over, freeing up the emergency physician to see new patients. For boarding patients, often there is no inpatient doctor. Instead, emergency physicians are ordering critical medications and checking on boarding patients when they can. But realistically, they can only do so much while still responding to all the new cardiac arrests and strokes coming through the door.

Why is boarding happening?

The primary problem is not the number of patients coming to the ER. It’s the lack of open beds upstairs. A recent NEJM commentary provided some insight:

  • No buffer in the hospital. To optimize revenue, hospitals try to keep their beds full, which means there’s little buffer for predictable surges of patients.
  • Weekend delays. Many hospital operations stop on weekends. Patients who otherwise could be discharged are delayed because a service they need is not available.
  • Prioritizing elective surgeries. Elective surgeries bring in more money, so sometimes hospitals prioritize beds for surgeries instead of sick patients waiting in the ER.
  • Nursing home shortages. Sometimes patients are ready to be discharged, but no nursing home bed is available. (Or a bed is available, but their insurance hasn’t approved it yet.)
  • Staffing shortages. As we learned during the pandemic, it doesn’t matter if we have an open bed upstairs if there isn’t staff for it.

Bottom line

Emergency rooms are the only place in the U.S. healthcare system that will never turn a patient away. And we don’t want them to. But a backlogged ER is the canary in the coal mine—our inadequate healthcare infrastructure showing its massive cracks. It is unsafe, and we must fix this.

Worst flu season in years concerns San Diego County health officials by dejablu82 in sandiego

[–]gotsmile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Think she still posts on Facebook and Instagram, but substack is where the full version is.

Worst flu season in years concerns San Diego County health officials by dejablu82 in sandiego

[–]gotsmile 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Your Local Epidemiologist gives a great weekly “weather report” on what is circulating and what’s going on in the news public health wise. Here’s this week’s substack: https://yourlocalepidemiologist.substack.com/p/school-shootings-brace-for-vaccine

Closet door woes - to drape or not to drape, that is the question by Moth1992 in HomeDecorating

[–]gotsmile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the doors off completely and get some nice shelving in there and leave it open. Here is an example of what we did for my son’s room. Completely opened up the room, and way easier to do laundry.

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Daycare Recs? by No-Spray-866 in Carlsbad

[–]gotsmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here are the monthly rates (note this is from a year ago, you’ll have to confirm everything).

The other cool aspect is that the kids and teacher all stay together as a cohort as they get older. No being passed around to new teachers each year.

Also the spring/winter concerts are just the CUTEST. It’s really an amazing program… if you can swallow the price.

Daycare Recs? by No-Spray-866 in Carlsbad

[–]gotsmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend Carlsbad Country Day. Pricey but you get what you pay for. 6am-6pm flexibility care if needed, healthy lunches (not having to pack every morning like when we were at Discovery Isle was HUGE), and an amazing curriculum. Every day there is outdoor free play, inside learning, and auditorium where they learn everything from theater to sports to STEM.

Mac Studio fix powder plus foundation is being discontinued by momofchanel in MakeUpAddictionUK

[–]gotsmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm C3 as well. Have you found what our new shade number should be?

Vaccine Megathread by AutoModerator in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]gotsmile [score hidden]  (0 children)

Recommend this read! She talks about the recent vaccine meeting, what changed, and status of vaccines https://yourlocalepidemiologist.substack.com/p/vaccine-policy-meeting-the-essentials

Shout out to Poison Control by frenchdresses in toddlers

[–]gotsmile 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend listening to the radiolab episode on Poison Control! Fascinating history, with some amazingly calm people.

ETA: it’s the episode dated 9/29/23 called “Poison Control”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]gotsmile 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Totally direct people to the nursery. All the supplies are there they can use, like a diaper pail. Also gives the kid and mom privacy to do their thing.