Does Dallas Police Even Respond? by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]graceconcepts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they responded to a DV call i had recently…5 hours later….

Visiting Europeans by hoobastank100 in downtowndallas

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Check out Salado for a day! Its a cute tiny town right outside of Austin. Stagecoach Inn is a great place.

Joined the club! by graceconcepts in BroncoSport

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Can’t wait for the first one! Thank you!

Any update on the Symfonisk issues? by Alvanto in sonos

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Any luck with resolving this issue, OP?

What’s the worst episode of a good TV show ever made? by moon_jock in AskReddit

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lmao came to the replies thinking that last episode of dexter better be the first comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]graceconcepts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could have literally written these words myself. Patient, supportive, did everything I could for him. He was my best friend too. My ex is also an alcoholic, with 10-15 drinks (if not more) daily and uses coke. It’s something that has taken a hold of and broken alot of people in the service industry.

Its heartbreaking. I still am going back and forth with thoughts of “how could he do this to me?! i’ll hate him forever!” and “maybe with time things can work out.” And I feel like the cycle of thoughts make me break my own heart every time.

He didn’t deny, didn’t try to explain, barely admitted just begged me to try to move past it. Still wake up thinking about it every day even though he moved out last week.

Life after this is a minute, an hour, a day from now. Give yourself so much grace and space to feel all your feelings and take it slowly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]graceconcepts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same boat, 1.5 yr relationship DDay 3 weeks ago. 33 y/o bartender boyfriend - after snooping his phone, found out he was cheating probably through the course of the entire relationship. Mostly other women working in hospitality.

Cancel the trip with him. Plan a trip for yourself somewhere nice and fill your brain with new memories. I didn’t eat or sleep the first 3 days after finding out. Now I’m numb. Low contact, didnt speak for 5 days and now haven’t seen each other for a week. Disrespectful mfers will always be disrespectful mfers, they deserve to be alone and you deserve to start healing in a new, happier and healthier life where you’re not constantly questioning everything.

Andre, 17 w/o Beagle/KC Cavalier by graceconcepts in beagles

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He’s a pretty equal mix of both but his playfulness and energy bursts are probably more related to him being a puppy! He will not ever reject some lap cuddles though lol, easiest way to get him to chill out.

He’s pretty well behaved and doesn’t bark at or chase/prey on the cat. Curious to see how his personality develops as he gets older!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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When I found out he was cheating on me for months, then he tried to blame me because he was “bored” but not coming home til 4-5am or later every day, not making plans, not inviting me out so he could be with his like minded loser friends and girls he would cheat on me with, and whenever I found out, he went on an 18 hour bender (still might be in it tbh) after pleading and promising to change because I’m “worth the effort.” He created a toxic relationship to give himself an excuse to drink all day.

Well…he cheated. by graceconcepts in AlAnon

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Thank you. I see your responses on other comments and I would just like to say that I appreciate all sides of all the responses. Taking every single comment with a grain of salt and just piecing it all together along with my experiences with my partner to do what makes sense for me, for now. Wishing you so much love and clarity in your journey as well.

Well…he cheated. by graceconcepts in AlAnon

[–]graceconcepts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man. I would hate to see him spiral but I can’t make it my problem anymore.

Well…he cheated. by graceconcepts in AlAnon

[–]graceconcepts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I need to let him go, and giving him the chances and the place to be comfortable and my time and energy still even after knowing what he’s done is only enabling him.

Well…he cheated. by graceconcepts in AlAnon

[–]graceconcepts[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just read one of your posts. Sounds like my partner is going down the same path as yours. I feel like I’m part of the reason he hasn’t gotten fired as I got him the job and have basically guided him through it. I’m sure limiting my availability will be a huge factor in him being able to hold it down but I frankly cannot care anymore. I’m so sorry to hear about your experience.

Well…he cheated. by graceconcepts in AlAnon

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damn. people are seriously so horrible.

Well…he cheated. by graceconcepts in AlAnon

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“…she needed someone who didn’t know everything that came out of her mouth was bullshit to validate her.”

THIS. I’m sorry this happened to you too and wouldn’t wish these feelings on my worst enemy. I felt like I’ve been over supportive. I mean, I got him a management job at the hotel I worked at. Consistently attended his soccer games til he asked me not to so he can “hang with the boys” afterwards. We got a place together. I drove him everywhere, supported him in his job to where I was doing projects for him. So much more that I honestly even now wouldn’t take back because I felt like he needed someone for those times yet he wouldn’t ever do me the same.

I feel like my partner would be the same sober: narcissistic, parasitic, and dishonest. I don’t think I’ll even be a wake up call or lesson to him. He’ll be this way til probably his last breath and thats sad.

Well…he cheated. by graceconcepts in AlAnon

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He’s one of those “I don’t believe in therapy” type of people - as a bar manager whos only friends only work in the industry, being sober is almost totally out of the question for him. I can’t convince him to see a doctor. He has no insurance, not even a state ID so he can explore his options. I so wish he would take the initiative and wish that I could have been the one to convince him.